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Girls Please Dont Lie, Do You Think Size Matters In A Guy?
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I know most girls would prob be nice and say size doesnt matter, but truthfully i think most girls dont mean that 100% when they say that. So im just really curious cause im 18 and still a virgin and im not the biggest, but i really just wanna know if size really does matter
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You need a real sex freak to become really good though, And it's hard to find those quality's sometimes
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Honey, I lost my virginity 9 years ago. I've had sex with a small handful of men since then. Insinuating that I'm a slut because of that really isn't fair. I don't sleep around, at all. But I've had plenty of boyfriends over the course of 9 years that I have slept with, so I think I've got enough experience to give a worthy opinion. That doesn't make me a slut. Thanks though! :-)

And yes, I did say size doesn't matter.. as long as the guy knows what he's doing. Haven't you ever heard the phrase, "It's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean"?

Judging by the poll results, size does matter to SOME. Just not to me. Take it for what you will.

All I'm saying is if you're not that big, then get some experience under your belt and learn to be dynamite in the sack. If you're good, no girl will care that your penis isn't huge.
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Don't worry about your penis.

Okay, my bf has a pretty large one. It can get pretty painful. And oral gets difficult too.
Honestly, big dicks are overrated. Yea they're cool to have but its not everything. Average is the way to go haha
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Yeah so true I've once dated a south african guy and he had such a big penis. Penetration is difficult and yes it can get real painful. You do not fully enjoy sex

It's beautiful to look at though
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Yeah if rather it feel good not feel like my vagina is tearing. Plus if rather get the whole thing in my mouth and down the throat than only get the tip. Js.
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a large one takes time to get use to.
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as long as it gets the job done i dont think it matters
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meow.
honestly size has nothing to do with it.
my last bf had 8 1/2 but sucked in bed.
my current bf has 6 and is so much better. he gets me every time(;
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nope doesnt matter, i would actually be worried if it was really big incase it hurt
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& I don't think it makes someone shallow to say size matters. It's an opinion on what feels better. I wouldn't not be with someone based on their size...
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Okay dude, I am no woman, but I'm going to throw in my two cents anyway. I do understand your concern with this question, especially being a virgin. Before I lost my virginity, it's all I thought about as well. But you are getting some very mixed results here, my friend. Which in the long run is only going to give you something more to worry about. Trust me. The only thing you can do, is what comes natural. Don't try to fuck like a pornstar cause it's not gonna happen. Besides, your first time should be with someone you want to make love to, not fuck. The connection you share with someone also has a play in how satisfied your partner is going to be. Just follow the motion of the ocean man, pardon the pun. From personal experience dude, I'm not hung like a pornstar or anything, I'm actually considered "average" I guess but my point is, even with me being average I can still dish out multiple orgasms. My record is 10 in two hours. C'mon, my name is ArrogantBastard, I had to say it. Anyway, the best thing for you to do, my friend, is not to worry about yourself but focus on the woman. Make sure you do your best to meet all of her needs. Don't ask her what size she prefers, just show confidence is what your packin'.
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^ the truth
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I think girth matters more length. And even more than that hardness, i.e. one that is not floppy but stays rock hard in its entirety.
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so much more psychological.powerful orgasms start in the mind......people just believe what their told instead of looking for the truth.they convince themselves that they need certain things to get off when in reality u dont even have to be touched to orgasm
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Well most girls might actually want bigger, but thicker is usually wanted more often. Harder is obviously better too, also in my opinion, Hardness and Appearance are more preferred. I'm not a woman so honestly who wants to suck on some 7+ penis? Not me, I like my penis how i like my men, short and full of energy.
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Average size is best, I cannot accommodate anyone too big, but obviously its nice to feel your man. Skill is even better than size!
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do you be slepping when you be gettin it in.......
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It doesn't matter to me. Honestly, I would just have average than a huge one- it's not that it's a huge turn off, it's just that my vagina is not that big :P. If the guy I lose my virginity to for the first time has a big penis, I'm afraid, it'll be painful and I might bleed D:. Average is good- just big enough to pleasure :). If she really wants you, then your size shouldn't be a problem. If it was, it means she only had a lust for you.

I honestly did not think this many girls would say it does matter -__-u. A little shallow in my opinion...

