Stories that were recently commented on http://isitnormal.com/lists/comments/rss/ http://isitnormal.com/story/a-personal-journey-31554/ My parents, for better or worse, became Jehovah's Witnesses in the late 70s, the first of a handful of people on an Indian Reservation in the state of Oregon. Both had a fall-out with the religion prior to and during the time I was a very young child. When I was 13 years old I met this Witness boy at school who I shared most of my classes with in junior high. We became friends out of making fun of each other, constantly cracking jokes. While 14 years old, he started studying the bible with me and by the end of my freshman year in high school, I quit the football team, ready to pursue the preaching work more fully, embracing my new found spirituality. Anyone who remembers me at that time knew me as "that guy who wears suits all of the time". I graduated high school while engaging in the full-time ministry work of going door-to-door and trying to study the bible with people. After high school, in my early 20s, I had a fall-out with the religion and have since been a wandering soul, not fully embracing a life outside of the religion but not going back to it either, someone who neither belongs here nor there but somewhere in the middle. I began drinking and meeting strange women, exploring my personal sexuality, something people normally do when they're teenagers, started watching Rated R movies and even fell back into swearing. While I make attempts to "blend in" with "normal" people, I still come off as incredibly naive and even quaint, kind of like everybody's grandparents. I am certainly no angel but am definitely not a "bad boy" and I find it difficult to explain myself to others. I sometimes wonder if anyone else feels like they are drifting somewhere out there in the void between two different realities of existence, not able to find their way in either realms. Lost & Confused, hoserdomechild http://isitnormal.com/story/a-personal-journey-31554/ Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:20:57 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/what-should-i-do-is-it-normal-to-like-someone-for-so-long-31542/ I’ve liked this guy for almost five years now. It all started when one day when our teacher changed the seats and we were placed together. The reason that I’ve liked him for so long maybe the fact that he was the first guy that was really nice and friendly to me without judging me by my looks. By of that school year I asked him out. His answer was to wait for the following school year to start a relationship. At that time I was really overly obsessive about him that my friends started to complain about how I talked about him too much. I got his number that last day of school and talked to him a couple times throughout that summer. When the next school year started and we started talking every night on the phone and gradually we got to know each other really well. In school we acted as if we didn’t know each other, but on the phone we were good friends. My attempts of asking him out were countless and I didn’t give up until the 7th time. When two years passed by as friends, my family and I moved to Canada because of my father’s job. That summer I moved away thinking that I would never come back. When one month passed by and my parents told me that I could move back and live with my uncle if I wanted to. Because of this guy, I did. We continued talking every night and took each other as friends. I tried to hold back my feelings until one day when I saw him making out with his girlfriend in the hallway. At that time it was the fourth year we talked to each other every night. I knew that I had to face reality that he didn’t like me more than as a friend, but I couldn’t face it. I lost control and got mad at him instead. That night I exploded all my bottled feelings and confessed that I still liked him. When he found out that I was going to move back to Canada to live with my parents he started to find more time for us to hang out together on weekends and I got to know his family. Those times together rather made me think of him even more and made me believe that there was somehow hope for a long-distance relationship. It’s been a year now since we have seen each other, we talk about once a month but I still can’t stop thinking about him. Every now and then I think that he is ignoring me but then I forgive him by thinking that he is probably busy. I don’t know what to do next… forget him and our five years of friendship, or is there another solution to my problem' http://isitnormal.com/story/what-should-i-do-is-it-normal-to-like-someone-for-so-long-31542/ Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:17:01 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/girlfriend-shakes-all-the-time-31540/ well my girlfriend shakes constantly, like shakey hands, shakey lips, feet, just body in general. have you ever seen a old grama shake' or a little chihuahua' does she have parkinsons' diabetes' she's only 18, 5'0 and weighs 100 lbs. help me out, i'm really stuck. http://isitnormal.com/story/girlfriend-shakes-all-the-time-31540/ Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:15:15 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/anybody-else-find-mcdonalds-disgusting-24591/ I know, claiming that McDonalds is disgusting in a forum full of Americans is like going down to a trailer park with a megaphone and yelling "Wal Mart sucks" But seriously. When I set a cheeseburger out on a picnic table, not even flies would go near it. And they eat sh*t. Anybody else find McDonalds disgusting' http://isitnormal.com/story/anybody-else-find-mcdonalds-disgusting-24591/ Sun, 22 Nov 2009 00:02:51 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/16-and-still-bare-bottom-spanked-2208/ I am a 16 year old girl and I still get bare bottom spankings from my dad. I had a date saturday night and came in past curfew and as soon as I came in, my dad made me go to my room and pull my pants down and gave a me spanking with Mom's old hairbrush. I get spanked about 2 or 3 times a month. I get good grades and don't cause any trouble. My parents are way too strict with me. How can I get them to stop treating me like a five year old' http://isitnormal.com/story/16-and-still-bare-bottom-spanked-2208/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 22:02:07 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-wish-it-was-acceptable-to-wear-girls-clothes-35720/ I'm getting a bit sick of the limited range of what it is acceptable for guys to wear, at least in my social circle. Girls have a much wider range of clothing to choose from, compared to the jeans or shorts, t-shirt or button-up, and possibly a jacket that guys can wear. Is it normal to be this irate at the lack of variation available' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-wish-it-was-acceptable-to-wear-girls-clothes-35720/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:20:52 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-hate-your-husband-35873/ Ok, so I just got married 8 months ago & suddenly I want out. I have been madly in love with him this whole time and thought I was happy, but now the past week I have realized how miserable I am in this life. He doesn't have a job and we have no real income (we live off my unemployment - and thats barely anything)... he hasnt had a job since a few months after we got married. he can't pass his ged (took it 4 times), he is very stubborn. we get in arguments daily. He never listens to me, and just wants to have sex. I am also 9mos. pregnant with his kid. I am someone who wants to go to college, have a career, and not be on welfare. he is lazy, all he does is smoke weed and watch tv. he doesnt have any ambition for anything in life. I dont know what to do. If i get divorced what would be the point of marriage. I also dont want to do that to my kid. I want to love him but I am so depressed I feel like killing myself if I have to be stuck in this stagnant relationship. http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-hate-your-husband-35873/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:19:51 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-weird-to-be-spanked-by-your-father-in-law-35729/ Ok, so more of a scenerio then a story. My husband is a different nationality then I. The woman in thier family obey their men, not just the husband but the men of the family. He grew up with a strict father and his mother and sisters were openly disciplined by the dad,a.k.a. the head of the family. I knew this going into the marriage and my husband is the head of our family. Took a bit of getting used to, because I was not expecting to be physiaclly punished. I do get spanked for disobeying and being disrespectful, I am NOT abused and I have accepted this as part of our marriage. This I can live with and I do not mind obeying a direct order or the rules he has set forth. I submit to him in everyway. That being said, we were at a family function and I had been drinking very strong Long Island Ice Teas. I was a bit drunk and while my husband was not in attendance at this event, (he was traveling so he was on his way but did not make it until the next morning) he was told my behavior was inappropriate. I was swearing and rude to my mother-in-law. I was joking but in her culture it was rude. So, the next morning i came downstairs to find my in-laws and husband speaking, I was asked to sit down and was scolded for like 45 minutes. Then after, was told i would need to be reprimanded for my behavior. I assumed my husband and I would retire to the bedroom and i would be soundly spanked with his belt. Not the case... you can imagine my ebarassment when I found out i was to be pusinshed bare, over my father-in-laws knee witha strap for 25 minutes. My father-in-law seeing my naked, along with the other family members. My sister-in-law who was drunk as well, received the same punishment. We were then instructed to stand in seperate corners of the kitchen to think of our behavior. We had to keep our panties down so all would see the embarassing marks of the strap and we had to hold a quarter with our nose to the wall and our hands were not allowed to rub out the sting from our strapping. I was so embarassed. I then had to write a letter of apology to my FIL. I was told this will be a once a month event until my behavior improves and i am more submissive and less mouthy. Next weekend will be my next session with my FIL. Has this happened to anyone else' Does anyone get punished like this' MY FIL still straps or canes his daughters and wife. The daughters are grown and married and have children. Please help...please someone say I am not alone! I love my hubby but do not know if I can accept this. Advise' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-weird-to-be-spanked-by-your-father-in-law-35729/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:17:59 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-have-an-itchy-smelly-fanny-35734/ usually my fanny is really itchy and smells really fishy and pooey. is this because i sometimes pat some poo on it, as ive heard this is like an intensive moisturisation technique. i9ts itching right now! http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-have-an-itchy-smelly-fanny-35734/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:14:20 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not-wear-a-bra-and-underwear-35737/ Is it normal to not wear a bra and underwear' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not-wear-a-bra-and-underwear-35737/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:13:39 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/looking-for-a-freak-35739/ I'm wishing for someone strange, who most people might call a freak. Someone whose had a lonely childhood and maybe isn't very good with people. I'm looking for someone like me: lost, desperate, kinky, uncouth, shy, hopefully with an interest in music and movies. I don't care about looks. If nothing else, I'd like an understanding friend. I never go anywhere though, barely get out at all and I don't know how I'll meet a person like this. http://isitnormal.com/story/looking-for-a-freak-35739/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:12:27 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/yall-out-their-think-its-bad-that-i-lost-my-virginity-at-the-age-of-12-35753/ hey guys i was wondering and i was thinking about this ever since it happend i asked this girl if i could fingure her and while i was doing it we started going farther that bad thing is i did not have a condom but i relized it after i had it in her for a while luckely i took it out then ejackulated i was 12 when this happend i just wanted to know wat yall think about this. http://isitnormal.com/story/yall-out-their-think-its-bad-that-i-lost-my-virginity-at-the-age-of-12-35753/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:08:33 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/another-personality-in-my-head-after-nearly-dying-28087/ Okay... Long story short, a few years back I got really dumb for awhile and tried to kill myself. Stupid, I know. But the strange thing is, that somewhere in that near-death thing, I seem to have picked up a new separate person in my head. A few notable things... This other personality is not my gender... I hear it like someone talking in my head. I get random comments, and even argue with them occasionally. I have a family member who is schizophrenic, and I'm unfortunately quite familiar with the symptoms, and of the list, I only have the one. And it's not even voices, it's just one. A voice that has provided a name and a whole personality. This other personality has even helped when I'm stuck writing on one of my books, and contrary to my understanding of the human thought process, I can hear this voice even while thinking of other things, like someone talking to me outside of my head. I don't know a lot of people who've come that close to dying, and I was wondering how often weird stuff like this happens. There's strangely not a lot of stuff online that I can find that's useful. http://isitnormal.com/story/another-personality-in-my-head-after-nearly-dying-28087/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:07:09 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/home-and-away-35754/ Every night my girlfriend rushes home to watch Home & Away (http://au.tv.yahoo.com/home-and-away/). She claims to be normal, but she watches this show. I'm too embarrassed to tell our friends or ask for help. Is she normal or if not can her handicap be managed' http://isitnormal.com/story/home-and-away-35754/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:06:52 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/older-man-flirting-with-younger-girl-35783/ I have a older man I work with he's 50 and i'm only 20. We been fooling around at work and I enjoy it. I know he's married and he's got kids. I was just trying to have some fun with this guy. Make him smile. He is really nice to me. He wants to do more with me should I nip it in the butt or continue with it. His perception is we have't done anything wrong. I want to ask him about his wife but thats none of my business' http://isitnormal.com/story/older-man-flirting-with-younger-girl-35783/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:02:19 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/to-get-dumped-for-stupid-reasons-35793/ i am always getting dumped for stupid reasons i ask a girl hey y did u dump me and they think for a second and come up with some really lame excuse i literally had a girl tell me that she wanted to live life to the fullest and didnt want a bf cause she didnt want to deal with it cause she was dying i have to say i laughed i was like omg i cant believe she even tried that haha well anyway is it normal just reply thanks http://isitnormal.com/story/to-get-dumped-for-stupid-reasons-35793/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:57:25 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/pics-from-the-ex-35800/ My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple months and I knew he was still friends with his ex and I'm fine with that. But recently I found out she has been sending him pics of herself. It's nothing sexual, its the cutesy staring up at the camera pics that 12 year old girls love to take(and she is in her 20's). I dont think its appropriate for her to be sending them, but he thinks im over reacting and jealous when i ask him to ask her to stop sending them. Is it normal for the guy's ex to send pictures of themselves to your boyfriend' http://isitnormal.com/story/pics-from-the-ex-35800/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:55:15 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/eating-ass-eeeewwwwwwww-35823/ Why is it that some guys want me to lick their butt holes' I just don't understand it. And some of them want to lick my ass too!! I always refuse because that's just plain icky!! but why do guys like to have some one eat their ass' It can't be sanitary. http://isitnormal.com/story/eating-ass-eeeewwwwwwww-35823/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:50:20 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/fingering-35825/ hi ,i have been fingering myself only recently. all my friends say that its the best thing to get turned on.they then ask me what i think about it and i cant tell them the truth as i havent got wet or excited over it. i wanna feel it and masturbate or get wet ...HELP! xx