How can I forget him?

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There's a lot of problems with this.
1. He is Turkish and you met him online. About 99% of Turkish men you meet online are perverts. They will tell you ANYTHING to see you naked/perform sexual acts online.
2. You met online. Have you ever even met in real life? I stress real life, because internet relationships are not real life most of the time.
3. You need to work on your emotions. Your emotions are extremely strong for someone you met online. You don't know him and you are 19. You should be more mature.
4. If he makes you cry all the time, he isn't worth it. A man who loves you will not make you cry.
5. You live thousands of miles away from each other.

Get off the computer, go out and meet men. Real men. It will make your life SO much simpler.
Sorry if it all sounds very harsh but you need the truth. The truth hurts sometimes. But you can't go starving yourself, depriving yourself of sleep and collapsing over a man you don't know. Over a man you met online who probably has another 10 vulnerable girls on the go.

Forget him with the smooth, rich, bold flavor of Marlboro.

You don't love him, you've never met him.


Get a real life boyfriend and stop pretending that speaking to someone on a computer is a relationship.

Any woman he's slept with in real life has gone further than you, technically they are closer to being his girlfriend. Infact any woman he's been in the same room with is more involved with him.

There are men outside, go outside, do it, do it now.

@ bluejeanswhiteshirt .. couldn't have said it better myself .

I really think you should break up with him. He's not good for you and you guys live so far anyways and you wouldn't get to see him much often if you decided to give it another try....
and i can't believe what you said that he gets jealous if he knows that you're talking with a friend who is a guy!! That's not normal o.o You can speak to whoever you want to...

Reading this sends up red flags for me. Its okay to crush on people u met online or whatever, but for ur own sake, don't invest as much as u are into a relationship. There are far to many factors to go wrong in this relationship, I've even met people online, had a wonderful time, but after they left it was too hard and had to break it off. Do urself a favor and move on, maintain a friendship maybe, but move on. At 19 ur so young and not to seem rude, but naive that it benefit u to try a few relationships in person first

Lobotomy is the quickest but dumbest idea.

No it doesn't mean he loves you if he gets jealous about you talking with other men .. Especially if it's ok for him to do so with other women but not ok for you with others .. and yes you can help who you fall inlove with as , essentially .. all you have "fallen inlove" with is -

A user on a computer screen .. Unless god has not blessed you with legs in order to live away from your computer , walk outside into your end of the world and actually meet people around you then you must be severely limiting your own self in life , either that or emotionally disabled.

Fact - most turkish men are married and use naive vulnerable girls like you as a way to bring their young wives , themselves & families out to a new country of preference but .. Continue to find this out the hard way as - you sound like the perfect victim so you can't complain when it happens & take

my word as i have dealt with the repercussions of such matters many times in my line of work .. please do update me if anything more comes of your hopeless fruitless pursuit .. i will guarantee you it wont.

Men are very very deceptive,all I want to say here is be carefull dear,I'm not saying he's jerk but he might be,men can be cruel.