Is this the same with guys and boobs or ass?
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Uhh honestly the girls boobs and butt isnt that big of a deal to me. An ass is an ass and everyone has one and for the tits sometimes the girls who have smaller petite boobs look better. Thats just me though and Big things like that are a turn off. I swear to god, i think Kim Kardashian looks nasty lol. But its different for guys.
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r u gayy...
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I don't see how differing personal preference and honesty is shallow. Logically, different things turn different people on, differences in what pleases people shouldn't be judged as shallow. Now if they were saying that smaller penises can't please ANYONE, now that's shallow. I'd still be with my fiance even if it was too small for me but it does matter regarding amount of purely physical sexual pleasure when penetration is involved. I lost my virginity to a 5 and 1/2 inched guy and it was perfect. People shouldn't be made to feel guilty for expressing what pleases them personally.
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Orioles2013
I don't give a flying fuck about ass size (no pun intended) and I actually prefer small boobs (B or smaller) all the time :P
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sometimes the "smaller" men are more skilled in bed and definitely know how to make up for it! as long as a man knows how to uses what both he and i have, i couldn't care less about his weewee. i will always make them feel like their perfect!
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I used to worry i wasn't big enough... but when i am told by three sepperate girls that i'm the biggest they've had (only counting the three i can be sure that they're not lying...) and one who i can't even make love to because of my girth... be aware that size DOES matter but not in the way people think...
being too large IS a problem... moreso for the unfortunate girl...
but of course, each has their preference...
still, you can be ten foot long and useless if you have no self controll XD
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franciosdillinger
with great dick comes great responsibility.
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...Okay, this is coming from a virgin, so it may not mean anything, but I'd say that the way you use your dick is better than the size of it... what's the point of a big dick if it can't even be used right?

Speaking of which, I can't believe how many girls says "size does matter"... that's pretty shallow.
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Size does NOT matter. I had sex with a guy that had a small cock & he was the 1st 2 make me squirt, I didn't even know I was a squirter. Like they say its not about the size of the boat, its the motion of the ocean lol! Soooo true!!!!
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I think hardness matters and girth. my so has a good one but it seems not as hard these past year, hardness is a turn on for many reasons.
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ladeda
Too small is no good, too large is no good either. Average is best. But I wouldn't worry to much about your size if I were you. I'm sure someone will love it. & If it is really small you can do other things to pleasure her such as oral.
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A little information for the that think their penis is to small.

A study published in BMC Women's Health surveyed women's preferences concerning penis size and concluded that width rather than length is a more important factor of sexual stimulation.[3]

Similar results were found in a cover story published in Psychology Today,[49][50] which surveyed 1,500 readers (about 2/3 women) about male body image. Many of the women were not particularly concerned with penis size and over 71% thought men overemphasized the importance of penis size and shape. Generally, the women polled cared more about width than men thought, and less about length. "...the number one reason women preferred a thicker penis was that it was more satisfying during intercourse."



Products such as penis pumps, pills, and other dubious means of penis enlargement are some of the most marketed products in email spam. At present there is no consensus in the scientific community of any non-surgical technique that permanently increases either the thickness or length of the erect penis that already falls into the normal range (4.5" to 7")

this is interesting i thought: One study analysing the self-reported Kinsey data set found that homosexual men had statistically larger penises than their heterosexual counterparts.
good luck
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Beauty is "ONLY SKIN DEEP". The really important factor is your love for one another. That is all that really matters. I have been happily married to my "TUBBY HUBBY" for 40+ years now. So, no, size does not matter.
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I'm a guy and was pleased to see a decent percentage answer that size is not an overwhelming consideration, based on the presumed answers from females. Just as in music, the more skilled a guy is devoted to being with his instrument, the sweeter the tune will be. Hats off to all the young women who were honest enough to say it like it is. After all, comfort should be an important consideration during lovemaking. Thoughtful guys are aware of this... selfish guys aren't.
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Well if anyone cares or is even still reading here is my two cents. I have an average size penis 6.5" rock hard and have been married for almost 17 years. My wife and I have always had amazing sex together since day one. We also have a couple of really large dildos that I like to use, helps with my fantasy issues but anyway she cums on them really hard but still says she would still rather just have me and no she's not just stroking my ego because she knows I don't care. I am a bit of a freak and I am just into that. We were divorced and separated for 2 years and in that time she was with a couple of other men. The first guy she said he was probably 10" and thick and hard or "ginormous" as she put it and that he went to work but it just wasn't great and the other was really thick and he just couldn't work it at all. So I guess the point I am getting to is this the whole large dildo thing she does for me that she could care less, basically it all comes down to just knowing how to use what you have no matter what size it is. Big or small just knowing how to move just right and hit those spots and pleasing your lady is what it's all about. Hope this helps somebody.
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I don't like guys with big penises, pain is NOT fun.
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preciiousv
it does not make it painful if you take it slow and know what your doing
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I wouldn't say size is the most important thing; like most people have said, it's more about what you do with it.

That being said, size helps.