http://isitnormal.com/story/fingering-35825/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:46:53 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-have-a-large-dick-35829/ Is it normal to have a 13" dick' My girlfriend is astonished for some reason. http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-have-a-large-dick-35829/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:44:59 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/scared-of-needin-to-sh-t-and-not-being-able-to-35846/ Okey, so it hasn't always been like this; I was like anyone else (I mean, I could never sh*t in school and only in public if it was breaking through) A few months ago, I'd had gastro problems and had been medicated to stop the mouth vomit. What hadn't been explained to me was the eventual ass vomit. I'd been stuck on the train like any other day when all of a sudden I got these massive stomach pains and I honestly thought I was going to f**king die. Few seconds later I realised there was a nasty chocolate slurry mixing around my bowels, so I duck waddled home, all the while enduring these horrible gut pains (kind of like a heart attack, but not) I got home, dumped the most god-awful, foul beast of a turd in the bowel and felt fine. Since then however, I've been anxious about leaving the house for an extended period, or being trapped in a place where I won't have access to a sh*tter. Does anyone else have this neurotic fear of no-sh*t zones' (especially due to traumic circumstances) http://isitnormal.com/story/scared-of-needin-to-sh-t-and-not-being-able-to-35846/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:42:09 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/gunk-under-the-toenails-35767/ Every now and then, I like to dig out bits of gunk usually found under the corners of my big toe toenails and then smell it, it doesn't smell good, but it keeps me sniffing...I sometimes do it when I cut my toenails too...normal'.. http://isitnormal.com/story/gunk-under-the-toenails-35767/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:41:56 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/why-are-so-many-americans-so-closed-minded-35849/ Reading through so many of these posts, I am shocked at the sheer ignorance and closed mindedness of many of the posters. Perhaps I am wrong to assume that they are mostly Americans, but it seems that way. Does anyone else feel the same way' http://isitnormal.com/story/why-are-so-many-americans-so-closed-minded-35849/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:38:30 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-think-of-the-worst-things-that-can-possibly-happen-35833/ Whenever I'm doing something, I always think of the worst thinks that can possibly happen. Like today I was walking with my friend and I saw this lady sitting on a bench and I said to my friend "What if she pulls out a knife and shanks us'" No matter what im doing, I think of terrible things that could happen to me. Is it normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-think-of-the-worst-things-that-can-possibly-happen-35833/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:34:32 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/dont-blindly-follow-religion-24605/ Well I have noticed that many religious people seem to be very intolerant of other religions even though there isn't any solid evidence to back them up. And that many people just blindly follow their religion without ever stopping to think about it. I'm atheist and I have tried to stay very tolerant of religions but recently I have been getting more and more intolerant of those who stick by their religion without ever questioning it. I do not like the idea of organized religion, I do not mind people believing that is true, I am all for that, but the actual organized religion takes away what you are meant to believe in, which is whatever you think is honestly true, I have listened to many different religions and why they dislike the whole atheism thing and why they think that their religion is right, I honestly believe that most-all parts of atheism is true, not because I was raised that way(i was raised a christian) but because I had thought about it a lot and thought that atheism was true. That I do not mind, if you think about your religion compare it in an un-bias way against the other religions and you still believe yours is true for more reasons than just you were raised to believe it, then I can respect you, if you believe in anything that your priest, rabbi, etc... tells you just because they are your priest or rabbi or watever then I really cannot respect that. I have a thing against organized religion in general, it just distracts people from trying to find out about what they truly believe in, I urge you to take some time and think about what you truly believe, stay unbiased or it will not work and you will be even worse than before. http://isitnormal.com/story/dont-blindly-follow-religion-24605/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:23:24 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-can-not-feel-much-35862/ My entire life, I am dead inside. I do not feel remorse for my actions, nor do I ever feel bad for a persons feelings. I watch you all and wonder what it would be like to feel, but I can't... No matter what. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-can-not-feel-much-35862/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 19:59:48 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/fat-people-riding-scooters-1306/ Is it normal that I get very frustrated when I see fat people riding around on motor scooters in wal-mart' It gives me the urge to just yell at them to walk around, and maybe then they wouldn't be so fat. I mean, if you are that fat, clearly you should start walking around to lose the weight right' I am just really cold hearted, or are there other people out there who think the same way' http://isitnormal.com/story/fat-people-riding-scooters-1306/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 19:38:27 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-talking-to-yourself-bad-35741/ talk to myself constantly. And they arent just simple conversations because I am bored. Like I have arguments with myself that I never finish. I find that talking to myself helps me think, but I am worried that if I talk too much to myself that I will go insane or that I will ignore the world and live in my own world. Do you think I have taken my habit too far' I am scared to ask someone I personally know for help. So the comments would be very much appreciated. Thank you http://isitnormal.com/story/is-talking-to-yourself-bad-35741/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 19:23:34 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-this-a-normal-dream-to-have-31299/ Okay, so a while back I had this dream, and it scared the hell out of me. I fell asleep in the middle of reading '1984', so I'm wondering whether that had something to do with it. I dreamt I was at the beach with the guy I liked, and he just started walking away from me. So I went with him. He turns around and says go away, he's going to see his girlfriend. So I'm obviously heartbroken, and I start walking back down to the sand. As I'm walking, he and a couple of other people run past shouting 'You've gotta see this!' So I ran after them to a train station where everyone was leaning over a bridge watching something. I could hear someone screaming as the train got closer. I looked over the fence on the bridge and there was a little boy on the tracks, and a train was coming. No one was trying to help him, they stood there giggling and watching. I scream at them to do something, but they don't hear me. I knew there was nothing I could do, because I wasn't close enough. Everyone started running off just before the train arrived, and I ran to the other side of the station to hide behind a wall. I hear the kid scream as the train comes through, and the air goes all misty and red.I knew he was dead I look up, and there blood pouring over the wall, and all over me. I try and run, but it stil gets me; I try and rub it off, but I'm absolutely covered in the kids blood. I look at the guy I like and he's just laughing. Everyone was laughing. This is where I woke up, and was almost sick. It freaked me out so much, my hands were shaking and I couldn't stop thinking about it. Is it normal to have dreams like that' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-this-a-normal-dream-to-have-31299/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 19:19:10 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/mentally-correcting-people-s-pronunciation-all-the-time-31495/ This like an OCD thing that I do ... Whenever people are talking (to me, to others, in a movie; it doesn't matter) I compulsively correct (in my head) any pronunciation that I'm unhappy with. Sometimes I'm so bothered by it that I literally repeat their sentence out loud to say it correctly, without explaining myself. I just interrupt them out of nowhere. It's really embarassing. If someone's pronunciation is good then it's totally fine, but if they have bad words with every single sentence then I can't even follow the conversation because my brain is going insane, correcting everything they mispronounce in my head. I'm extremely specific about it too. An example off this page: "repetitive": if someone pronounced it "repet-uh-tive", I'd need to repeat that in my head with the correct "i" syllable. I know it's totally crazy but I get really distracted by this. http://isitnormal.com/story/mentally-correcting-people-s-pronunciation-all-the-time-31495/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 19:14:20 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-eat-spiders-35879/ I live in a house surrounded by woodland and I get a lot of insects and other creepy crawlers at home. But every time I see I spider, I love to eat them. Is that normal' Is it dangerous' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-eat-spiders-35879/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:52:23 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-being-weird-35880/ I like to stay in my room all day and do nothing, I can stay in my room for like, 3 to 4 days without going out to see the sunlight. And I hate doing houseworks! I hate it when my parents scolded at me or trying to preach me. I don't go out much, I don't have friends and plus, I really really REALLY hate my brothers like hell but I love my sisters, I'm the youngest one. [My English is poor, sorry!] http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-being-weird-35880/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:50:08 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-really-really-need-help-35016/ I'm an 18 year old virgin, unemployed, afraid to drive, afraid most of the time to go out and be around people. I have incredibly low self-esteem and have no idea how to live in an adult world. I have no friends at all. I live with my grandparents and see no way out. They're no help at all as they are religious fanatics and social outcasts and cultural luddites and would be perfectly content with my living with them forever. I didn't go to high school and have been living with them under the false pretense of being home schooled. I don't live my mom because she lives , of course, with my step-dad who seriously abused me emotionally, was always putting me down and playing head games hard to describe. I still have nightmares about him sometimes. I don't live with my dad, who is fairly decent, because I don't know him that well and have very little in common with him. I used to be fat and smoke cigarettes but I've quit smoking and lost a lot of weight in the past couple years. I've been trying to improve myself and my self image. I now play guitar and work out strenuously and often. I’m in pretty decent shape and still gaining a lot of muscle, but my self-esteem still sucks. I feel like I could be normal happy person and function in the world if I could just get out, maybe live with someone like a surrogate parent for awhile, an understanding R. P. McMurphy/Jesus Christ like person. That's my absurd fantasy anyway. When I do get out I would like to travel allot, live in California then France then England then New York. I'd like experience as much as possible, be with both male and female lovers, experiment with lots of psychedelic drugs, and go on playing my guitar, maybe in bands and for different and interesting gigs. I Really want to live a life. My childhood has been very lonely and painful and I hate almost every moment of it. I'm hardly ever around the opposite sex and have to subsist on a sh*tload of porn and fantasies. I have, like I said, no friends at all and find solace only in movies and music. I’m going a little insane from loneliness, but I try hard to keep myself busy improving myself in what ways I can. I have thought of suicide in the past. I need help. Is any of it normal' Am I normal' Can someone help me' I'm in counseling now, the early stages but I’ve been before and feel like I need something else. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-really-really-need-help-35016/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:46:56 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/sexual-preference-tends-to-change-33334/ I love guys, girls and all that's in between. I just consider myself bi to keep things simple. An interesting thing that I've noticed is that who I'm attracted to (in terms of gender) changes every now and then. For example, I'll only get turned on by men for a while and then it'll change to women etc. Anyone else experience something similar' http://isitnormal.com/story/sexual-preference-tends-to-change-33334/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:35:51 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/curvy-23858/ I love being a curvy girl. All the boys I've ever met who are into curvy women are so gorgeous. Plus, they're usually wayyyy hornier than normal boys. Big girls rule. http://isitnormal.com/story/curvy-23858/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:26:59 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/normal-to-sh-t-on-your-own-balls-when-taking-a-dump-29738/ Ok, so I haven't done this personally, but I was discussing taking a crap with one of my mates the other day (as you do) and he got a little over excited and revealed to me that he's crapped on his balls before. After I quizzed him a little more and appeared incredulous he told me he's only done it once or twice, and only when his crap was 'particularly explosive'. I have NEVER crapped on my balls before. I don't see how anyone could. When I take a crap it's usually so cold my balls are like up inside my stomach, not hanging down in the goddamn bowl. Has anyone else done this before' Come close' Does it require particularly large/saggy balls or just that your balls aren't up inside you, away from the cold' I'd try crapping on my own balls bu yeah... messy. Thanks. http://isitnormal.com/story/normal-to-sh-t-on-your-own-balls-when-taking-a-dump-29738/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:23:50 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-a-vampire-29735/ Ok, i wake up this morning, and my mirrors are on the floor, my aircons are off, and i have to very strange small bites just below my left breast. I freaked out as i was in the shower cuz i just relised, it very will could have been vampires/ bats. I do have vampirish feelings, i bite my friends neck and shoulders once, really randomly, and i have vampire teeth, i stay indoors all the time, but other than that, i have very teenage girl like feelings: cant stop lookin myself in the mirror, can shop till i drop.. and so on... But i have been really intreseted with Vampires since this morning.. and yer, i got my mirrors back up and all that, and dad said the power might have gone out, but his aircon didnt go off. I really wanna be a vampire now and i cant get it off my mind ... TURN ME INTO A VAMPIRE!! Could i be a vampire' Is it normal to think this, and want to be won' http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-a-vampire-29735/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:21:26 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-love-it-when-people-hate-me-23841/ I seem to thrive from the harsh words of others. I love it when someone hates me for just being me. I tend to be loud, and act out of the norm alot. Because this seems to be what gets them upset. Example: Last year in school, there was this one girl who i knew couldnt stand me since the first time i looked in her direction. She would always talk about me behind my back (little comments like fat ass, lesbian w****,) it was always so plesant for me. It was like every time i smiled she got a little more pissed off. Everytime i answered a question in class she would glare daggers at me. Once i was talking to one of the teachers aids because she saw me in a fabric store. The aid asked me if i could sew, and I told her yes and right when i said that the girl whipped around in her chair almost knocking the desk over just so she could yell "SO!" and glare at me. At that moment i felt so happy and I didn't know why. I constantly try to keep an extremely high opinion of myself just because it seems to make others mad. I dont know why or if other people are like this too but I dont seem to be able to help myself. It just seems so easy to irritate someone with just a smile. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-love-it-when-people-hate-me-23841/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:20:21 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/constant-thoughts-of-self-harm-33337/ I used to compulsively scratch myself when I felt very stressed etc. I've now started cutting and biting myself and the thoughts of hurting myself are always seething underneath, like a sort of obsession. It's not so much the release of the pain that gets to me now - it's more the satisfaction of giving in to the nagging in my head. The thoughts are constantly there, even when nothing has triggered off the urge to cut (how it used to be.) Now, I know that self harm isn't a healthy behaviour, but it's this constant urge that has developed that I'm bothered about. Anyone know what I'm talking about' http://isitnormal.com/story/constant-thoughts-of-self-harm-33337/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:18:16 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-feel-i-have-bad-anxiety-the-butterflies-in-my-stomach-annoy-me-29723/ I get into awful slumps. I'd say it's anxiety. I have this feeling that something's always wrong. I move my legs a lot, like shaking. i feel irritable. i have butterflies in my stomach for extended periods of time. like im always expecting a big drop or im falling. i don really have trouble sleeping, although i only sleep about 4-5 hours a night. it's happened before prolly for about 5 months in a row' i got over it before....but it's been happening again for the past 2 weeks. sometimes i feel like i should go to a psychologist.... http://isitnormal.com/story/i-feel-i-have-bad-anxiety-the-butterflies-in-my-stomach-annoy-me-29723/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:17:38 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/should-her-ex-be-calling-her-names-29726/ Ok so my BEST friend in the world (my little sister) is 15 and she broke up with her boyfriend. Well now he calls her all sorts of names. Some include w**** sl*t and skank. She has asked me the meanings of someof these words and i dont know what to do! HELP! Is it normal for her ex to do this' http://isitnormal.com/story/should-her-ex-be-calling-her-names-29726/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:16:40 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-a-virgin-when-you-live-by-yourself-at-19-35848/ I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm still a virgin. I moved out about a year ago and just recently got my own apartment. I haven't had a boyfriend in over a year and a half. It just makes me wonder if it's normal for people who live by themselves to be single for so long. In high school when I had a boyfriend we had to find ways to sneak around the parents and now that I have my own place, I haven't gotten any action. I'm just wondering if I'm the only one who's excited to have their own place but has no one to bring over... http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-a-virgin-when-you-live-by-yourself-at-19-35848/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:13:47 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/my-boyfriend-has-extreamly-bad-anxiety-and-i-cant-understand-it-35855/ My boy friend has social anxiety,depression, and all sorts of emotional issues. He says he isn't human and that he doesnt have a need to talk to people or associate himself with the world. He would rather sit home all day and hide from his problems. It has been a long time since Ive seen him genuinly happy. He wont go to therapy he says its a waste of time and money. Im really afraid that his problems will slowly tear apart our relationship. He'll wake me up in the middle of the night crying and fighting with me. HE constantly thinks im gonna leave him. Its just really frustrating, and alot of the things he says is hypocritical or doesnt make sense to me. What do i do' http://isitnormal.com/story/my-boyfriend-has-extreamly-bad-anxiety-and-i-cant-understand-it-35855/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:11:27 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-me-or-my-boyfriend-31718/ i've known my boyfriend for about a year and he's been honest about everything to me, or so i hope. He's over seas with his dad now but i'm afraid he might find someone better than me and he might not tell me. Will he actually go off and meet someone better or is it all in my head' i'm a really nice person and i want to know before i get hurt. Thanks http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-me-or-my-boyfriend-31718/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:10:53 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/too-obsessed-with-a-person-35854/ I'm deeply in love with someone who is very complicated. I can't see if he likes me or not, it might seem as a little thing but it's really killing me inside. He's the only thing I think about, and makes me forget everything about school. I used to be a top student, with high marks and now I rarely even do my homework. The only thing I think about is how I look for him, where he is, does he like me' It's just not me, I never though I'd ever fall in love and be so obsessed with a certain person. But it's because he's special. Things that make me feel that he doesn't like me is that whenever we're alone (which is not that often) he's being all cold to me, he never starts conversation with me on msn just sometimes and when I do he's still being cold which he isn't with the others. He hang around with way too many other girls and is very popular. This really hurts me and I don't know what to do. I dont want my life to be ruined because of him, especially when/if he doesn't like me. What to do' http://isitnormal.com/story/too-obsessed-with-a-person-35854/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:09:06 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/daughter-humps-pillows-35608/ I cought my daughter humping a pillow and i was wondering if it is normal. she is 12. I also need new masterbating techniques. any suggestions' http://isitnormal.com/story/daughter-humps-pillows-35608/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:04:32 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/masturbate-with-sister-23794/ I masturbate like EVERY day. More then once. *& i have this hugehugehuge urge to make my sister watch me. *& turn her on. But im not a lesbian *& obviously i dont like incest. Its weird. Is it normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/masturbate-with-sister-23794/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 17:56:25 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/why-is-this-normal-35076/ I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 months and its going well. Recently though I've been having this problem - I don't like it when he touches me even if its on the waist or on my back on bare skin. It makes me cringe and I don't like it but I don't know why. Sometimes it even makes me close my eyes as if I'm in pain but it doesn't hurt. He's my first boyfriend so I thought it might be that I'm not used to it, but I'm not sure. Is it cause we've only been together 2 months' Or something else' http://isitnormal.com/story/why-is-this-normal-35076/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 17:43:55 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-feel-old-at-18-35727/ My entire senior year can be characterized by two words: drugs and alcohol. We spent every weekend drinking lots of beer and doing any drug we could buy. You name a drug, I've done it... and lots of it.. (except meth and heroin) Now that I'm in college, at a large university, I feel like I'm already partied out. Nothing can compare to the awesome fun I had with my friends a year ago, and it always bums me out. I never go out and party anymore. I smoke weed, take hydros, and sleep. That's all. http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-feel-old-at-18-35727/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 17:20:41 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-hate-all-the-bad-drivers-35725/ the other day i was walking a 20-25 minute walk from the bus stop to my home. because i live in a rural area there aren't any pavements until the last 5 minutes of the walk. while i was walking to my house about 10 cars (not all at the same time) were doing 60 MPH past me and leaving me about 1.5 feet of room .all of them were in 4x4's, that's a statement "all the gear and no idea" but by time i got home i felt positively traumatized. is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-hate-all-the-bad-drivers-35725/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 17:19:52 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-work-with-a-very-shady-witch-35709/ I am 22 years old and I work with a young lady who is in a position higher up than me and she constantly acts like such a prick. I knew that she despised me from day 1 of the job, and I have heard her say horrible things about me with my own two ears. Not two long ago this young lady told another coworker that that "kayla (as in me) is so stupid," without knowing that I was totally within earshot of what she had said. I also heard this young woman make certain comments to her friends like, "Kayla is the ugliest person alive, or Kayla's hair looks pathetic." This woman is 24 years old and I just thought that those comments were ended after high school. Today, when she saw that I was looking at my upcoming work schedule, (a document in which all coworkers are entitled to see) she totally flipped out on me, and acted as if seeing someone else look at something that she wanted to view first was the worse thing that ever happened to her' What is her problem' And why is she acting this way' Seriously, I don't even think she realizes what kind of effect her comments have on me, because there have been countless times in which I have had to run to the supply room to avoid being seen in tears...... Could anyone tell me what is going on' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-work-with-a-very-shady-witch-35709/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 17:17:03 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/manboobs-big-deal-or-not-35700/ Hi, im 18 and a senior in high school. I used to be in good shape, football, sports, really athletic, then my doctor put me on medicine for anxiety. I gained a lot of weght. I am now 279lbs and 6' 1". I got off the medicine and have lost. Even as far back as i can remember i was very insecure about my chest area. I wear tight shirts underneath to hide it or wear sweat shirts. Ive found a girl that i thhnk likes me but with dating im really insecure about having sex due to that. Is it a huge factor and turnoff' http://isitnormal.com/story/manboobs-big-deal-or-not-35700/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 17:14:26 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-pop-the-little-bumps-around-my-nipples-35675/ OK so ive basically admitted to myself that im a little weird about pimples and skin, i constantly pick and peel the skin around my nails, and pop every pimple/blackhead/whitehead i can reach, but recently (within the last year) ive noticed i can squeeze some of the little bumps around my nipples and a little white stuff will come out. Every time i undress i cant help but squeeze a few of them. Im just wondering if I'm the only one who has discovered this, or if im just the only weirdo who actually does it. http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-pop-the-little-bumps-around-my-nipples-35675/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 16:39:26 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-if-your-boobs-pop-or-start-to-pop-out-of-ur-bra-35694/ Everyday I put a shirt and bra on then today My boobs started to or were looking like they were gonna pop out of my bra is that normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-if-your-boobs-pop-or-start-to-pop-out-of-ur-bra-35694/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 16:39:21 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-lie-35678/ Everytime i talk to people i can't really tell the whole truth, perhaps because i'm ashamed or i want people to like me. Someone may ask: "how many beers did you have that evening" I know it just were 3, but i say it were 5 anyway in an effort to conform to the social norm. But it goes further, when someone asks me what i prefer and my preference goes against the norm. For example i like this crazy book or strange music, i'm afraid to admit it. Telling small lies almost every sentence, it makes life so much easier at times (but sometimes not). My biggest fear is that others will find out. Is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-lie-35678/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 16:30:30 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-constantly-check-your-stories-that-you-had-written-35676/ When I am bored of studying tax law...which seems to be all the time now, I tend to check to see if someone has commented on one of my comments or stories that I post here. I am often disappointed and looking at the dates, I bet it will be about six months before I get some really good feedback, and that depresses me as I truly wish this site was more populated. Also, I hope to read a comment from one of those few I respect and I haven't seen one yet. Does anyone else feel this way or is that normal' Paul Budthewise http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-constantly-check-your-stories-that-you-had-written-35676/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 16:19:03 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/phantom-dumper-721/ I habitually fouled my neighbours driveway. There has been animosity between our family and the one next door virtually from the outset. The petty bickering continued to and fro for years. As the middle child I took it upon myself to wreak some retribution on our neighbours and I chose shit as my weapon. About once a quarter I would sneak over the hedge separating the properties and take a dump in their driveway, under cover of darkness. I was amazed at the size of the produce when it wasn't in it's usual porcelin surroundings. In the next day or so, the family would emerge from their house, wrinkle their noses and spy the big pile of shit. John (the man of the house) usually took it upon himself to cover it up, as you would a corpse, presumably to stop it scaring the children and ruining his wife's hairdo. Me and dad thought it was absolutely hilarious and the topic was often mulled at family meal time conversations although I never let on that I was the culprit, despite some pointed accusations. In actual fact you guys are the first people I have ever told, a good 15 years on from the original deed (I did it for about a year). Well, at least I didn't go round and pop a cap in his ass like you crazy yanks, we are much more civilised in the UK. http://isitnormal.com/story/phantom-dumper-721/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 16:12:03 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/collecting-porn-26294/ When I first got Windows 95, I decided I wanted a high value photo of a beautiful naked woman for my wall paper. Over the years, I've gotten very good at finding sources of free photos. I can now download thousands every day (an unlimited number, really, if I had enough time on my hands). By far, however, the vast majority are really ugly pictures of ugly people doing ugly things in ugly ways. I try to delete these as quickly as possible so they don't burn my brain too badly. After all this time, I've kept only about 700 extraordinarily beautiful, erotic pictures (at least to me). I'm still looking for the ultimate beautiful woman, well posed, well photographed, and I never seem to get tired of it. http://isitnormal.com/story/collecting-porn-26294/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 16:10:21 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not-mind-having-to-babysit-younger-siblings-35670/ In our family situation I end up babysitting my 2 baby brothers a real lot. My friends are always surprised when they hear it's ok with me. Even my mom sometimes talks like i hate it saying "I hope you don't mind...." or "I'm sorry for asking you to ....". But it's (at least most of the time) perfectly fine with me. I feel it's my contribution and I love my brothers. So why does everybody assume I hate it' Am http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not-mind-having-to-babysit-younger-siblings-35670/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 15:35:06 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-straight-but-like-girly-music-35669/ lately i have been obsessed with lady gaga, i think shes weird but i love her songs for some reason.. and other girly songs i like too like hannah montana (only her song party in the usa lol) is this normal'!'