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4 months, 3 weeks ago - If a girl doesn't have sex by the third date... 'It seems like a woman who will withold sex past a third date tends to end up being a woman who will generally become controlling and manipulative down the line.' This is very insightful! Kudos for the valuable posting--worth far more than a mere 2c ;)
5 months, 1 week ago - If a girl doesn't have sex by the third date... It's comforting to know you are capable of using big words, like 'ignoramus.' Let me tell you another one: ad hominem. If you don't know it, look it up, as that is the core of the 'argument' you presented. With a pseudoname containing the word 'GOD,' I wouldn't be surprised if you believed you w...
5 months, 1 week ago - How long to wait before sex? You cannot make an honest commitment until you truly know what you are committing to; anything short of that is a blind commitment, which is just as empty as blind faith.
5 months, 1 week ago - How long to wait before sex? Talking about sex openly is good advice. From my experience, those girls who are most comfortable with that make the best partners. But, it seems that most girls are more comfortable talking about it AFTER sex happens, rather than before. The real question, though, is at what point should one giv...
5 months, 1 week ago - How long to wait before sex? Another vote for 4-5 dates. Interesting! If more girls were like you, the world would indeed be a better place!
5 months, 4 weeks ago - How long to wait before sex? Wow! I'm amazed at the diversity of opinions here! Ollieo, the reason behind a "dating put-out time," as you put it, is so that I don't end up waiting 9 months, like anabolic! How anyone could wait that long is beyond me. I'm sure I would kick loose on the first date any girl who told me to wait...
6 months ago - If a girl doesn't have sex by the third date... I'm seeing a pattern here... Nearly all of the female responses above suggest that having sex early when dating, is a bad thing. Yet, none of the girls I've been with felt that way. Why is that? Is it because what girls say and what they actually do are two completely different things? It is ok...
6 months ago - I don't have the level of intimacy with my husband I would like Well, you could try showing him an illustrated copy of the Kama Sutra. There once was a time, in India, when sex was much more highly regarded. But, if he is religious and seriously believes that sex is only for "making babies," then you have quite a battle on your hands. The root of the problem ...
6 months ago - My wife finds sex painful. This is not normal. When it does happen, it's usually a mismatch in 'size.' But, if that's not the case, it's hard to imagine what might be causing it. You say this has been the case for many years. Have you seen doctors about it? What kind of 'damage' are we talking about? How old is she?
6 months ago - Size did matter to me!! Size DOES matter. People who say otherwise don't know what they are talking about. Heck, even the Kama Sutra dedicated a whole chapter to this topic. But, bigger isn't always better. Sometimes, smaller is better. It's all about compatibility between the two people. If he is too big, and she is...
6 months ago - I hate to see teenage girls with a big roll of belly fat hanging out. Yes, it is really gross. If they are that fat, that young, it's because they are consuming foods and drinks containing lots of sugar, HFCS, flour, and other refined carbohydrates, such as doughnuts, pastries, cakes, chocolate bars, and sugar drinks. Chances are their parents are fat too, and feedi...
6 months ago - Questions About My Orgasms! Please Help! This is normal. Yes, it sounds like you are ejaculating. You have figured out how to make it happen. Most women theoretically can do this, but they never figure out how. When you are on top, you are able to cause your g-spot to be massaged, something you can't do when you are masturbating with j...
6 months ago - concern penis might be to small. Size DOES matter! But, that does NOT mean bigger is better. Girls vary in size too, so it really depends on how compatible the two of you are. If you are a lot smaller (in thickness) than she is (in tightness), then you won't feel much during sex. On the other hand, if you are much bigger than s...
6 months ago - Twitching In My Sleep Yes, this is normal. It happens to me, and I've seen it happen to others. It usually happens when I'm just starting to fall asleep.
6 months ago - How much should you have to hold in your stomach There is a simple solution: Just go on a *low-carbohydrate* diet. The pot belly is from eating foods that are high in carbs.
6 months ago - Feeling Fat Human beings are naturally thin. But, the western diet has made the majority of people fat, or at least overweight. This has skewed perceptions about what is normal, in terms of body weight and body proportions. So, it can be hard to trust people calling you healthy and normal, especially if they...
6 months ago - I have tryed almost everything to stop cumming early You can train yourself to last much much longer. There are lots of different techniques involving slowing down, stopping, pulling out, changing positions, changing mental focus. You need to be aware of when you are getting close to the "point of no return." Find some books and articles on the sub...
6 months ago - my penis is destroying my marriage Yes, 12 inches is unusually large. The average is closer to 6 inches. You would have been better off with a woman who was larger down there. All I can suggest is use lots of lubricant and try different positions.
6 months ago - Painful Sex It shouldn't be painful. It could be that your partner is too big. Let your partner know when it hurts--he might not realize it. Try using additional lubricant. Try different positions.
6 months ago - i can't cum Chances are your boyfriend isn't skilled enough to bring you to climax. He will have to learn, over time. A lot of girls do rub their clitoris, during sex, so that is perfectly normal. He should learn to be ok with that, if he isn't. Or he can rub it with his thumb, during sex. You need to tell...