But I wouldn't think you should worry about being too small. The chances are if you're in a position to be showing a girl yourself, she already wants you. She'd have to be pretty shallow, and not the sort of girl you'd want to be with anyway, if she then said no.

I always think confidence is the most important thing. Act like you know what you are doing and look out for signs that she's enjoying it.

Also, you say you are not the biggest; what're you comparing yourself to? A guy I was with had told me he wasn't big, and to this day he is definitely the biggest I've ever been with.
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it depends on how big the skank's hole is.
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i dont think size matters at all lol i like em normal not too big not too small as long as the guy isnt fat im fine haha
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Size does matter to me. :) My boyfriend's big and it's awesome sex although it hurts sometimes but I'd rather that than small. I had sex with a small guy once and it felt like he wasn't even erected. :(
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Doesn't matter at all to me.
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Your so rite black guys are very huge & me being a guy wish i could be as big as a black guy! U go girl!
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Doesn't matter to me, actually. But it does help if he does.
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It doesn't really matter, but it does have more effect if he is bigger. Though because he can go deeper, and you can feel it more in your stomach...etc. But, than again if he is average than that is fine to. My average size is about 8' bigger than 9' can cause some serious damage. So sometimes smaller isn't such a bad idea.
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If you're good, doesn't matter ;)
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i'd rather have a guy with an average sized penis who can actually make me orgasim to a guy with a large member how makes me feel like a punching bag... size doesn't definatly equal a good time... it's more experiance... and an over confident guy generally won't try as hard as maybe a guy who's more insecure... in my experiance at least
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From experience with dildos, after about 4-5 inches (hitting the g spot) it has more to do with how you use it
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girls what would you say is 7 and a half big or not
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Hannah2137
I would say so but not all would
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I think what you don't have u always want it big or small
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Don't matter, although, in fact, I prefer smaller.
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A big(ger) ship with some great motion ;)
(it's a matter of personal preference as different women accommodate different sizes)

Communicate and make sure she's not hurting, take care of her and be prepared to give it to her hard when she craves it, a woman wants to feel it but not for it to break her ;)

Also may I suggest eating lovely meal before funky time and also make sure there's some tasty snacks for afterwards.
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Having had some life experience, size does matter, but not nearly as much as most men think it does. Where it matters most is confidence. Women want confident men. Big, small, in-between... you were given what you were given. Learn how to get the best out of it. That's true with anything in life. She'll love it if you do. Learn that you're a man who knows himself, knows her, and knows how to get things done and take care of her. So dude, if she looks at you and says you're small, take that little thing and bang the shit out of her with it.