! i know im straight as well http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-straight-but-like-girly-music-35669/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 15:33:05 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-count-in-my-head-subconsciously-35665/ okay i have been doing this for a while and ive been wondering if it is normal. Most of the time when i walk i will count the steps i take and not even realize it until im on a number like 67 or something. And sometimes i mutter the numbers quietly out loud to myself without even realizing it. My friends are always asking me why i am talking to myself. and once i have realized that i am counting the steps i take, i cant bring myself to stop because it frustrates me. is this normal'' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-count-in-my-head-subconsciously-35665/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 15:31:33 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not-shave-your-legs-in-the-winter-qqfgjj-35663/ heeyyyy c'mon, it's NO-SHAVE NOVEMBER!!!!! i haven't shaved since halloween. is dat nomal' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not-shave-your-legs-in-the-winter-qqfgjj-35663/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 15:28:02 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-strip-off-your-clothes-in-the-middle-of-the-night-35751/ My boyfriend and I recently moved in together after dating long distance for two-years. We have been enjoying spending time together, and especially falling asleep together each night. Here is the strange situation: last night when we went to bed we were both wearing t-shirst and underpants... and in the morning when we woke up he was completely NAKED. To make things even more weird, he had NO RECOLLECTION of ever taking his underpants off. It is a real mystery! I am worried that he thinks that I took his clothes off... but I am certain that I didn't. So, my question to the isitnormal.com community: Is it normal to strip off your clothes in the middle of the night, and have no recollection of it' any and all input will be helpful! Thanks! http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-strip-off-your-clothes-in-the-middle-of-the-night-35751/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:57:38 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-dont-know-what-to-think-31675/ I really like this guy and we have only been seeing each other for like a week and he is really pushy about sex or sexual actions. The other night we were kissing really hard and passionate and we were on the bed and he kept being really pushy and i kept saying no and he didnt stop until i almost started crying. What am i suppose to do or think' When i asked him about it he said that it was because he had been drinking and would never do it again, i just dont know what to think about it. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-dont-know-what-to-think-31675/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:38:12 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/girls-weeing-outdoors-is-it-ok-25006/ I'm 18 and and it's awkward to do stuff with a guy with everyne else in the house, so if I want to be with a guy we go up into the hills above the village and find a quiet place. Sometimes we're up there ages, and there are times I'd really like to have a wee, but I did it once and the guy I was with said I was dirty, so now I always hold it in, even if I'm busting. The other day I had to wee so much I had to say something to my boyfriend and he said he'd rather I held it. I told him I was nearly doing it in my panties, and he said I could go in the bushes if it was that desperate. Are guys always like this' Surely if a girl needs a wee she should be allowed to go discreetly in the bushes before it gets too urgent! Advice please! http://isitnormal.com/story/girls-weeing-outdoors-is-it-ok-25006/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:36:32 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/freak-out-about-moths-when-naked-35807/ I mostly have no issue with Moths. Like if one crawled up my arm while wearing a singlet I'd just brush it off. However if the same moth landed on the back of my hand when I was in the shower or anywhere else that I'm completely naked then I freak out like a 13 year old school girl. Clothes no issue. Naked I flip out over contact with a moth. Verdict' http://isitnormal.com/story/freak-out-about-moths-when-naked-35807/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:27:26 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-hate-twilight-and-all-the-people-that-love-it-35652/ I can't help but think they are all freaks getting so worked up about it. I don't even have any real evidence why I hate it so much. http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-hate-twilight-and-all-the-people-that-love-it-35652/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:25:00 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-laugh-without-reason-35650/ I always laugh.. with reason and without.. I love laughing.. anyone who agrees with me.. (comment!) hahah :) http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-laugh-without-reason-35650/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:24:03 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-have-nothing-to-offer-35798/ This is how I feel: what people see is only a superficial shell, a facade. Wait for it, this isn't going to be about how people don't see the real me because of the masquerade that we always have going on - I actually feel like a shell; like a papier-mache model. It makes me scared to get close to anyone, because there is nothing for them to get close to. There is only the shell and once that is broken, there is nothing. Even on the internet, when I'm talking to someone, I feel like a f**king fraud. I might feel like I'm being the "real me" sometimes, but then I read over what I've written and it makes me want to vomit because it sounds as though another person has written it. In short, it sounds utterly fake. I'm very good at being fake too. I pretend to be interesting. I pretend to be a person of depth. I found some good "internet buddies" this way. I thought that they had gotten close to knowing me at the time, but now I know that they only had the good fortune to sample my sh*tty acting. I dumped those friends obviously. Couldn't have them figuring out that I'm actually empty could I' ps. I'm starting to suspect that I may have borderline personality disorder after someone told me about it. However, I haven't gone for an evaluation (yet') If you can tell me if feeling like this is common for people with BPD, I would appreciate it. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-have-nothing-to-offer-35798/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:22:46 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-love-to-sneeze-35824/ ...i love to sneeze,yeah, i know, i said it before. i like to put something in my nose that will make me sneeze, like a needle for example:)when i was little i did that very often, but now, i am not doing it so much. i am a weirdo!!! http://isitnormal.com/story/i-love-to-sneeze-35824/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:22:07 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/feeling-guilty-if-no-workout-35563/ If I don't work out or go on the treadmill EVERY day, I feel insanely guilty and FAT! I'm a 28 year old female, 5'8", 122 lbs. Seriously. If I don't workout, I feel so fat and I hate myself. I also feel guilty when I eat. yup every time I eat!!! Is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/feeling-guilty-if-no-workout-35563/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:20:03 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/realistic-dreams-31220/ Throughout my life, I've often had realistic dreams. Well it seems that lately my dreams have been so realistic, I'm starting to have trouble figuring out what really happened, and what happened in a dream. It's such a weird feeling. I'll be with someone and be like, "remember the other day when you said...'" and they're like, "I didn't say that." But I can clearly remember talking to them about it. Then I realize it was probably the dream. Like I said, my dreams can be SO insanely realistic. http://isitnormal.com/story/realistic-dreams-31220/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 14:18:18 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-sometimes-wish-i-was-a-girl-7426/ When I'm alone, I sometimes wish I was a girl. I'd want to do it just for the experience and answer the unknow questions about them. Then turn back, write a book, get rich. Is it normal''' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-sometimes-wish-i-was-a-girl-7426/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 11:09:45 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/that-s-so-gay-rant-1378/ I hate when people say "That's so gay" about inanimate objects. That is the phrase of people who live and breathe stupidity in its purest form. One time, someone told me my backpack was gay. My BACKPACK. Yes, in the grand scheme of things, my backpack prefers to mate with other backpacks of the same sex. I found homoerotic magazines under his bed. There were highly explicit pictures of backpacks taking it up the C.D. player compartment by other backpacks. They unzipped each other, poured shreds of old homework papers on each other, you name it. There were even interracial pictures between a purse and backpack, carryall and bookbag, and even a dirty little centerfold with a Gym bag completely open with its straps spread-eagled. If people say "That's so Gay" when they insult something why don't they say "That's so straight" when they want to compliment it' What if something isn't really as BAD as being gay, would you say "That's bisexual" or "That's transgender" or even "That has closet crossdressing tendencies"' Should I be institutionalized' Comments. http://isitnormal.com/story/that-s-so-gay-rant-1378/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 10:48:26 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-want-to-try-new-things-30556/ basiclly im 19 and i have been in a relationship for 2years and the girl im with is like my 1st major relationship but now i feel that im missing out on what the world can offer, im a honest person never cheated or anything but i want to go on a break to see whats out there but i dont want to ruin what i have. is this normal what should i do http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-want-to-try-new-things-30556/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 10:45:55 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-racist-29960/ Ok i just hate the fact that black people call us a sh*t load of names but when we say the n word they f**kin flip. and i just f**kin hate peace of sh*t wanna be gangsters. but dont get me wrong i like alot of black people. mlk, will smith etc. as a matter a fact a few of my best friends are black. but i just dont know http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-racist-29960/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 10:42:26 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-just-another-stoner-moment-25732/ Well , i was out on the weekend with my freinds. (as per-usual) i got hold of some really Nice Bush/Weed /Gwarn/ You Digg.. anyway's , after smoking around an 8th to myself i started to randomly talk to myself in my head.. Nothing Disturbing mind.. just the normal sh*t you think to yourself.. Except this was like it was really loud.. Random Example ; "I WONDER WHAT TIME PHILL WILL GET HOME TODAY" (phill)=My Mate i blaze with :) anyway's back the the subject , the "Voices" if you like were becoming more and more disturbing , like i could hear thought's of other people... I was looking at my ex Girlfreind across the room because she was looking hot.. :) And out of no were i head her voice in my head saying " I wish we didnt end it " 3 day's later she phoned and said the exact same thing over the phone.. this is after being seperated for over 5 months.. Basically it scared me to f**k.. I dunno weather to ask her " was you thinking that at the party when i was looking over to you " she might think im a crack head and tell me to get lost :L Awell , what do you guys think :S http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-just-another-stoner-moment-25732/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:25:13 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-want-to-be-with-him-but-i-don-t-35810/ Okay, so there is this guy that I have been going out with off and one for about two years now. I don't really know what I want out of our relationship so I just told him that maybe we need to see other people and I need to see what my other choices are. But when we arnt together I want to be with him more than anything and he is alll I can think about, but when we are together I think to myself it's not going to work this time, why am I doing this again' I need to move on. And I just kind of regret going back out with him overall. Is this normal' Do I need to move on or stay with him' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-want-to-be-with-him-but-i-don-t-35810/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:23:04 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-sick-of-miley-cyrus-already-25728/ I know this might sound terrible to miley cyrus fans but im just sick of cyrus already. That b**ch was already rich and famous..... she didnt need no hannah montana crap because her daddy was rich hillybilly ray cyrus. Im seeing her annoying face EVERYWHERE!!! Mainly in all the shows i love like: American idol dancing with the stars Disney channel nickeldeon jay leno connan o brian Its hard to turn around and not see somehting of hannah...its causing me to rip my hair out. They even have a whole department store of her called "hannah manna mania" Her music and shows lame too..... Is it normal to feel this way about a hyper ass popstar(an example of that can be kanye west) but is it normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-sick-of-miley-cyrus-already-25728/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:19:24 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/are-high-cheekbones-the-only-way-to-be-pretty-25726/ I am very insecure and that shouldnt be abnormal...almost everyone feels this way. I loathe everytime watching the televison. I always see all these beautiful girls with the gorgeous cheekbones become fashion bombshells. As in myself,i have a round face with big cheeks.....yet i have some nice features but their but average. COme on really, do you ever see a model or actress wihout beautiful high cheekbones lightening up the screen. I think not. Am i just being a stupid paranoid loser that listens too much to cruel hollywood trends' and is it normal for me to ponder at the mirror wishing for those cheekbones or is a round average face just as beautiful' http://isitnormal.com/story/are-high-cheekbones-the-only-way-to-be-pretty-25726/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:18:45 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-crazy-23809/ I am 40, all my life I never cared about 50 and above aged women. But all of a sudden When a couple of months ago We went up to my mother in laws and stayed with her for a week, I realized she had a special appeal to her. She was a very pretty girl in her youth and now at 62 she still has that lost touch once in a while. Makes me get very stiff thinking about it and looking at her, especially when she and i talk all alone in the "Tea Lounge". I want her sometimes so bad. she probably knows about it but hasn't said or done anything to prove it so. she does enjoy a little "play" i have noticed. Am I nuts' http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-crazy-23809/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:17:15 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/when-i-watch-people-i-get-a-tingly-sensation-in-my-head-28079/ Ok basically i was watching the video on youtube and it was about unwrapping this package my friend got (no im not saying what the package was) and well I'm not sure how to describe it really its hard to explain but at the back of my head I sort of get this internal massage but its a really nice feeling and it sort of make me go numb so if im typing I lose feeling in my fingers its weird but its REALLY soothing and calming I sorta dont want thew moment to end HELP! Is it normal' and If its a medical thing or something please tell me what it is thanks! http://isitnormal.com/story/when-i-watch-people-i-get-a-tingly-sensation-in-my-head-28079/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:15:59 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/smiling-24082/ I often smile without a specific reason. I smile to people who often don't smile back due to my hideous appreance and the fact I am a female European. But this only makes me smile more. I smile so hard it hurts my jaws, which I find funny and I smile even harder, that is how I've gotten hospitalized several times now. When I think back to that, it makes me smile. Yes, at this point in time, I am in fact smiling. But I rarely lol. Is this normal' :) http://isitnormal.com/story/smiling-24082/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:11:16 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-i-hate-my-best-friend-so-freaking-much-35808/ I hate my best friend. She drags me around like a dog, and no she isn't pretty. Her hair is ugly & hard (and she never washes it) and I didn't mind about that until the other day. I could tell her I'm tired and sick, and that I vomited all night long and she'd start "Oh yeah... Like me' Like this thing happens to me and..." I'm supposed to listen to her' I'm effing tired of it. Then she asks me "Right:)'" and I'm like "Huh... yeeah." I CAN'T START TALKING ABOUT SOMETHING I'M GOING TO BUY because then she's like Oh I can't get that because yeah... Like you know. And me mememememe. STOP. IT. I told her about something that was on the mail for me & she was like Oh really' Thats nice (fake sound) AND started talking stupid things that she can't afford it and stuff and I'm