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1 year, 3 months ago - 12 year-old weight how tall are you? it is perfectly normal. I wouldn't worry about it at all. especially if your on the taller side, it is perfectly normal. they taller you are, you weigh more, even if you are skinny. also, U wouldn't worry about your weight at your age, as long as you exercise and eat healthy. since...
1 year, 3 months ago - My Mother Your mom lets you drink alchohol and cus under her supervision because your gonna anyways this way she knows. not only that, but the more you tell someone not to do something, the more thier gonna do it. School is different. Your mom trusts you and your judgement enough to cuss and drink and be resp...
1 year, 3 months ago - Unemotional It is perfectly normal not to talk about your feelings so openly. thats just how some people are. If you are depressed or dealing with your feelings in an unhealthy way, however, such as cutting yourself or something like that, then it can become a problem and you should seek help so just be careful...
1 year, 3 months ago - Family is covering up serious wrongdoing Your niece is very lucky to have a sweet and caring aunt like you!
1 year, 3 months ago - Family is covering up serious wrongdoing Ok, listen to me, and listen to me very carefully. What you are going through is horrible, to be treated that way by you sisters is absolutely astonishing and appalling to me. I can understand why you don't want to associate with them, but you should. A child rapist like your brother in law doesn't...
1 year, 3 months ago - I feel untalented Yes, there are a lot of people like you! All my friends are good at dancing and singing and I am not really. I sometimes feel inferior to them. but it is important to remember that everyone has their own talent that their good at and that your true friends will love you even if your not good st the ...
1 year, 3 months ago - Is it bad? It is totally normal! no need to worry at all, I am the same way and I am a freshman in college now. If you really are lonely, just put yourself out there a little more even if your afraid to. don't be afraid to talk to guys, their just people. and if the don't have anything nice to say about the sw...
1 year, 4 months ago - I take at least 2 baths a day It honestly could be ocd. I think you have way to much time on your hands if you have time to take 3 baths a day. and honestly, washing your hair even once a day is damaging to it. doctors recamend only washing your hair every other day. you don't want to become bald. also, use a lot of lotion in th...
1 year, 4 months ago - My sister ignors me, now that she has a boyfriend. I agree and try talking to your sister about how your feeling. If you don't tell her you miss her, she won't know.
1 year, 4 months ago - 18 and no liscense I didn't get my licencse untill I was 18. Just go out and practice driving and go take the test. The test is actually pretty easy and not that big of a deal. You will feel much better if you do and you will have a lot more freedom to go places. And nevermind the mean assholes who posted to you.
1 year, 4 months ago - Am I just being paranoid? I have the same problem. I am really shy and even when I hang out with my friends at school, I am usually pretty quiet and don't say much. Let your friends no how much you like hanging out with them. Maybe throw a get together or something at your house to let them know you want to hang out with the...
1 year, 4 months ago - three?? Follow your heart. You know deep down which guy is the right choice for you. try making a pro-cons list of each guy to help you decide if ur still havin trouble
1 year, 4 months ago - Cutting It is not the problems we face, but how we choose to deal with them that make us who we are. It sounds like you have gone through some bad times and no one deserves that. You have to find a healthier way to deal with your emotions though. there is a website exactly like this for people who cut thems...
1 year, 4 months ago - I suck a baby bottle for comfort Everyone has their vices to get through the everyday stresses of life. I often twirl my hair to calm myslef down when watiching tv or falling asleep. I would say this was normal, but a 31 year old sucking on a baby bottle is a little weird. You have to find a healthier way to calm yourself down and ...
1 year, 4 months ago - hellp me If you don't get it with in a year, I would go see a doctor cuz there could be something else going on. There is something called turner syndrome that you can be born with and only girls can have. It affects your hormones. I am not going to get into it, if your curious, just look it up on the intern...
1 year, 4 months ago - Homer J Homer J is a racist ass hole. and to the poster, let me know when you hunt him down. I'll gladly join you!
1 year, 4 months ago - I can't find a reason to live... I wouldn't do xerxes said unless its really serious. Thats just running away from your problems and that doesn't solve anything.
1 year, 4 months ago - Flattered when a gay guy hits on you? It is normal. just keep in mind though, if you are hit on by a gay guy, you might be doing something to make him think you gay. Im sorry but someone had to say that.
1 year, 4 months ago - 7 months It is very common for women in the later stages of pregnancy to feel the way your feeling. Don't worry, its completely normal. Just remember when your husband tells you your beautiful, he is being sincere and honest and he loves you. You are just as beautiful as any other girl, even more so because ...
1 year, 4 months ago - I can't find a reason to live... Think about what you want to achieve in life. I am sure you have always had a big dream or goal you wanted to achieve. I know mine has been to go to medical school and become a doctor since I was a little kid. Think about a dream you want to accomplish and go for it. also, Think about all the hard t...