If you think you're too small to satisfy, then you are.
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Honestly, I've had a few longer and a few shorter, and my personal favorite is 6 1/2 inches with a decent amount of thickness. Longer is painful and doesn't fit in all the way. It's better when a guy can be fully inside of you in my opinion. For me medium is best, not too thick not too thin, not too long not too short , which too short to me is less than 5 inches long and a regular to a little more thickness is best, which is just my opinion. Really it varies depending upon the woman. It's like asking what a girl's favorite color is, some may love green, others may despise it, others may love all colors despite their differences. Same deal with penises. Opinions Vary.
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i'm a guy but i can tell you that size doesn't matter, what matters is compatibility. vagina isn't bottomless hole you know lol
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Hey well being a sexy babe in all i want to say size does matter to a certain extent like 4 + inches is acceptable guys ..there is such thing as a mico penis which is 2 and a half cm's .I'm female and what really matters is if u can please her sexually and be a good partner.What gets my neve is if we give oral sex they should give back ! Thanks for reading .xxo!!!
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Well however much i would like alot of people to read this but it may be impossible,maybe.
This is my truth:the size of the penis only matters if you don't know what you are doing,iam a guy and (won't say my size) but i have now had sex with three girls of different geographical areas and they all reach the climax however much my penis isn't that big,know how to use yourself and ya partner's body...penetration is nothing if you really prefer to enjoy sex,there is no happiness a girl can reach in sex without orgasm/climax and atleast for the period i spent fearing to have sex because of my size helped me to learn more...cultures differ and what's done and how differ but nomatter where a girl is coming from,their size of experience iam sure to those who know,climax is always on top not deep and any penis size can make a girl regret where she has passed before reaching you.
If you really need to know,write to me on fssewannyana at yahoo dot com.
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Yes and no. If a guy is too little, like 6 or smaller. Then bummer.,However, 7in or more is very good. But, going above 11in. I think is To much. Be an attentive, passionate lover and you should be fine.
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How the fuck is 6" small? Is your vagina like a foot deep wtf?im packin 4.5 in of untamed raming power, whos up for some bouncey yum yum time?
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Umm smaller isnt the greatest but niether is bigger the medum sizes are better because it gets the job don and you are not in pain. So dont worry about you pinus hun.
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I'm not a girl, but my very large experince says that the length isn't important, may be it is harmful if it is over 7 inches, so with queer exceptions seen only in the web. normal total length inside vagina is about 7 to 8 inches, and after inside is the cervix that is not allowing more penis length.
If it is large in width, is really important, because women vagina is highly elastic and her bones body is Ok adapted to let pass there a baby's head over 4 inches wide and I've never here about a penis of this width size.
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gee i hope you coded in a submission limit derrrrrrrp
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Honestly a little size does help, but.. this is gonna sound really cheesy, haha, but it's not about the size of the ship, it's about the motion in the ocean. I actually mean that :)
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It wasnt before i met someone thats big, it feels better
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Feh
Penis size doesn't really matter. Most women aren't satisfied with mere penile penetration so ALL men would do themselves a favor by learning all the different ways of pleasuring their partner. Fingers, mouth, toys....the nerves of a penis are set up in a very different way than the nerves of a vagina. An erection ends in ejaculation. It's not a default that an aroused woman will orgasm.
Do the work and let the lady get off first, more likely than not she'll be more than happy to do the work to get you off. If you get off, and fall asleep without giving her a "hand", that's what will get you the reputation of being bad at sex.
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yeah it matters: if your a complete slut.
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Size matters to me
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preciiousv
i like what i can handle but i like them thick
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a 5-6 inch penis is normal, but far from a dream penis. I'm 28, female, petite, 5'2" and thin, and i consider myself to have a small size vagina. If i dont have sex for a month or so, it can be painful putting a tampon in. but the vagina is an amazing thing, it can squeeze out a baby (nothing pleasurable about that! but it can be done) so the question is, does a huge penis matter when falling in love? not so much, honestly, but the emotional high we call the "honeymoon" peroid eventually ends and when my 6" boyfriend (who is very very skilled in bed) and I are having sex, i sometimes remember my ex bf from years ago, he had a thick 9" penis and when i got turned on and wet, it went right in, with little or no pain, in fact the slight pain really made getting animal fucked by a huge cock that much more satisfying. God i miss his massive dick in me.

girls buy big dildos, not small dildos because big penises are better.

The question is often asked incorrectly,
"does size matter to women?"
who cares if a poor tall thin man with a small penis is preferred to a rich fat hairy man with a big one, the question is,

"which is better in a husband, who you will fuck for the rest of your life? If you could choose his penis size?:

a penis under 6"
a penis between 6"-7"
a unusually thick 7" penis
a 8" penis
a unusually thick 8" penis
a 9" penis proportionately thick (big)

not one girl here is going to choose
a penis under 6" I doubt any girl could honestly choose anything under 7" even
petite girls with small vaginas. It only takes 3 or 4 fucks to get used to a big cock. and then it's pleasureville.
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See that is kinda a slutty thing to say, saying you miss you ex's dick inside you when you have a boyfriend now. If you told your current boyfriend that now, how do you think he'd feel?
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Lol. Her boyfriend would probably say he already knows and that's why he fucks her bff on the side anyhow.
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Lol yeah like if your with someone you shouldnt be thinking about your ex. Its one thing to think big penises are better but thinking about your ex's while with a current bf is fucked up
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Never ever ever!! I would also not like to hear a guy tell me how his ex was!! i mean, it kills all the good moods and makes u start feeling inadeqauet. So just zip it within u.
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"Not one girl here is going to choose a penis under 6 inches."

HERE'S YOUR ONE GIRL. :)
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I agree with u! Am 31 yrs old male & i have a extremely small penis bout 2inches & very thin in thickness! Ive been told by girls who ive slept with has told me that am to small for them & i cany please them in bed! The truth hurts but its true! Am used to my puny penis! I call it thumb tac lol
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One day, ur gonna get a woman who would fall in love with it and u will give her the satisfaction she has been craving for. just be optimistic and thank God coz he created u like that with a purpose. You are not a lesser man. You are just a man like any other. and dont even call urself names, believe in urself.
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Damn dude thats sad lol, i thought i was small with 5 and a half inches. But its cool how your open to having a small wang and theres nothing wrong with that. Atleast you come out and say it cause most people wouldnt tell anyone that haha
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Mine is between 6-7" and I never had a problem giving multiple orgasms.

Does that mean I am happy with my size? Nope, I wish I was bigger like every man on the planet [except those who are already huge]. If I had a 8+incher I would be very dangerous.
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And you just earned yourself a one-way ticket to Slutsville.
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I admire your honesty.
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