like it's less than $50 and for something you LOVE...' ( Jonas Brothers). I can't chat with my other friends or she'll get mad and pick me from the back of my shirt like "COME HERE" she says all mad "Are you leaving me alone'!" So I can't even go to the bathroom or she'll get mad. About the boy I like, he asked me out as a birthday present and said he'd give me a kiss & stuff like that, I was really happy as I'm not really told things like that (I'm fat) ever. And I told my other friends and then told her, and she was like Oh... He's ugly! HOW DO YOU LIKE HIM' Only you (with a hatred tone) like him. Ugh. And I don't think he said it seriously when he asked you out, because like really... Whatthehell' Jaleousy kills. Am I an idiot for hating her' Shes got a dissease on her bones & a cyst :/ and I detest her. Am I a bad person' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-i-hate-my-best-friend-so-freaking-much-35808/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:05:58 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/why-are-parents-so-strict-on-manners-28441/ Is it normal that I am so sick of my parents always making me say yes sir, no sir, and yes ma'am, no ma'am when ever I answer a question. I don't think it is very fair because a lot of my friends do not have to do this. My girlfriend thinks it is weird that I always answer adults this way, but it is only because I have to. My dad gets so mad when I don't, it is not worth the trouble I get into when I make him mad. Does any one else have this requirement by your parents' http://isitnormal.com/story/why-are-parents-so-strict-on-manners-28441/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:00:02 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-am-obsessed-28440/ Well, ever since the first time I ever watched Degrassi, I have always loved Marco right to death! I just want to squeez him! Sometimes I just say Marco for no reason. Is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-am-obsessed-28440/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:58:31 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-shower-once-or-twice-a-week-28437/ I shower only once or twice a week even in summer Is it normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-shower-once-or-twice-a-week-28437/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:57:43 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/attracted-to-women-of-size-23963/ I'm not bothered about what you think of me for having this attraction but I'm attracted to women of 'size'. Overweight (or 'fat') women, if you like. I was just curious to see how many people share my attraction and appreciation for large women. I'm not looking for "Ewww, you're sick!" comments. My girlfriend has allowed me to post a picture of her, so you can see. Yes, I think she's beautiful and has a gorgeous body. http://i365.photobucket.com/albums/oo94/T-Martinn/Pool%20Pics/Kate09.jpg If you must know, it was taken in her pool. Thanks. http://isitnormal.com/story/attracted-to-women-of-size-23963/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:50:12 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-normal-for-doing-this-25762/ ok so i like to hump my sleeping bag. like rolling it up and humping it. ive been doing it since i was 13 and i think it feels great. i wanna know ur opinion girls...is there any one else out there who does this' is it weird' http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-normal-for-doing-this-25762/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:49:17 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/my-dad-23973/ my dad got my bffl pregnant!!! is this normal'''' http://isitnormal.com/story/my-dad-23973/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:48:27 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-have-the-urge-to-bite-someone-when-they-re-near-me-35689/ So once, my best friend put his arm out and told me to throw him on the floor with his arm. So I went near it and bit. Once he hurt me and insulted me so I had the URGE AGAIN! To bite him, on the shoulder. When I was young I bit a child and left very severe bite-marks. He left the school forever. I feel like a 'vampire'. Friggin' seriously. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-have-the-urge-to-bite-someone-when-they-re-near-me-35689/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:47:45 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-watch-kid-shows-23666/ Is it normal to be 18 and still watch shows like sponge bob' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-watch-kid-shows-23666/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:46:52 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/threesome-help-me-33797/ Hello.. I have a bf and he asked me once to have a threesome.. I was okk with the idea because I wanted to try something new and different so we had it with another girl.. He didn't change with me at all after the threesome.. Infact we even became closer.. And now he wants to do it again with a different girl.. But I don't wanna do it again.. And he really does.. I suggeseted having a threesome with a guy but he got so upset and rejected the idea right away.. Do u think I should have the threesome again or not' Thnx :) http://isitnormal.com/story/threesome-help-me-33797/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:44:58 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/sisters-underwear-21763/ I have a fetish for girls dirty underwear, is it normal for me to masterbate to the smell of my sisters dirty underwear and fantise how her vagina and ass touched them' http://isitnormal.com/story/sisters-underwear-21763/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:44:10 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-raped-my-cat-21983/ I came home from work last nite and noticed my cat was sh*tting on its litter box. I got really horney and f**ked my cat up his sh*t stained ass. I cummed in him then he cummed on his litter box. IS IT NORMAL' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-raped-my-cat-21983/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:43:05 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-think-that-a-manga-character-is-hot-35822/ I love the Hellsing series, and I love Allucard, tha vampire. I was just wondering, because I am totally in love with him...I just keep on thinking about him and I think he's really hot, but when I told that to my friends, they were like: *What the f**k'* all they like is muscly, short haired guys. I always liked a different type of guys. http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-think-that-a-manga-character-is-hot-35822/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:41:38 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-love-being-naked-35631/ i really love being naked is it normal http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-love-being-naked-35631/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:32:40 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-look-at-boobs-all-the-time-35701/ When I am at school, I look at girls and stuff, but my eyes always seem drawn their chest and I am wondering if this is normal behavior or I am a pervert. http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-look-at-boobs-all-the-time-35701/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:26:52 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/when-i-m-alone-at-home-34581/ I'm not afraid of anything or anyone, but if I'm downstairs and I have to turn off all the lights (when it's dark) as soon a I turn the light off I run for my life into the light or upstairs etc. Anyone get me' http://isitnormal.com/story/when-i-m-alone-at-home-34581/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:26:35 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/my-girlfriend-and-i-25151/ Okay, So Here's How It Goes Down. My Girlfriend And I Have Been Together For About 8 Months. I Have Many Friends Who Are Girls, And Love Hanging Out With Them. But My Girlfriend Gets Jealous Of Them. She Knows That I Love Her, And Plus, I Could Never Imagine Cheating, And My Friends Are Not The Most Appealing Anyways. So What I'm Trying To Say Is, Should She Be Jealous' Am I Normal For Being Upset About Her Not Trusting Me' http://isitnormal.com/story/my-girlfriend-and-i-25151/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:18:37 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/my-basement-is-evil-25150/ Every time I turn off all the lights in my basement I run like hell up the stairs. I think the guy from The Shining will come out of my boiler room screaming and swinging an axe at me. WTF is wrong with me'''' http://isitnormal.com/story/my-basement-is-evil-25150/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:10:57 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/nightmares-over-no-calls-34162/ Hey everyone, I'm 26 years old and my girlfriend and I have been together for a year and 10 months we are very serious about our relationship, but she's currently in NY for school and I'm in Massachusetts. Well we talk on the phone as much as we can. but lately the last 5 days she hasn't called me. this has happened before but never this long, more like 2 days because of a busy schedule. But the first day I was irritated, the second day I was depressed, the 3rd, 4th and 5th day I been extremely depressed and every time I go to sleep I keep having nightmares about things that has to do with my relationship. For example, the latest I could remember I talked to her sister, and ask her why she hasn't been ignoring me and her sister replies, I think someone bad has taken over her. I was like wtf' Or I would dream of catching her cheating on me, or calling her and her saying she doesn't want to be with me. on the previous incidents where she hasn't called me I talked to her about how it makes me feel but she comforts me and tells me not to worry, she loves me always but I can't seem to stop these nightmares. Any help' http://isitnormal.com/story/nightmares-over-no-calls-34162/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:07:08 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/retina-tear-24999/ had two eye operations in the pastthree months, had general anesthesia, dont like side effects. have to have another operation on the 19th Nov. is there a time period you should wait before you have another operation under general anesthesia http://isitnormal.com/story/retina-tear-24999/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:02:18 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/schizophrenia-26681/ I keep hearing voices in my head, no matter where I am. It can be at home or in the mall. They call me by my name, not loud, more like they whisper my name in my ear, but when I turn around there is nothing or no one there. Surprisingly enough I only hear these "voices" when I'm sober, not when I'm stoned. It's been going on for a few years now, but it variws in intensity. Any idea whassup with this' http://isitnormal.com/story/schizophrenia-26681/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:01:58 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-hate-muslims-puerto-ricans-24994/ Ok so here it is, i go to a school which is probably 50% white and 40% Black and Puerto rican 10% Others.Personally i don't mind the NORMAL black or Latino person who dresses white and talks normal(but i hate all muslims)The People that i do HATE come talking sh*t like they own the building, yelling all loud across the halls 'Oh no you didn't girlfriend!' and expecting everyone else to kiss there ass. Anyone else can't stand this''' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-hate-muslims-puerto-ricans-24994/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:00:40 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/white-people-are-secretly-racist-24987/ I think that white people are secretley racist and it makes me sick that if someone is racist that they hide it is is normal that i would jusst rather know how you feel for real rather than hide like cowards behind smiles and lies. I have been getting strange feeling from white people at my job what do white people talk about when minorities arent arond whats the real truth please dont bring any lies over the internet i have had enough http://isitnormal.com/story/white-people-are-secretly-racist-24987/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:00:13 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/panty-sniffer-30975/ I like to sniff my friend's panties. She is about 230 lbs. and has lots of zits; however, her panties smell hot. I like to lick the cum stains from them and jerk off thinking of her juicy cl*t rubbing up against them. She doesn't know I do this. Is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/panty-sniffer-30975/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:58:34 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/random-smells-6642/ Sometimes I smell random things. Like ranch doritos, lemons, oranges, sawdust, brownies...anything at all really that has a distinct smell. it just comes out of no where and that object doesn't appear to be anywhere in range. Is this like a smell hallucination or what' Is this normal or do other people have this as well' http://isitnormal.com/story/random-smells-6642/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:56:13 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/ugly-duckling-syndrome-6576/ For those of you who don't know, Ugly Duckling Syndrome is where a really beautiful girl doesn't know she is beautiful because she was an unattrative as a child but blossomed into a beautiful young woman. This is a serious problem. These "ugly ducklings" are often very nice girls because they were ugly as kids, not the attractive kids who made fun of the ugly ones. I know this girl who is an ugly duckling. She's 18 and definitely a ten with a very nice body that's filled out quite nicely in all the right places. But she keeps dating these ass ugly weird looking guys. I'm an attractive guy btw, or so I've been told, and want to get her to go out with me but my friend told me since she was an ugly duckling there is a good chance she is intimidated by me because she doesn't think she is pretty. What is a good tactful way to tell a girl she has Ugly Duckling Syndrome and to tell her to stop dating these ugly guys because she could pretty much get any guy she wanted. I don't know why but this is driving me crazy. http://isitnormal.com/story/ugly-duckling-syndrome-6576/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:54:50 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/smelling-my-fart-3678/ i like smelling my farts is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/smelling-my-fart-3678/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:52:04 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/my-life-is-a-mess-no-one-likes-me-30517/ My life at the moment seems to be a complete mess. My husband just dumped me after 10 years, my son hates me and cant bare to be around me. I have no proper family unit and I feel my life has fallen apart, my friends are all gone, because i moved away when i got married, no because my husband dumped me I have no one. I am really unhappy, it cant get any worse... http://isitnormal.com/story/my-life-is-a-mess-no-one-likes-me-30517/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:50:43 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-feel-like-there-is-nothing-worth-living-for-29710/ I don't know why I chose to post this on the internet but I guess it's easier to speak while faceless. I am not normally this person and if anything the fact that I am becoming it seems to drag me further into what has become a constant state of self loathing. I can't tell anyone because I've always had this thing you know, like I need to be indestructible to be respected and liked and I tried. I've been successful until now. I just don't feel there is anything in my life, the main thing is that I hate myself and not the kind where I look in the mirror and wish I was skinnier or prettier although thats a huge part of it, but more the kind where I don't understand why anyone would want to be friends with me and it makes me constantly paranoid. I have a large group of friends which is great but it's also horrible as no one is really as close as if there were just two of us. They all have other friends and I always have people to go out with, but I don't go out because Im so self conscious and it makes me miserable. My family life sucks, my mother is selfish after she split from my dad she literally chased after a guy who everyone knew was a dick including her, despite the fact that we had just got our own place and me and my brother were young. She then got pregnant twice because neither of them have the wits to use birth control, and don't get me wrong i love my little brothers to pieces but its made us struggle financially and I can only blame her because it's her fault! My father couldn't care less about me and buys me things as if that makes up for it. I don't trust anyone so boys have always been a no go because I wouldn't allow myself to get close to people. Due to this I constantly feel alone. I drink to numb myself and I'm scared that Im going to become an alcoholic, I've always battled with my weight and some days I just don't eat but I don't want to be anorexic, I get scared because there is no one to talk to and I'm still rational, I know it would kill my mum if I died but she doesn't care that I'm