Thank you for your contribution. Regardless of you actually spent time in training and in the military service, people will probably say you're wrong, even when you witnessed these inequalities with your own eyes.
Thanks for commenting, I'm not happy that you have to do more work that the group saying they're 100% equal, but I am happy that someone such as yourself with experiences of this can give some valid points in. Thanks.
Once you're with a girl long enough, she will start wearing your cloths, and its completely normal, but try to wear her tank-top to work and let me know how it works out for you.
Compared to the inequalities suffered by other groups, it is so inconsequential that it makes the ones who complain about it seem like woman-hating little bitches.
Very unlikely to win child custody, even if he is a better father.
False rape charges.
Not allowed to claim financial abortion like women can claim abortion, and so if a woman falls pregnant, she has full control over her, the child's, and the father's life, he has no choice of how his future will be.
Sexual assault not being taken seriously, even when there is video evidence of it.
Domestic violence not being shown on the males behalf (40% of domestic violence has a female victimizer and a male victim).
Not able to rely on the law when it involves a female victimizer as much as the women can rely on the law when there is a male victimizer.
Expected to do the jobs that involve risk to health, safety, and their lives in jobs that women are in.
Have a higher expectation to get a job in the military or law enfourcement, yet gets paid the same.
In law enfourcement and the military, they are put in more dangerous zones that could kill or get them severely injured, yet is given the same pay as the women that aren't nearly in as much danger.
Given harsher prison time than women even when women do the same crime under the exact same conditions.
I could go on, and even when these are facts people can look up for themselves, they will thumbs this comment down. Why? Because they don't like to hear it, and it upsets them, regardless of what I listed being facts.
So no, they aren't mild at all, and it's people like you that give me a reason to talk about this subject more.
he has control over whether he fathers a child, its called protection. He suffers no physical harm in the pregnancy or abortion, this cannot be ignored. There is genuine harm which the female bears solely , how fair is this? It is not fair so this is an inequality right there
Women also have the option, it's called birth control. Women have far more forms of birthcontrol than men. He suffers no physical harm, but he can be in financial harm the rest of his life, which effects his life such as food, heating etc. In some cases, the man can't make a family with someone else when he is ready to because the woman that had the child the man d idn't want is getting money from him.
And you are forgetting that women can "choose" to have an ab aortion or not. There is a difference between giving birth and having to raise the child, and it's debatable which one is worse witgh different people.
she has financial harm as well for the rest of her life, in some cases she cant make a family for herself cause she has a child. she has the baby inside her so she has that choice she also bears the physical harm so it evens out
She has financial harm? Are you kidding? With all the benefits and refuges for pregnant, and women in general, a lot of women make a living off of child benefits, so don't say it's a struggle, it's anything but, women can never have to work again due to having a child because the goverment pays her child benefits. Males, not so much. If a father has a child with a woman, a child he never wanted, then leaves, he has to spend money to something he never wanted that the woman had "chosen" to have, so he is having to litrally pay for her choices, where as she can make a living off of it.
Once again, that's her choice, she can have an abortion or be on the pill, nobody is forcing her to fal pregnant or keep the child in her, males are being forced to pay for children they don't want.
Inequality is based on your range of view. Just as viewing the Earth from the Moon, where country borders become invisible, the more generally one perceives an issue, the smoother the points and edges will appear to be.
I've officially made my intelligent-sounding contribution.
Now if you want an opinion, striving for equality is good, but affirmative action is not. I shouldn't have an advantage just because I have lady parts, even if it's for my benefit. That's just the way I think about it. So there. :|
Sorry ItDuz but I think you get thumbed down coz you have said all this before and people are bored listening to your rants. I'm sure there must be a better site for you, where others will agree with you more.
Those older and wiser on this site realise what Parrish said is right.
He is not taken seriously as he has such limited life experience being so young. I've told him before, when he actually lives and works, out of his mama's house, he should come back -with his new perspective.
Most of us are more enlightened nowadays. Thankfully the dark ages are over and laws have been set up to prevent the worst of the discrimination.
Joybird, you seem to think simply because you have age, that you automaticaly know everything on this topic. You are not logical enough to understand that this topic is taled about online by people that have experienced it, and given that I have also experienced some of the inequalities, it just shows you to be, once again, and emotional fool.
I'm not taken seriously, yet the majority of voters agree with me...Such great logic you have there, Joybird.
Now you're at petty insults? Mature, where is that experience that is supposed to tell you to be a mature adult? Talk a bout being an "experienced adult" when you actually are one, and not just an immature adult.
"Most of us are enlightened"? What? So because "you" don't agree with me on this subject, "you" are englightened? My God, grow up and get over yourself.
Yes, the "biggest" forms of descrimination is gone but not all of it, so we should just stop caring now? Use your brain.
"Yan! Boring topic- yet again!!" And yet you've commented so much on this topic. Be mature and maybe, you know, logical. If you don't like the subject, don't click. Do you needed that repeated? "If. You. Don't. Like. The. Topic. Don't. Click. On. To. It. Say that over and over again. And you try to imply I'm the illogical, immature child.
Regardless, you shouldn't talka bout experiences, becasuse I would be willing to bet that you have experienced the things most have, yet not experienced all the other things that happen in life.
And hey, do you know what's great about the internet? You can "share" with eachother. I may not have experienced everything in life, I have experienced them in males so far in my life, and I'm only nineteen, but I can read up on other people's experiences, read articles, news, etc. Or do you think personal experience is the only way to understand things?
You should come back when you actually use your brain, which is quite sad given that a nineteen year old is telling a fully grown adult this.
I was here way before your time here, so don't think you have any standing telling me in if I should go or not, I was here in the early times of IIN.
