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Be honest guys, do bigger women turn you on?
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I am a woman who does not consider herself a whale, but I'm no tiny little thing either. I wear nice clothes, do my hair, wear occasional makeup, and I think I am a nice looking woman, not model gorgeous, but pretty. I want to know if women who have curves are attractive or not because I am one.
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If they dont eat me
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Well in all honesty, it really depends on the individuals definition of fat. Frankly, looks matter. It would be incredibly difficult for me personally to be in a relationship with someone I do not find physically appealing. However, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I've been told by my friends that my definition of beauty is rather weird. I will admit that I would like to date a woman who is in shape, definitely not a whale, and some curves aren't bad.
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Of course I love meat and some fat(on the right places, ass and tits) on my women.
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she must have an attractive body, not so skinny that you could use her as a broomstick, but not that she has a spare tyre around her waist.
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Sorry, but fat women aren't attractive. It's not just the looks, but also because her health is at a serious risk.
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I like voluptious girls, like present day Christina Aguilera. She is much sexier now than when she was rail thin. I also prefer Kim Kardashian to Paris Hilton. (body not personality, they are both obnoxious and about half stupid)
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Depends how big, I don't wanna have to strap a 2x4 to my ass to keep from falling in. I don't wanna have to roll her around in flour and look for the wet spot.
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Wow, a little graphic huh?

But patties agrees.
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It is not graphic!!! ... Okay, maybe a little.
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Bwahahahahahahahaha
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HA HA Flour...wet spot.
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I love it when i have something to grab, as long as its within reasonable limits, not a behemoth. But the face must be pretty and the breasts at least D.
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Healthy i like to call it, not crack head skinny, but not a heffer either... Having to use talc to find the wet spot certainly doesn't appeal to me. Sweat rash and bed sores. BORK!
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Trust me, I don't know what it is about bigger girls but they will do more to you than the smaller ones, go for bigger girls. Besides, the way our society sets it up, its the sickly thin ones that get attention and that is not hot....
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Then why are there so many single "bigger women"? :\
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In all honesty, I think it's because big woman are a turn off to most men. It really depends on what your definition of "big" is. I know plenty of women who would consider themselves to be "fat" but there are the farthest thing from that. Looks do play a factor in relationships, thus it is incredibly difficult to be with someone who is, by your definition, beautiful.
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@: Anime7
I know this site does not make up the majority of the male populations opinions. But, when I see the votes and the comments I can't help but wonder if it is the truth.

I've seen many women of all shapes and sizes, attractive and unattractive.
They are either single, or with someone who tries to control them because they are overweight. I've seen a fair amount of seemingly satisfying relationships between men and "bigger women" as well. However, I see way more of the before mentioned scenarios than the nicer ones. I just wonder if it's the truth.
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Well, I can understand that. But I really don't think that "big" women are attractive to most men. Although I do know one or two guys that are and they have a good reason for it. I've never actually seen a relationship where the male was manipulating the girl because of her weight. Personally, I would just think that the person is manipulative by nature, regardless of his partners weight.
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@: Anime7
Well, in most cases I see the male is the one who is insecure. They'll always say things that are rude and insensitive. For example, "no one is going to want you but me" "you're not good enough for me" Things like that most often. Basically, they are trying dehumanize the girl and make her feel like she is worth noting. When in all truth it is he that is unwanted by society.

Men like that have no one to blame but themselves. Pathetic that they try to make their insecurities someone else's. There is a nice amount of men like that. Honestly, I despise human beings with those traits. They are the ones that give good men bad names.

Now don't get me wrong, it ie not like I go out and see this everyday. I've just seen it happen over the course of a few years.
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I've never actually seen people treat others badly in a relationship. The only time that I've ever witnessed any sort of behavior that was, well not polite, was when this guy I knew treated his girlfriend like a sex object. She didn't seem to mind however. But ya I've never seen a person dehumanize his/her partner. But I know a lot of women who are single, big and small. I never really hear my guy friends talk about the "big" ones as being attractive, great people to hang out with yes, but not relationship material.
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@: Anime7
So how big is too big? Would you say a woman's size 13 is too big? What if the woman has had kids and can't get rid of the extra fat and skin that has come along with being pregnant?
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In all honesty, I have no idea how big a woman's size 13 or anything is. The only way that I would be able to say what's fat and what's not is if I see the person. I've met women who had children and still retained some fat but still looked attractive.
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I like all kinds of women. Usually though, I'd choose option "A llittle meat is great, but don't over do it." Howeer, I HATE it when women are TOO skinny, so rest assured :)
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Sorry but no I just lovem small and petite , just my taste I'm afraid. If I was a tall girl I'd slim down and be as feminine as I could to counteract it.
But hey , my best friend loved bigger girls , he loved them fat too they just turned him on. Yet he was only pretty short, muscular but short.
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Bigger women? Depends. Women look better with a bit of mat on them, not stick thin. Do I think overweight females are attractive? No, definetly not. Sometimes it's not their fault, but that doesn't mean that because it isn't that I will view her as skinnier.

But, some people like fat (as in obese) people, for some strange reason, and they are definetly the minority of males.

What I find funny is that I have a feeling males will be honest here, showing that appearance matters, but if there was a poll saying "Be honest, gals, do bigger men turn you on?", you would get so much "Aslong as he's nice, aslong as he's funny, etc, which is just plain annoying. I can't be bothered typing out more on the subject.
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@: ItDuz
Agree.

There has to be some attractiveness too him. I can't date a guy just because he is nice or funny.

But I just normally don't go for the muscular men that most girls do; it's ridiculous. As long as he has a nice face and isn't too big as in obese.

But of course there has to be a good personality.
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