still here. I hate being like this! I want to be happy again and it isn't like the average my life is shambles kind of thing trust me I wouldn't post if it was. What do I do' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-feel-like-there-is-nothing-worth-living-for-29710/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:40:10 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-songs-played-backwards-scare-the-hell-out-of-me-35815/ I like listening to music and such, but any song played backwards seems to make me really creeped out, and even mentioning it freaks me out. Something about it just seems... wrong. I've never been able to listen to any song backwards for more than a second or two without getting the chills, my eyes tearing and a sick feeling in my gut (in that order). Is this normal'''' Does this happen to anyone else'''''' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-songs-played-backwards-scare-the-hell-out-of-me-35815/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:37:01 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/prison-of-my-own-mind-29063/ Well, when I was a teenager, I fell into a coma after being involved in a car accident. I awoke from the coma (or so they told me) four years ago in this coming June, however life seems all too similar to the way it was back when I was a teenager. I have a theory. I believe that I am still in a coma, and my brain is creating a fake world. A prison of my own mind. So much goes my way, so it'd make sense. Heck, even the people passing on the streets remind me of my old friends and teachers. Am I batsh*t crazy, or am I really trapped here' http://isitnormal.com/story/prison-of-my-own-mind-29063/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:33:17 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/pee-in-a-bottle-1107/ Thismorning I really needed to pee, so I held it as long as I could. I live with 3 girls and one of them was in the bathroom (toilet and shower are in the same room) and It was getting painful I went to the recycle bin and opted to grab a 600ml bottle instead of the 1 litre milk bottle I took it back to my room and emptied myself into it. - it was full! Should have grabbed the 1 litre bottle instead! Then I tipped it out the window into the rose bush. I think I'll be doing this more often. I don't need to use 20 litres of water to flush away 600ml's of piss! http://isitnormal.com/story/pee-in-a-bottle-1107/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:28:24 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-for-me-to-want-to-be-like-my-girlfriend-s-ex-boyfriend-29208/ My girlfriend's ex-boyfriend, Charlie (not his name, but it is for the sake of this question), hurt her pretty bad, emotionally. Charlie has a perplexing pesonality: he is very emotional, unstable, and can often be violent and threatening. At the same time, he is charming, funny, and knows how to talk to women. By some miracle or another, he can get anyone he wants. For proof, my girlfriend is a straight-edge girl who hates drugs and alcohol. She only likes the preppy-boy or nerdy/band-geek type of guy, and was all she ever dated before him. Charlie, on the other hand, was part of the emo scene. He drank and smoked all the time. Somehow, over the course of 8 months, his conquest got her to fall in love with him, which lead her to give him her virginity (which she wanted to save until marriage). After realizing that he was only using her, since he slept with another girl about 6 hours later, she left him - albeit, with much difficulty - my help. My story: I've always been a social pariah. I don't know what it is, but I just can't seem to talk to people, much less women. I don't say or do the right things in social situations. I'm an awkward, under-appreciated, under-sexed shrill. And after meeting countless people, I'm convinced that I'm the only one on the planet who is like this. I mean, all my girlfriends were accidents, including my current. Most of them ended up with them cheating on me and leaving. Just as bad, I wasn't even going to get laid until marriage with my current girlfriend because I'm a "nice guy." Actually, not I'm not even the nice guy who finishes last, because apparently I am an a**hole most of the time and don't even realize it (it's the times too that I am trying to stand up for myself, like what I would think alpha males would do, that people stop talking to me and say I'm an a**hole). So here's my question then: Is it normal for me to want to be like my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend' He gets what he wants, when he wants it. Even if his intentions are evil, it must be exciting to know that you are in that level of control. To think that if you wanted, you could find that woman you always dreamed of and actually stay with her, while people like me fall to the wayside. I mean, the level of oppression that I have felt being on the bottom of the totem pole actually made me want to cheat on my girlfriend, just to feel a little bit of the power that others have now. A inferiority complex, you know' I know that being like him would make me just as horrible a person. But at the same time, I'm apparently already a horrible person, just one who gets sh*t on 24/7. I want to start reading pick-up artist and alpha male literature so that I can actually become a real man, but I would like to ask all of you alpha men, bad girls, and goody two-shoes out there if what I want is normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-for-me-to-want-to-be-like-my-girlfriend-s-ex-boyfriend-29208/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:21:54 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/just-makes-me-wanna-rage-and-or-die-30551/ for as long as i remember i have had anxiety about foolish things that i have done in the past and it makes me wanna die or look for something to wreck, whether it be a person or thing, i even start to make audible noises of inner agony when i think of them. some of the things that i cant stop thinking about are -once i has dancing with a girl and her friend walks up to us and says "having fun" and i just blurt out with absolutely no filter "damn you're hot" right in front of the girl i was dancing with -when i was in kindergarten i had a very, very very short fuse, i was unable to finish my homework in class and i lost my mind, a freind of my walked up to meand tried to calm be and i gave him a knee to the balls -it was the last day of eighth grade and a girl that i had a huge crush on was moving , i couldn't stop stumbling on my words and felt like a total tool. am i normal for remembering all of the foolish things that i have done in the past http://isitnormal.com/story/just-makes-me-wanna-rage-and-or-die-30551/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:20:14 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-she-to-young-32625/ Well my duaghter has a boyfriend she is 12 yrs old and has been talking to me about sex more and more i would rather her be safe with a birth control pill rather then not and be a 12 yr old mother. is she to young to be on the pill' is it normal for her to be talking abou sex as much as she does' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-she-to-young-32625/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:12:45 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-m-scared-to-see-myself-31725/ I have a big mirror in my bathroom and when i get out of the shower i can't help but to look directly at it. I usually look away and feel around for my towel and get out and turn away from the mirror as i get dressed i'm really scared at looking at my naked body. Is this a normal thing' ((by the way i'm a female and please no sick comments)) http://isitnormal.com/story/i-m-scared-to-see-myself-31725/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:08:51 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/smoke-weed-every-day-26424/ I smoke weed every single day of my life. If I don't, I become very angry about life in general. http://isitnormal.com/story/smoke-weed-every-day-26424/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 07:05:11 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-regret-marrying-my-husband-i-want-someone-rich-24523/ I met my husband when I was 18 in a chat room. I am 25 now. I am not happy. My sister is engaged to a rich guy and my husband works from home. Its hard to make ends meet. All the money goes in bills. I save all I can. I cant remember the last time I got a hair cut or went to the beauty salon. My parents could provide for me better than he can. Well, I dont expect him to provide for me because only his sister knows we are married. His family does not! We got married because he had been stalling getting married to me and my parents kept doing him favours and were asking me constantly when we would get married. So just to humour them we had a civil wedding. Yea thats right.. a girl thinks of getting married all her life I dint even have a decent wedding forget a dream wedding! So, I was looking at this laptop today. This really tiny laptop, loved it. Really wanted it. He said if you want somthing earn money to get it. I have never ever gotten a decent present from him. My whole life is a joke. People say you cant choose your parents but you can choose your husband....I made the wrong decision, dint I' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-regret-marrying-my-husband-i-want-someone-rich-24523/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:31:23 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/gay-friend-s-suicide-22137/ My friend killed himself by poison in 2007. He was 16 and was gay. He was tormented on a constant basis. Often he was physically assaulted. He was called "homo" "fag" "queer" and all the usual terms our wonderful socierty has invented to describe people like him. His parents tried to have him fixed by having him meet priests, who were probably molesting boys on the side, that told him his feelings were wrong and an abomination. Schoolmates said he was "shoving his sexuality down their throats" even though he never talked about it unless asked, and certainly wasn't humping people in public like many of the straight kids were doing. He was shunned by the rest of his family, who believed he would grow out of it. And for all you geniouses out there, he didn't. Whenever I hear someone (usually a male) being harassed (usually by other males) I feel that person has blood on their hand. People like that killed my friend. And I know many people like that are here. You have blood on your hands. Hate kills. That's all there is to it. http://isitnormal.com/story/gay-friend-s-suicide-22137/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:24:43 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/sharing-a-bathroom-21707/ I'm about to go on holiday with my boyfriend (our first hol together and we don't live together).We'll be sharing a room and bathroom I'm really worried 'bathroom smells'!! How do couples living together handle this' I mean if you go to the toilet and there is a smell in the air, what happens when your partner wants to use the toilet straight after' I would find it too embarassing. Anyone got any tips/advice on this' Thanks! http://isitnormal.com/story/sharing-a-bathroom-21707/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:07:56 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/living-w-slobs-28835/ Times are tough right now. I'm living in a house with three other adults and three other children, not including my fiance and my son. I love these people to death but at the same time, they are so filthy that it is driving me insane. I am literally about to pack my sh*t and move out. They will cook something to eat and leave all of their dirty dishes sitting on the counter. When asked to do them, they say, "I will," and walk away. I am not exaggerating when I say that those dishes will sit there until they mold or until I do them myself. When they cook, they leave food splattered all over the stove and the counter. If something is spilled, they do not clean it up. When the trash can is full, they sit things ON TOP OF IT and do not even bother to take it out. Their children will sometimes piss on the toilet seat or accidentally get soiled toilet paper on the floor. They will NOT clean it up. Not only am I cleaning up after three children who are not mine, I'm cleaning up after three adults. I am absolutely done with everything. Is it normal to want to scream at them whenever I see them' http://isitnormal.com/story/living-w-slobs-28835/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:37:16 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/ugly-people-25036/ Theres a guy in my class with millions of hairy moles, glasses, tonnes of pimples, retarded toes and curly gross hair and I just can't understand why he ended up so ugly, compared to the rest of the school' Is it normal to be this ugly' http://isitnormal.com/story/ugly-people-25036/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:36:01 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/caucasian-babies-are-afraid-of-my-face-28832/ I am actually half White and half Asian. I also have a tan, so I look a bit...erm, Hispanic. I am nice, friendly, gentle, and always smile at them. Non-White babies have no problem with me at all. But if white baby is near me, it get very scared, whines, and hugs the "lighter" colored person. Then it goes and loves more white people. This is really sad. These babies are starting to make me feel ugly. Is it normal for babies to react this way to me' http://isitnormal.com/story/caucasian-babies-are-afraid-of-my-face-28832/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:31:30 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-hate-the-sound-my-piss-makes-when-it-hits-the-water-35333/ Is it normal that im embaressed by that particular sound' I mean especialy when someones close by like outside of the door. Is this normal and do any other guys or girls feel this way' I mean its not like a serious problom but im just wondering http://isitnormal.com/story/i-hate-the-sound-my-piss-makes-when-it-hits-the-water-35333/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:27:28 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-use-a-computer-16-hours-35688/ Well, thanks to it. I'm a child friggin' genius' So is it normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-use-a-computer-16-hours-35688/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:25:39 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/are-the-religious-inferior-28233/ Is it normal to think of people who believe in god or some higher supreme being as inferior. I look down on them the same way people look down on fat people with skinny parents. People who were once perfectly capable of making logical decisions turned into bumbling idiots. Is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/are-the-religious-inferior-28233/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:03:40 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/are-you-an-adult-and-still-get-spankings-25300/ I live in NY and my X comes over to my house sometimes and places me over his knee and spanks me hard with his hand, over my jeans, panties, and bare butt. I am 32 years old. I here that some women are still spanked by their parents or husbands, does anyone want to share, please tell me what state you live in, if you are a female or male, thanks http://isitnormal.com/story/are-you-an-adult-and-still-get-spankings-25300/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:54:21 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-anyone-else-afraid-of-butterflies-28033/ I have been terrified of butterflies for as long as I can remember. Not the "Oh no, a butterfly" kind of scared but rather the run-away-in-the-other-direction-in-a-cold-sweat-screaming kind of scared. If I was forced to enter a butterfly house I think I would pass out. Is anyone else burdened with this affliction' Or am I just not normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-anyone-else-afraid-of-butterflies-28033/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:17:08 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/sometimes-i-wish-i-were-the-opposite-sex-27831/ Sometimes, more frequently now, I wish I were of the opposite sex. I'm definitely not some kind of creep or anything. Just a normal person, but in my head, when I'm alone, I like to picture what it would be like. Sure girls have their downsides, but they seem to have it a lot easier. They seem more appealing to guys than guys to girls. The guy usually does the brunt of the work in a relationship (no offence, just an observation) They seem to be better off socially and seem to have more fun in bed *ahem*... I just thing it would be a good experience to be able to be a woman at certain times. Not forever, and not for any amount of time, but just to be able to be like that. http://isitnormal.com/story/sometimes-i-wish-i-were-the-opposite-sex-27831/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:13:31 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-have-to-lick-everything-that-is-blue-28434/ everytime i see something that is blue i have an overwhelming urge to lick it if i dont i think about it all day have to go back and lick it.... am i normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-have-to-lick-everything-that-is-blue-28434/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 01:50:28 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/coming-to-terms-to-being-a-life-long-bachelor-28222/ I'm a 29 year-old male and I have never had a girlfriend... ever. I have had very close female friends in the past and they seem to like my companionship and they think I'm a good listener and generally nice and sweet but the first time I confessed my love to a girl, she ended up going out with my close friend and the second time round I confessed to this other girl, she rejected me. I worked hard for the next 3 years or so being nice and not coming on too fast, then she met this dude and within a few months they were going out. I have then come to the conclusion that for a long time I've always thought that as long as I'm nice, kind and caring and persistent, I will meet the right woman one day, but I don't think so anymore. Why is it so complicating to understand how a woman thinks and feels' Why do hard work and sincerity never pay off' I've lost so much faith that I'm starting to think that women like me... but they will never want me. Over the past two years, I've worried that there might be something wrong with me, but now I have come to terms with the fact that no matter how hard I try, I will always be a friend to a lady and never the special one. Strangely enough, coming to terms with possibly being a bachelor for the rest of my life doesn't me feel sad and bitter, I was just resigned to the fact that some guys like me are just unlucky. Is this feeling even normal' Aren't I supposed to be pissed off and stuff' Even getting really desperate is the more normal reaction to something like this. Dang, am I even normal' Thanks for listening. http://isitnormal.com/story/coming-to-terms-to-being-a-life-long-bachelor-28222/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 01:37:19 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/crazy-reaction-to-weed-35492/ So I have smoked pot a lot of times in high school and college on a pretty regular basis. This one time in college I got a bag from somebody and packed one bowl, hit it once and I was done. I was so f**ked up I could barely walk up the stairs. I couldn't even talk and all I could do was lay down in my bed. When I closed my eyes I would see crazy sh*t like bright spinning colors and I felt like I was watching TV in my head at one point. It was the craziest thing and I was wondering if anyone knows what the f**k happened to me. http://isitnormal.com/story/crazy-reaction-to-weed-35492/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 01:32:57 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/remeber-everything-like-an-obsession-29059/ I remember just about everything about anyone. Birthdays, middle names, where I met them, stories they tell me, everything. Obviously it happens with people I like or are friends with but now I just remember everything. It makes me look like a stacker. Does anyone else remember everyone's birthday or other weird facts' Is this at all normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/remeber-everything-like-an-obsession-29059/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 01:19:20 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/why-must-i-look-nice-every-where-i-go-31344/ I don't know why but every time i go some where i have to look nice and be dressed appropriatley! i can never go to a store with sweatpants on or my hair all horrible. i always must fix my hair put on jeans! its a habit.it drives my family crazy. Im not pretty i know that.. so could it be cause of self-esteem problems'/ or something a form of o.c.d'' http://isitnormal.com/story/why-must-i-look-nice-every-where-i-go-31344/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:49:10 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-hate-the-way-black-people-talk-27420/ I just hate the way Black people talk i mean it drives me nuts. Most of them talk so loud you can't even hear yourself think. In the train i go into, a group of kids, talk as if they're miles away when they're really a seat away. I look around and the other people are acting normally doing their own thing. I thought, is it just me' Also, I'm not sure if it's just me but when i get into an elevator with a group of African Americans, somehow my race always came into the conversation. I wanted to kill them right then and there, i was so enraged. My race' What does that have to do with anything' I mean i get it if they talk about my clothes or hair but my race' So f**king rude. I confronted them about it but somehow they made me the made guy. Just before the elevator closed, they'd say i'm rude and then my race came into the picture again. I have to live like this everyday. Because they're in my apartment. I feel like killing them all. Is this normal' I get it if you're really angry, but i keep getting angrier the more i think about it. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-hate-the-way-black-people-talk-27420/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:39:36 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/laid-off-worker-is-mad-at-company-hiring-after-layoff-33893/ I work at a job where my hours were cut from 40 to 24 / wk. Shortly after being cut to 24 hours a wk. the company hired another part time empl. and SHE is getting more hours than I as of now. I spoke to my manager and was told that customers in retail would rather purchase clothing from a woman than a man. Is this true' I have had several ladies hit on me at work and to tell you the truth the female emplyoee actually told me that the girls seem to be attracted to me on the sales floor. this is embarrasing to me but i play along to make the customer happy. I just am not sure what to do about how my manager responds to my questions. I have a college degree and not sure if he has one' Is it normal for a manager to tell you that he feels ladies would rather purchase sporting goods from the same sex' http://isitnormal.com/story/laid-off-worker-is-mad-at-company-hiring-after-layoff-33893/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:38:38 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/smelling-soap-33892/ I like smelling soap, i dont know why but if i see a bar of soap i just have to smell it!!! Is this normal''' http://isitnormal.com/story/smelling-soap-33892/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:38:07 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-ok-to-add-sugar-to-food-to-get-kids-to-eat-33891/ My girlfriend has a son who is 10. Last week at his fathers house he told us the potatoes that were cooked tasted blahhh,( like all other food that is prepared for him ) His father took care of the problem with a heavy dose of sugar on top of mashed potatoes. The 13 y/o daughter told us you could see the sugar all over the potatoes. Is this normal behavior for a adult father' Just add sugar to the prepared food to get the kids to eat' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-ok-to-add-sugar-to-food-to-get-kids-to-eat-33891/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:36:32 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/cravings-to-get-high-33889/ Ok, so I used to love to do drugs all the time-- uppers, downers, shrooms, weed, whatever-- but I quit after my brother went to rehab. Now I get these really bad cravings sometimes, especially when I'm stressing. All I can think about is how I'm gonna get high or just get numb. Is this normal' Does this mean I'm an addict' http://isitnormal.com/story/cravings-to-get-high-33889/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:34:23 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/narrating-my-life-33885/ So for a long time, as in for about the last ten years, I have mentally narrated my life to myself. It's like my life is a screenplay which is being constantly read aloud in my head. Does anybody else do this or is it just me' http://isitnormal.com/story/narrating-my-life-33885/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:33:48 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/my-secret-feelings-33884/ i always feel sad and listen to sad music, i like to be alone all the time and sit in the dark. i cry every now and then because i always think of the childhood i never had and how me and my dad dont talk anymore. i always feel very bad when my dad and older brother always put me dont like theres no point of me being alive. every night i come home from work i always go straight into my room i dont say a word to my dad or brother. my mom tells me to sit with them but i never do. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-secret-feelings-33884/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:32:35 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/strange-reaction-to-smoking-weed-please-help-33882/ I 1st tried smoking pot about a month ago, the 1st time it didnt effect me except I got really hungry, which is normal. The 2nd time it effected me alittle more an I just got silly. The 3rd time I had to pee alot but other then that had a normal reaction. The 4th time was really fun and silly. But the 5th time, which was yesterday, I had a strange reaction. At 1st the world was just spinning and so I went into the bathroom and sat on the floor, then my body was shaking and twitching and my friend came in and was like "why are you laughing so hard at nothing'" But I know i didn't hear any laughing. And then I started to forget what happened and what I said and the memories of what had happened seemed like a dream and it was fading. All through out the night I kept forgetting what had happened and the memories from that night seemed really faint. Is this a normal reaction to smoking pot' Do you think maybe it was laced or something' I didnt think that you forgot things when you smoked' Im not going to smoke again until I know what happened. http://isitnormal.com/story/strange-reaction-to-smoking-weed-please-help-33882/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:30:36 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/orange-pop-green-pee-33873/ I've noticed when I drink Orange Crush pop, my urine is bright green/yellow. Is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/orange-pop-green-pee-33873/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:26:32 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/who-will-die-first-33871/ Whenever i think about my old classmates or family i cant help but think who will die first. This only applies to the people i've known for a long time. It's not that i wish for anybody to die but the thought shows up somehow. Is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/who-will-die-first-33871/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:24:10 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/very-evil-33870/ I used to be evil and now i hate myself after changing. I lived in the country and frogs would get inside our place so everyone was very scared and i had to remove them. I used this long stick to push them in the sewer and i bet they died horribly with poo and pee. I also opened up two bird nests and took a birdie while the parents were watching and chirping. The first one died and i went to look for another one. Is it normal to feel so guilty of my actions' Poor animals they didnt do anything to be killed this way.My actions haunt me... And the tiny birds died of being so cold coz i didnt have the warmth of the mother http://isitnormal.com/story/very-evil-33870/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:20:37 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/end-of-the-world-33867/ I had an end of the world dream once, I was in a wood lying down on a rabbit run, and even though I live in Wales it seemes I was in a Canadian landscape wearing a gille suit. (as if I was hiding from someone or somthing) There was this great feeling of, not loneliness but more of an emptiness of the world as if everybody was dead. The dream was extremely erie.Normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/end-of-the-world-33867/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:18:56 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-want-to-try-drugs-29615/ I know drugs can be bad for you, but is it normal to want to try them' My life is very stressful and all my friends do drugs and they all are happy and stuff and i just feel like i am in the corner feeling all stressed out. http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-want-to-try-drugs-29615/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:17:11 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/the-philosophy-of-weed-27059/ To start off, I must say that i thoroughly enjoy smoking the reefer. Now that we are acquainted, here is my deal. Smoking weed just makes life better. It brightens my day up, relaxes me when I want to, makes me think in ways that I wouldn't if I were sober, makes me more active, the list goes on. Now, when I am sober I always feel like I am not nearly as creative with my thoughts and ideas, which makes me think that weed actually makes me smarter... What do you think' http://isitnormal.com/story/the-philosophy-of-weed-27059/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:16:41 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-27053/ My friend Kenny is black as hell, and he's from africa. He has the nappiest hair I've ever seen in my life, bright pink lips, yellow eyes, and his skin is so black he's almost purple! He told me that he wants to bleach his skin white, straighten and bleach his hair blonde to become a caucasian woman. Is that normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-27053/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:14:05 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/any-one-have-advice-27046/ my boyfriend is a great guy i meet him online my boyfriend has like 5 email accounts and has instant messanger for all of then. i feel that i cant trust him sometimes because aviously he use to talk to other girls online can any one offer any advice and is this normal'' http://isitnormal.com/story/any-one-have-advice-27046/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:12:48 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/why-can-t-i-remember-my-childhood-30145/ When I think back as far as I can, the farthest back I can remember is the night my parents split up. I don't remember what they were fighting about. Maybe my mind is trying to protect me from something traumatic. I'm scared that I was physically/sexually abused by my father. I basically can't remember farther back than close to four years old' Is it normal' What do I do' http://isitnormal.com/story/why-can-t-i-remember-my-childhood-30145/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:11:31 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/attracted-to-guys-i-am-a-guy-27043/ I feel myself getting drawn to guys as well as girls. I look up to guys, I idolize them, I dream about them, I want to be like them. Is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/attracted-to-guys-i-am-a-guy-27043/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:10:38 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/forgot-how-to-write-my-name-27038/ Recently I had an errand to run and I needed to sign for an item. I felt fine but when I picked up the pen I just couldn't remember how to write the first letter of my name. Anyway I spent almost 10 seconds starring around the room hoping this letter was printed somewhere(it wasn't). I wrote my signature and after looking at it realized I wrote the letter backwards. I was so embarrassed I just left. when I told someone close to me he laughed. Also sometimes I misread analog clocks and I keep forgetting things. I'm scared out of my skull and I hope this is normal. I'm a physically fit female and going to be 20 this year. http://isitnormal.com/story/forgot-how-to-write-my-name-27038/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:08:58 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-wanna-run-around-naked-27035/ Ok I have a weird obsession with being naked and stuff and I just wanna be able to rip off my clothes and be free. I wanna run naked in the woods and pee in bushes. Am I normal http://isitnormal.com/story/i-wanna-run-around-naked-27035/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:08:00 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/my-wife-wants-27025/ my wife and i have been married for 4 years at first the sex was great. now i really dont think she has anything for me anymore.but anyways she has allways wanted to be with a girl so we had another girl come in our bed we all had a blast. she had fun and ofcourse i did. but now she is makin plans to see this girl alone and wants me to be ok with it. i would be but the fact that our sex live has went down hill over the past year or so has got me worried.is this something i need to let her get out of her system or is it the beggining of the end http://isitnormal.com/story/my-wife-wants-27025/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:06:20 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-have-a-crush-on-my-step-sister-27024/ my step sis and I have been spending a lot of time together lately and I find myself thinking about her as a girlfriend. She hates when I go out with my friends and plays love songs whenever I'm around. Maybe I am getting mixed signals. I am tempted to tell her how I feel, but I don't want things to be awkward between us. I take her to the bus stop every morning and walk her home every afternoon. It is obviously not exactly "normal", but I would like to know what I should do. Please help. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-have-a-crush-on-my-step-sister-27024/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:02:41 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-took-acid-now-i-cant-stop-thinking-its-1981-27004/ I was getting drunk and stoned with my friends on saturday night, we do this every saturday, well I took 3 hits of acid and I passed out and when I woke up I keep feeling like the year is 1981 for some reason, I mean I know its 2009' but thats seems like a lie so it must be 1981 yeah' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-took-acid-now-i-cant-stop-thinking-its-1981-27004/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:00:16 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-pee-in-the-sink-26991/ I have this bad habit of peeing in the kitchen sink. I have bad insomnia and I dont sleep at night much but when I need to go, I just go in the kitchen sink (I clean it after) because the toilet is right next to me n my gf's room and its really loud and I dont wanna wake her up. is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-pee-in-the-sink-26991/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:58:20 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/lying-for-fun-26990/ is it normal to lie to people you know, friends, family and just randoms you meet. I do it all day and everyday and I like it. I cant stop and if I ever get caught out I just lie more to cover it lol. http://isitnormal.com/story/lying-for-fun-26990/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:56:48 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/my-meaningless-depressing-painful-life-26984/ All I want to do is be under the sun all day doing fun things like hanging out with friends, biking, camping, etc. I'm 23 but I feel like I'm 18 doing 23 year old work. I want to go travelling, and see the world. But right now I'm stuck dreading work every single day of my life. Even during weekends. It's a great Sunday outside and I'm sitting here typing on my laptop because I know I have a tight deadline coming up and I probably won't make it. I hate my job. My life is currently meaningless, with me wishing that each week will go by faster so that I will be over each of the audit files that I'm working on. It seems like it will never go away. I can't wait for the summer because by then I won't have too much to do except study for my designation exam. I hate auditing. I hate accounting. I have no idea why I chose it in the first place. Well yes I do know why. I didn't know what I wanted to do with my life so I decided to do stuff that not everyone can. So I transferred to commerce. I took accounting because it's easier to find a job and it's prestigious to tell someone you work for a multi-national auditing firm. La-dee-da. I have tight deadlines and client commitments but all I'm doing is running away from my problems. I don't do the work and hope that it will go away, but it always comes back to bite me on my behind. I wonder when I'm going to get fired every week, since the economy is bad and my performance is mediocre. I don't get along with most of the people at work. I am disorganized and lazy, and very inefficient at my job. I am utterly depressed, always feeling tired, snapping at my family during every conversation, and utterly ignoring most of my friends. I'm downright miserable and I'm just waiting for another year so that I can quit my job and go travelling (so that I can get a designation out of this whole ordeal and hopefully get a better job in the future). I have no idea if I made the right choice but I think I'm too weak to go through this suffering any longer. All my coworkers hate their jobs and they have way busier schedules than me, but they seem to be holding out under the pressure. I'm just weak. OMG I hate myself too. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-meaningless-depressing-painful-life-26984/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:53:34 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-hate-my-best-friend-26981/ omg, this might sound wierd but i HATE my best friend, we have been friends since kindergarten and now everything is falling apart. i will call her C. c wrote the nastey not to me a couple of weeks ago saying how much she hated me and that i cant have any other friends that she doesnt have. etc etc. last thursday we were at soccer practice and we were battling for the ball, she tripped me and i fell and broke my wrist, now i am too nice to go and blame everything on her (because her mom is a HUGE b****). and now c is acting all nice too me and helping me out, acting like she didn't write that mean note or anything... is it normal to hate my best friend'' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-hate-my-best-friend-26981/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:49:40 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/jockeys-freak-me-out-26975/ Jockeys freak me out; I find their size, voices and weird jockey sub-culture really creepy. Is this normal' http://isitnormal.com/story/jockeys-freak-me-out-26975/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:47:54 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-cant-move-on-26974/ Me and my ex boyfriend have been broking up for a few months now, And at first i was so sad becasue he was everything too me he was my bestfriend i could tell him everything, I tell all my friends that im over him becasue they all hate him and they would hate me if i went back out with him, he has a new girlfriend and i hate her even though i dont no her i hate her becasue she has everything i havent. i have tryed 3 times to get to no other boys but i dont feel right with them i feel like im cheating even though i dont have a boyfriend i cry all the time over him becasue im in love with him i just want him to no how i feel but at the same time i want to get over him and move on and stop holding my life on the this edge of sadness i want to tell him im sorry. i have also tryed to move on i deleted eevrything to do with him and nothing has worked im just waiting for the day that all our memories fade from my mind what should i do im in love but i hate him at the same time ' i cant get over him ' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-cant-move-on-26974/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:46:15 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/should-i-just-move-on-26973/ There's this guy and he is the nices sweetest person I've ever met , he so respectful, well I have a huge crush on him and he knows but he said that im beautiful but that we don't connect And I dnt understand how we don't connect http://isitnormal.com/story/should-i-just-move-on-26973/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:45:24 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-can-t-say-how-are-you-26972/ The title says it all, I have no idea why I can't. I have no problem carrying on a conversation with someone of interest, but I can never say "How are you'" and when I don't say it I get really uncomfortable pondering if they think I am a big wierdo for not saying it. Much like this. A stranger says "Hey, how are you'" and I would respond, "I'm great thanks..." and then there is awkward silence before I forward the conversation with other material. I think its like a deep down phobia.. as stupid as that sounds... Anyone else have an issue with a particular statement like this' http://isitnormal.com/story/i-can-t-say-how-are-you-26972/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:44:00 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-like-to-match-my-underwear-with-my-bra-26968/ I like to match my underwear and my bra the same way i match my clothes i can't put on a blue underwear with a pink bra everything has to match.AND ALSO I FEEL REALY SEXY IF I DO I KINDA DANCE AROUND THE BATHROOM. DOES ANY body do the same.iam alone here.iam new to this website thing so yeahhh...and also iam cheerleader go COUGARS. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-like-to-match-my-underwear-with-my-bra-26968/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:42:28 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/do-i-talk-to-myself-26967/ k, well... heres the thing. I have all these posters on my wall right' and i feel like they watch me every where i go. when i leave, when i come back, when i change cloths. and the weridest thing i do is i talk to them. like they are actual people. i have conversatios with them. and its like they talk back to me because i can here their answers to my questions in my head. Is that normal' What do u think i should do' http://isitnormal.com/story/do-i-talk-to-myself-26967/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:40:25 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-stupid-to-believe-in-vampires-26966/ ok, heres the thing. a few years ago i found a website (that was recently put down) that was all about vampires. After i read it I started writing papers about them. I started trying to find out any info on the subject. Then the Twilight series came out and i am completly obsessed w/ vampires. i can't get them out of my head. Am i f**king crazy or am i just stupid' http://isitnormal.com/story/am-i-stupid-to-believe-in-vampires-26966/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:38:21 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/my-partner-won-t-sleep-with-me-what-shall-i-do-26961/ I have been with my boyfriend for almost eight years. Our sex life has never really been great, but I stayed with him because it wasn't enough to leave him. It is him who rejects me. We had a baby recently and he hasn't touched me since the baby was conceived, which is 18 months ago. Obviously I am very upset about it and I did try to talk to him about it, but he keeps saying it might get better once I stop talking about it. We did have longer periods without sex in the past, but never this long. I don't think he understands how much this is bothering me. I don't know how to get through to him. I feel stuck. Do I have to leave him' I do love him, but is it enough' I don't even know whether he loves me. He says he does, but how can you love someone and not have the desire for closeness' http://isitnormal.com/story/my-partner-won-t-sleep-with-me-what-shall-i-do-26961/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:35:05 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/abnormally-high-pain-tolerance-26955/ Hello. I have lived a pretty normal life. I haven't disfigured myself, haven't attempted suicide, haven't changed my body, nothing like that. My body is as it has always been. My head too, I'm not mentally insane. But, recently I've noticed pain doesn't hurt me quite as much as it used to. For example, last week I was playing paintball without armor and I was shot in the back of the neck. I have a huge welt there. But just yesterday I got shot several (1-3) inches away from that spot and I barely felt it. Last week, I tested myself and I placed my hand in boiling water. Obviously, I felt pain. After several seconds, it subsided and after I took my hand out, I had minor burns. Today, I accidentally dropped a cinderblock on my foot as I was trying to carry it. I heard something snap but I assumed it was the block. Only then I realized that I could barely walk. My foot was not in pain, but it was obviously broken. I mean, I didn't feel it break at all. http://isitnormal.com/story/abnormally-high-pain-tolerance-26955/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:33:16 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/diaper-fetishism-25595/ Hello my name is Jared. I have liked to wear diapers for a long time, from like the age of 6. I dont like all that baby stuff, I just like diapers. I will sometimes pee in them, but very rarely. I have told a few people in my life about me liking diapers, the most important person if my life that I have told is my mom and she just asked me about it once, when I told her and that was it. It being that way is kinda good but I feel as if she is disapointed in me or maybe she just dosen,t care. I want to bring up a coversation with her about it but I'am kinda scared. If you also like to wear diapers than please contact me and we can talk about anything. http://isitnormal.com/story/diaper-fetishism-25595/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:31:44 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/19-and-still-single-26950/ is there any other 19 year olds out there that has never been in a relationship'' http://isitnormal.com/story/19-and-still-single-26950/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:30:36 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-hate-pregnant-women-26940/ I mean, I don't hate the babies, and I don't hate the mothers, but I just can't stand pregnant women. I am directing it towards pregnant women because it is easier to write that way. I am not about to worship you just because you are pregnant. It is NOT a miracle. It was not a difficult and divine wonder that you were granted a baby. All you did was open your legs and get your vag filled with manjuice. You are not a goddess for getting knocked up. It is not an excuse to be a pig at the dinner table. Just because you are eating for two doesn't mean everyone else around you has to be under the impression that you are eating for twelve. We understood that you are pregnant the first time you told us. We don't need to be told another 27 times. Just because you are tired and nauseous doesn't mean that you have the right to be lazy and unproductive. You do realize that even people with horrible hangovers still go to work when they have to, right' For f**k's sake. Stop your f**king complaining. Part of being pregnant is nausea, constant pissing, fatigue, getting fat, etc etc... But if you didn't want it, then you should have made your skeezy boyfriend wear a condom!! What, are you about to tell me that your pants don't fit again' ZIP IT!! (pun intended) Go get some god damn sweat pants and go complain to the guy who put that seed in you. Just don't complain to me. I don't care. Now.... I have tons of respect for mothers and families and whatnot. I've been pregnant myself and probably am guilty of some of these things myself.. but there are just some women who take it way too far. As if their 9 months of hormones have to be shouted to the whole damn world. And it gets... annoying, to put it lightly. And no, I don't care what "the baby wants," I am not giving you any of my Cheetos! And don't you call me an inconsiderate b**ch for not sharing my Cheetos with you because you are pregnant and fat and are using your baby as an excuse to be a pig! Ughhh.. Is it normal that I treat pregnant woman just like everyone else' I don't give them any special treatment at all. I will treat them no better, nor no worse than any other human being. Yet I'm always called a b**ch because I haven't worshiped them for being pregnant. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-hate-pregnant-women-26940/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:28:34 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/confused-lesbian-bisexual-26939/ I am very attracted to girls, I know this. What I can't figure out is if I am attracted to guys or not. I feel emotionally closer to guys, but physically' Not at all really. (by the way, i'm female). I had a boyfriend for 11 months and yes we messed around and I did enjoy it at first because it was new. After a while though... it started to lose it's appeal and when we finally broke up I feel like I wouldn't mind never dating another guy. I would really like a girlfriend and I guess that would be my next step (somewhere along the line). It's also confusing because... my parents are pretty religious and disapprove of such things. I haven't told them my thoughts and am very afraid of being rejected by them to the point where I would push myself to go out with a guy if he asked. I just want a boyfriend and to be normal, but... I'm not sure I'd be completely happy. http://isitnormal.com/story/confused-lesbian-bisexual-26939/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:26:37 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/the-biting-boyfriend-26937/ When me and my boyfriend are with eachother laying in bed, he bites me.. he dosent do it to hard, but i begin to wonder why he does this. Sometimes he bites my lips or my arm! I get a little mad at times.. Does this turn him on' http://isitnormal.com/story/the-biting-boyfriend-26937/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:22:23 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/my-boyfriends-actions-26936/ Ok, This is quite different for me. My boyfriend rubs his nose against mine... I dont understand, and when we are together walking and holding hands he interlocks fingers and holds my hands tight..' Is this normal' I just want to know why he does this. Does it mean anything' http://isitnormal.com/story/my-boyfriends-actions-26936/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:21:07 -0800 http://isitnormal.com/story/i-can-t-make-up-my-mind-26934/ So there is this guy in my life. I have known him for a while and we really like each other. But as soon as I "get him" as in, we're both going good, I don't want him anymore. Alas also, once he starts to drift away, I don't want him too! I'm constently making my self unhappy. But if you could give me any advice thanks:D http://isitnormal.com/story/i-can-t-make-up-my-mind-26934/ Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:17:42 -0800