Again, you imply my age determines my intellect and wisdom in attempt to insult me, most of what I say on these topics are facts, and yet people get emotional over it rather than logical.
At the time of reading, I find it amusing that 17 males and only 4 females have voted. Poor wee ItDuz thinks he's thumbed down by females who have a chip on their shoulder, whereas they don't seem to read this old-fashioned out-of-date crap anymore. Probably too busy running the world :o)
What makes you think they haven't read it? What makes you think they haven't read it, but know they can't answer it without it being obvious t hat they can't g et 100% what they want?
Not to mention, if males are the majority of the ones voting, yet females barely are, then that shows that males are effected by double standards and can indentify with them.
Joybird, I find it quite funny that you are trying so hard to insult me, or indirectly insult me, yet your logic while trying to insult me only insults your own intelligence, and given that I'm nineteen and you're a grown adult, what does that say about you?
women have all the advantages except balls and strength and most men give that up when its the only advantage they got...men are pieces of shit in our society ..no ones cares if you fucking die...your only adbantage is your balls and strength and your cunning....if you play by their rules they win..you have to play by your rules
I have to waste at least 6 months of my life in military service (or 12 months in public service or 6 months in prison), women don't.
If a woman claims I raped her, I will be put into prison, even if I have never even seen her.
If a woman is violent, her husband will be blamed. Even the children will be given to the woman.
They often get a job even if they are not qualified, because there are quotas.
And women still whine...
Thanks for commenting, I'm not happy that you have to do more work that the group saying they're 100% equal, but I am happy that someone such as yourself with experiences of this can give some valid points in. Thanks.
Compared to the inequalities suffered by other groups, it is so inconsequential that it makes the ones who complain about it seem like woman-hating little bitches.
False rape charges.
Not allowed to claim financial abortion like women can claim abortion, and so if a woman falls pregnant, she has full control over her, the child's, and the father's life, he has no choice of how his future will be.
Sexual assault not being taken seriously, even when there is video evidence of it.
Domestic violence not being shown on the males behalf (40% of domestic violence has a female victimizer and a male victim).
Not able to rely on the law when it involves a female victimizer as much as the women can rely on the law when there is a male victimizer.
Expected to do the jobs that involve risk to health, safety, and their lives in jobs that women are in.
Have a higher expectation to get a job in the military or law enfourcement, yet gets paid the same.
In law enfourcement and the military, they are put in more dangerous zones that could kill or get them severely injured, yet is given the same pay as the women that aren't nearly in as much danger.
Given harsher prison time than women even when women do the same crime under the exact same conditions.
I could go on, and even when these are facts people can look up for themselves, they will thumbs this comment down. Why? Because they don't like to hear it, and it upsets them, regardless of what I listed being facts.
So no, they aren't mild at all, and it's people like you that give me a reason to talk about this subject more.
He suffers no physical harm, but he can be in financial harm the rest of his life, which effects his life such as food, heating etc. In some cases, the man can't make a family with someone else when he is ready to because the woman that had the child the man d idn't want is getting money from him.
And you are forgetting that women can "choose" to have an ab aortion or not. There is a difference between giving birth and having to raise the child, and it's debatable which one is worse witgh different people.
Once again, that's her choice, she can have an abortion or be on the pill, nobody is forcing her to fal pregnant or keep the child in her, males are being forced to pay for children they don't want.
I've officially made my intelligent-sounding contribution.
Now if you want an opinion, striving for equality is good, but affirmative action is not. I shouldn't have an advantage just because I have lady parts, even if it's for my benefit. That's just the way I think about it. So there. :|
Those older and wiser on this site realise what Parrish said is right.
While I usually agree with your comments, he has been thumbed up and didn't dissagree with what Parrish said.
Furthermore if he was on another site preaching to the converted he would be wasting his time and not promoting debate on the matter.
He is not taken seriously as he has such limited life experience being so young. I've told him before, when he actually lives and works, out of his mama's house, he should come back -with his new perspective.
Most of us are more enlightened nowadays. Thankfully the dark ages are over and laws have been set up to prevent the worst of the discrimination.
Yawn! Boring topic - yet again!!
I'm not taken seriously, yet the majority of voters agree with me...Such great logic you have there, Joybird.
Now you're at petty insults? Mature, where is that experience that is supposed to tell you to be a mature adult? Talk a bout being an "experienced adult" when you actually are one, and not just an immature adult.
"Most of us are enlightened"? What? So because "you" don't agree with me on this subject, "you" are englightened? My God, grow up and get over yourself.
Yes, the "biggest" forms of descrimination is gone but not all of it, so we should just stop caring now? Use your brain.
"Yan! Boring topic- yet again!!"
And yet you've commented so much on this topic. Be mature and maybe, you know, logical. If you don't like the subject, don't click. Do you needed that repeated? "If. You. Don't. Like. The. Topic. Don't. Click. On. To. It. Say that over and over again.
And you try to imply I'm the illogical, immature child.
Regardless, you shouldn't talka bout experiences, becasuse I would be willing to bet that you have experienced the things most have, yet not experienced all the other things that happen in life.
And hey, do you know what's great about the internet? You can "share" with eachother. I may not have experienced everything in life, I have experienced them in males so far in my life, and I'm only nineteen, but I can read up on other people's experiences, read articles, news, etc. Or do you think personal experience is the only way to understand things?
You should come back when you actually use your brain, which is quite sad given that a nineteen year old is telling a fully grown adult this.
Again, you imply my age determines my intellect and wisdom in attempt to insult me, most of what I say on these topics are facts, and yet people get emotional over it rather than logical.
Joybird, I find it quite funny that you are trying so hard to insult me, or indirectly insult me, yet your logic while trying to insult me only insults your own intelligence, and given that I'm nineteen and you're a grown adult, what does that say about you?