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I guess you could say mine is high to middle. Because I'm pretty happy with myself and I've put most of my past behind me.

I'm stronger than I've ever been and just want to keep it this way even though I know I do have my bad days.

What would you rate your self-esteem?
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Low enough. :(

I hate myself.
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You are new here aren't you? :}
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Sam i am.
What's up?
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Welcome to IIN.

I'm late, but I just wanted to say that. :)
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Thanks 8}
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You're welcome. ^_^
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Wow, I'm shocked how many people have a low self-esteem. How come?
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You're on a website where people are questioning their actions (a symptom of low self-esteem). That's why the figure is higher than you think. Same thing as noticing a proliferation of small people when at a children's hospital.
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Lol, great analogy
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1000yrVampireKing
Since they are on the internet. Dont you know this is where we all come!
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I'll be even happier when I find the right girl. Preoccupies most of my idle thoughts. :-P
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I'm grrrrrrrrrrrrrreat!
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I knew you would say that! XD
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lol, I was going to say it's a bit selfy and a bit esteemy but then I remembered I am a tiger. I love being a tiger. Grrr! :D
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And I love being a Space Ghost! Boo! That's a bit cheesy right?
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lol, not cheesy at all. I liked your username the first time I saw it, and now you have a catchphrase to go with it. Although we shouldn't say our catchphrases as the same time because "Boo! Grr!" sounds a lot like booger. :/
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Haha XD You're right it does. I love that you like my username, some fifteen year just made fun of it. :)
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RaNdOmPoPcOrN
Lol dat tiger dude huhuhu
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It depends who you're with at the time.
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That's true. Some people can make a person feel like shit while others could make them feel wonderful.
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Up and down.
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It varies, but at the moment I've gotten to the point where I think so badly of myself that I don't care what other's think of me, (as it can't possibly be worse than what I think).

Kind of bad, but positive in that I now seem more confident.

Now that I think about it, it is really odd.
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Quarter to Everest. Whats that even mean? From now on ima say that as a response to how I feel.
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Pretty high. It varies from very low to very high, I suppose my average at the moment is rather high though.
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Used to be abysmally low back when I was depressed, but now I would say that it is healthily high.
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My self esteem is alright. Around my friends it's very high but by myself it's alright. I've learned to accept my flaws and myself as a person but I'll admit that I'm not the most attractive man out there.
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I am actually not proud to admit this at all -ashamed even- but if I would have to rate my self-esteem it would be below zero (dramatic, yes).
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How come? I like you. I've seen your posts all over this site and see you as one of the good ones. You've got no reason to be down on yourself.
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Oh~ I actually thought no-one really paid attention to my posts.. Thank you tho, that made me feel a little better.
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Nah... there are people who actually pay attention to us, I'm sure. Considering I like your comments and opinions also. :)
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You always have something nice to say, it seems. way to go :]
Karma.
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Awe thanks... Sorry, I missed your comment. But you see, like a very nice person also.
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A lot of people read the site and aren't brave enough to comment. We people who say things, we're the visible minority of the iceberg that is above the water. There's a whole mass hiding below that remains unseen but nevertheless notices you and Saycheese.
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Yes.. the more time I spend on this site the more I start to realize that's true. people are also genuinely nice here, it's kind of refreshing to see. Unlike most websites this one seems 'real' (besides the trolls, of course. but they are entertaining to see too sometimes)
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Yeah, I think so too. The biggest problem is when nice people leave and the balance changes. I'd hate to see you leave. That's why I said something to make sure you know you are appreciated. :)
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mari
low I think...? I hate myself.
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@: mari
Blonde anime girl with a gun? And you feel bad about yourself? You are very many people's secret dream!
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mari
I thought the picture represented me.. well yes I feel bad about myself... I think I have low self-esteem.... haha How am I many people's secret dream?
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I used to hate myself, but no more! I'm awesome :D
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I can honestly say I don't like myself.. so yes its at a low point.
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You seem like a cool cat when i was talking to you in the member chat..
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Thanks :) by the way love the term cool cat!
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No problem! Ha well good!
Did you ever get your drug money? ;)
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Yes! Its about time right ;)
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Finally! Those hoes had it comin ;]
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I dont really think about myself in relation to others or the world.

So im not so sure what self esteem really is.
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I went with very low. There are times when I'll think somewhat positively about myself, but something will happen and it goes back to being negative. I'll go up 2-5 levels only to fall backwards to 1:/
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I would say that I know I make a very valuable contribution to society and have literally changed many people's lives for the better. I have no reason to dislike myself - except for being too tolerant of my rotten mother. However, I did a test on google when self-esteem was mentioned on IIN before and I scored really low. Dunno why!

Personally, I think everybody should be my friend.
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@: joybird
I never would of thought your self esteem would be low. You seem to be one of the most secure women on this site. But I wouldn't always trust online tests.
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Thank you. I must admit I don't really know what self-esteem means.

I am able to walk into any pub / club on my own, I can handle anything that people throw at me eg. neighbour complaining about my son playing ball etc. I have no problem with my looks / weight, I enjoy my time alone, I am not criticised or belittled in any way ....

Oh I don't know - maybe you're right. The google site was maybe an ad for counsellors and they were looking for new clients :o)
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@: joybird
Yeah I see no problem there.

But I see self esteem as an excuse sometimes anyways. I read how high self esteem can be a problem too. Well the people with (fragile) high self-esteem anyways.

Just be happy with yourself is what I always say and be nice to others.
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@: joybird
I surprised that it's low. You carry yourself like a proud and confident woman.
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So was I. I don't worry about myself very much as I just get on with things. I am very confident and find it funny that I have 'haters' for that in the pub.

Can't remember what site it even was but it's not something I worry about. I'm just me and the impression I give is that I don't take much crap - therefore people don't test that theory :o)
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My self esteem is somewhat low, only because I find people around me almost intolerable to the point of severe isolation.
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low
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Very very low life sucks
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LOWER THAN YOURS HAVE A FUCKING SHIT DAY YOU BASTARD
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Extremely low :-(
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