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5 months, 2 weeks ago - no sex Unusual, yes, but abnormal? No you're "normal" in the sense that there is nothing wrong with abstinence... And in some sense the waiting will make the experience MUCH better and more meaningful when it happens.... But beware the potential trap you two are setting for yourselves... If you set a lot o...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - very bad reaction to weed I smoked plenty of weed in my younger years through high school and much of college. In all that time, I only knew ONE person to ever get sick off of it. He was a friend of mine form high school. He took only a few hits from a joint that we (several other kids) were all smoking. He very quickly star...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - Arrogance (Feeling superior) Wow! Arrogance is a stretch honestly.... What you describe is really more along the lines of a (borderline) narcissistic personality disorder. Google it, and read the descriptions about the "disorder"... Fortunately you don't sound too bad really, but you could definitely use a healthy dose of reali...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - Sex all day everyday I would absolutely LOVE it, but I agree that it is not something that would be practical for daily life... I wish and pray on a regular basis that my wife would at least think about my needs 1x to 2x per week but as of right now we haven't had sex in almost 7 weeks and it SUCKS... Trust me, enjoy ...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - Marriage or Love interest? Stay or move on? WOW, I cannot tell you enough that you should NOT GIVE UP ON YOUR MARRIAGE! I agree with Ollieo's comment above... Except that counseling often doesn't work... If you want to make things better, if you want to bring that spark back, then YOU have to work on improving yourself first. YOU are having ...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - Jumbled Brain - Confused please help? Wow you are describing some serious chemical imbalance type issues. Seek professional help from a trained psychologist or psychiatrist.... Chances are pretty good (from what you describe) that you are bipolar with a hint of some other sort of psychosis (i.e. mild schizophrenia perhaps)... Seek help,...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - knocking stuff off a desk Yes its normal to be pissed off. No, its not good to just accept what they did. Next time someone tries something like that, if you DO pick up the books, then as you raise back up with the book(s) in your hands, knock their damn teeth in with the books.... Okay so maybe that's not the best thing t...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - Horny alll the time Perfectly normal... Just be careful no not let it disrupt your daily life or prevent you from meeting your other commitments in life, and of course don't let it influence you to make any unsafe or unhealthy decisions for yourself.... But with the right amount of healthy restraint(s) in place, it is ...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - I visit my fiance's ex-girlfriend's blog everyday. It is a little bit unusual to be so into reading the blog of your fiancee's ex.... If for no other reason than the fact that your fiancee is likely to feel uncomfortable about it.... If it were me in that situation, I would personally be wondering why there is so much curiosity about my ex when tha...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - Difficultity moving on - should I be over this by now? I agree with all the above comments. -And I too will pray for your recovery. As folks above have noted, definitely contact your local support center(s) and seek out a good therapist if possible. Also, you may want to check into a technique called the "Emotional Freedom Technique" (EFT)... It is ...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - MY HUSBAND DOESNT PAY ATTENTION TO ME ;[ IS IT NORMAL? Wow I disagree with this advice, but hey, each to their own. There are MANY ways to solve the same problem(s), just like on a computer there are often five or six different ways to do the same thing(s). The old adage "there is more than one way to skin a cat(fish)" comes to mind... What you suggest...
5 months, 2 weeks ago - am I a fool Wow you have a tough call on your hands. I would never go so far as to say "once a cheater, always a cheater"... That is a very unfair remark... But usually, the exception involves someone in a long term relationship where both persons involved just didn't do the right things along the way -maybe ...
6 months, 1 week ago - My Wife Doesn't Like Intimate Touching/Kisses/Hugs/Etc. Thanks again for your feedback, wayoutthere. I appreciate your support. I suppose the best way to describe my beliefs is to say that while I do attend church and I do have some fundamentally Christian beliefs, it is not that which drives me to feel the way I do -at least, not directly anyhow... For...
6 months, 1 week ago - My Wife Doesn't Like Intimate Touching/Kisses/Hugs/Etc. Thanks for your reply, cuardaitheoir. Apparently I missed it previously, but in light of the other two lengthy responses I gave above, I'm keeping this one as short as I can. Yes, I believe she may be depressed. However, she has constantly refused to take any antidepressants. When the doctor has e...
6 months, 3 weeks ago - My girlfriend is super freaky Consider yourself lucky as long as her freakiness isn't too much for you.... if the tings she does and the ways she acts are things that you like or think you might like... then GO FOR IT! when it comes to things like this, normal is only a state of mind... if its normal for you and her, and isn't h...
6 months, 3 weeks ago - Is My Hubby Bipolar?? Hey I just need to mention... Abuse is ABUSE. Verbal abuse is horrible enough! PHYSICAL abuse is even more egregious. You need to seek the support of a good counselor, and also make some plans for yourself... You need to be prepared to leave if your hubby doesn't agree with you and willingly go get...