So imagine this. You've been in a wonderful relationship for several years with a woman you deeply love. One day she tells you a story, as if it's supposed to be something you want to hear, about how her friend took her top off while she slept. This woke her up but she never put her top back. Stayed topless in a room full of her male friends So... I never knew how to react when she told me this. Ya I was angry, but how angry do you think would be appropriate?
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And your girlfriend's friend sounds like a bitch. I don't have any friends that would undress me like that in my sleep. I don't see anything inherently wrong with sleeping in a room full of guys but friends undressing me? No. They might draw on me (which has never happened) or take a picture of me asleep for kicks but they wouldn't undress me. That's a level of disrespectful they wouldn't dwell near.
It's probably for the best you two separated. Sorry to say, but you'll be much happier! :)
I mistakenly stayed with an asshole who thought it was completely acceptable for his close girl "friend" to spank his ass. Sounds like our ex's belong together :p haha.
It's so shocking that she would do even this. She was so conserved and prudish when it came to nudity and sexual matters, yet still does this. Makes no sense...
More often then not attention whores end up being real life whores as well. Your better off without her.
I dont see anything wrong with being topless because breasts are not naturally a sexual organ and it is mostly because of religion that we are taught to hide our bodies and be ashamed of them. If I'm in my own home or having a bonfire or at a friends who doesn't care and it gets too hot, I'll take my shirt off and not see it as any different from if a dude would because at the root of the issue it is no different.
And I understand you wanting to protect her. But it would be foolish to think you can protect yourself simply by avoiding doing certain things. And unless you think all her friends would gang rape her/let someone else rape her, she would be safer in a room full of people.
Bad people could be anywhere, but they're not everywhere. I wouldn't encourage my significant other to live their life in fear
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Read it again for you ;P
Still have the same thing in mind.
Need a bonfire invite?
And it is your kind of attitude that perpetuates exactly what I was complaining about.
Get your prick out of your hands. You're not going to pick up too many women unless you learn a little tact.
If I was in a relationship, I wouldn't go topless to male friends. If I was you, I would've dumped her.
I've had her alot on my mind recently and this is one of the only matters on my mind that make me feel like my memories were tainted.
On a more related note, some boyfriends are more jealous people than others. I myself am very laid back with my dates and how they interact with other men, but in this instance it has left a bad taste in my mouth.
Why did they undress a sleeping girl? -_-
As for being casually naked, it really depends. During high school, me and select classmates often went skinny-dipping after class, and while that WAS sexually loaded, it was not a big deal. A photocamera landed in the river in the early days, but no other incidents took place.
What i am trying to say: It really depends on the relationship with them, their history, and, as said, the motives of the guys. I mean, WHY is your girl sleeping in a room full of other guys in the first place? Is she casually nude often? I know it's all in the past, but those are important factors to understand what her motivation was?
Was she intoxicated at the time? Was she maybe trying to downplay it in the veins of "They all had a good look already, i will not give them the satisfaction of panicking now..."? Did she ever give you reason to suspect she was cheating?
All in all, i don't think it's enough for a verdict of negative nature. Heck, we are young and do lots of stupid things. During junior high, I convinced a friend of mine to play strip poker with 2 guys because _I_ wanted to see her naked. Well, i lost. *shrug* There's many stupid reasons why people end up seeing you naked, and nudeness is natural enough to not be sufficient for being a slut/whore by itself.
And just to clarify she was stripped by a female friend, not a male one. I would have FREAKED if a guy did that to her. As for sleeping in a room full of guys her excuse was that the couch was comfy and she didn't want to go upstairs. Sleeping in front of friends like that is one thing I told her never to do. So many people get taken advantage of in some way or another in that state.
And was alcohol involved? Not that I know of. And no, I never suspected that she cheated.
I too would've been angry on a subject like this.
Well past's past? Aint that?
If she was normal she would have told you in an appologizeing way. And if she was a whore she would not have told you at all.