This will sound like a cop-out answer, but it isn't. The spectrum of body shapes of women I've been with is probably wider than most. From eighty pounds to four hundred pounds, at the extremes and I can honestly say I don't have an obvious preference. The differences made things interesting. The sad thing is that I can't recall being with anyone who was entirely happy with their body (even if I was).
Actually, I think I've lied, there is a body type which doesn't do it for me. Overly muscular. I don't mean like an athlete or sportsperson (they look great) but more like a female bodybuilder or how Madonna went. The limit is somewhere around Serena Williams at her peak. I find her attractive, but much more would be too much.
Yeah agreed there, overly muscular just gets kind of ...to be too much like you said lol, in the sense of I would never become too muscular.... And it's interesting you say you have been with women from 80 pounds to a few hundred pounds. I posted this mostly because a lot of guys are very shallow and they need a woman with certain characteristics (body type) or they won't give her a chance. Just wanted to see if there were some men out there that were different from the ones I have met in my life lol, curiosity ... I fall under well-proportioned, I work out a lot....but only to stay in shape, not to become muscular haha
Yeah, it's not even that being muscular is manly. I've never minded that. It's just less attractive. Only to me personally; not in general.
Body type has never been a barrier for me. With the very slim girl, giving her a bear hug felt like I was protecting her from the world and, in bed, being able to lift her so easily made certain things fun. :)
For the girl who was heaviest, her issues with her size broke us up, rather than me having an issue. It's a shame. She was very funny, and really, really pretty. And there was a lot of her to love.
I don't think I'm unusual in this. Some of my friends care, but just as many don't. I actually like if men are shallow. They leave some really great women for me. :)
I don't really care so much. You love a person for who they are, and then you learn to love whatever their body shape happens to be also because it's a part of them, a part of the person you love. No preference.
I like well proportioned. All of the weight is evened out with some on top and some on the bottom. Think Marylin Monroe or Uma Thurman... she's got some weight on her but she's not fat. Thick is good and some in the middle isn't bad, but if she's just fat, ehh... it doesn't do much for me.
Actually, I think I've lied, there is a body type which doesn't do it for me. Overly muscular. I don't mean like an athlete or sportsperson (they look great) but more like a female bodybuilder or how Madonna went. The limit is somewhere around Serena Williams at her peak. I find her attractive, but much more would be too much.
Body type has never been a barrier for me. With the very slim girl, giving her a bear hug felt like I was protecting her from the world and, in bed, being able to lift her so easily made certain things fun. :)
For the girl who was heaviest, her issues with her size broke us up, rather than me having an issue. It's a shame. She was very funny, and really, really pretty. And there was a lot of her to love.
I don't think I'm unusual in this. Some of my friends care, but just as many don't. I actually like if men are shallow. They leave some really great women for me. :)
And I'm bi, by the way.