Have you ever felt left out by your friends?

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What friends?

Yea that feeling sucks.. Its kinda happening to me right now. But i have better things to worry about than my friends.

Sure I have felt left out. Even more so when they discuss get-togethers or outings (which I never seem to know about) right in front of me.

Sometimes I think it should be counted as rude to do so. Or is it already rude? I don't know, but they do it frequently. Actually, are they even friends anymore if they do that?

After some long periods of time, I decided to screw 'em and hang out with better friends. Although they're more boring, they'd never make me feel left out.

I always feel left out by my friends. My parents adn relatives say that I should make, as said above, a "new set of friends." But the problem is that I can't make any friends that I actually enjoy being around and can relate to. I'm actually like a "back-up friend." Some of my old friend go to me and we hang out for a week. But then, they disapear and forget all about me and the times we had. This usually happens every other week. But I found a way to occupie my mind. :\

a Good friend is someone who try to understand you in the way you are ,who you can trust 'em and who also trust you to telling the things.

But in my experience a good friend is very hard to find. sometime I think Is a good friend still stay in the world? Where she is?

But finally I'd found her.
If you think they don't give an attention to you,
please just focus on yourself do what you do and be what you are.
I believe that you'll find your real friends in some day.

I feel like this if I'm not truly comfortable around the friends I've hung out with...I take it as a note to the true lack of friendship...friendless now, but still happy:)

the same thing happen to me but i just went off to make new friends.

its annoying when stuff like this happens: use the time you have to improve yourself ... think of some of the people that you know that you dont phone that much that might feel the same way... im sure theyr not setting out to make you feel bad... they probably dont see it as a deal. people can be nasty.

im going thru that situation right now, but mine is a little different than urs

I feel that way all the time, my friends does it to me. If your friends doing it to you then you need to think about finding new sets of friends.

I'm gonna say this cos no one else seems to.. its really funny that 129 people me included) feels left out by their friends, and we goo on IIN.com to talk about it... go Interwebs

I felt like this for ...*count* ...approximatively 5 years.

knowing that they are your friends it hurts in your part when your ditching you. ! go find some friends that won't leave you behind because you know what i have been experiencing it right now and it affects my sleeping habit because i think of them all the time.! they're just CRAP.

i ahve so been throught the same thing at one point it came to self harm...i hope yoi won't go tahyht far ...but trust me things will get btter for you....and on your worst days just thuk some-one sonewhere else in the world is worse of than you ...Hope this helps :)

yes and im sorry for my mistakes in the text ^^

When my close friends and I get together..

Leave me out of conversations
When they're walking too fast and I call out to them to wait and they keep walking...
Secrets

Conversations, eh. It's not a huge deal because we cut each other off all the time but those few minutes of being left out..
Walking, I'm a pretty slow walker and my voice isn't very loud.. But when they do notice that I'm no where nearby they wait for me..
Secret.. Friends make secrets but secrets
don't make friends.

I have the sane eggzact problem my friends seem to not even like me they never try to even invite me any where

I used to be friends with a big group of popular girls and they always left me out and i felt like shit a lot of the time and then always used to go out to town and never intive me or go to the park and talk about it when i was there and then i became friends with a group of unpopular boys and girls and they were really nice and they would invite me everywhere and now i have stopped feeling left out :)

it happens. I'm best friends with two girls and because there's three of us we all go through these cycles where one of us feels a little closer to the other. But it's not just me being left out. For the most part though, we're amazing friends. You just have to find your amazing friends- just don't be too surprised if you feel a little left out from time to time.

It's happened to me. You see, I barely talk at all. One year (two years ago), I was best friends with this group of really nice girls that everyone seemed to like. One of them, my (ex) best friend, would make sure I wasn't left out. After summer vacation, when I went back to school, she didn't talk to me at ALL. Turns, out, she was even talking BEHIND MY BACK. I made a set of new friends, they're far nicer than her, but I can't fully trust them for some reason since my incident with her.

i spent 8 years of my life hanging around "friends" that just used me. I worked it out by around 14 or 15 and just didn't hang around with them and it took like a year before they would leave me alone :/

I have friends at church that just don't seem to want to make any plans with me after church.
I feel so left out. they make things up like they are taking a nap,
have plans but are "full".
I just happened to be the kind of guy who was always making excuses about that kind of stuff because of it.
I don't know why they want to leave me out of that kind of stuff.
maybe their mad at me for some odd reason. I DON'T KNOW.
it seems a little far fetched to me.

The only time I've been ignored by a friend was when he had his 1st girlfriend but now everyone hates him so it's all good

Only when I was a kid.

I can live without friends. FUCKING DOUCHEBAGS

idek if this called "friends" but they (both) just woke me up in the morning (by callin me ) and told : we have great plans wake up..we gonna do dis n dis and..., hurry up, get yourself prepared, WE WILL RECALL!!! :
soo i just was like :okay: i woke up , i put my clothhes on , make up on, alredy eat my breakfast, and had an extra tim e(till they call) so i went on the web, i was WAITING FOR HOURES, and then i noticed : they probably wont call: and then i just called my other friend and askd to go smwhre (cuz i was literaly READY TO GO)
and these both dumbos , they even did not call to say :oh no stay at home, our plans crushed : or smffn, i mean this would not be so offensively as if they DONT EVEN RECALL and made me waste my time