Is it normal?!
I have a family that loves me, friends, etc
i am happy with my personal life!!!!!
the problem is that when i finished school i went to look for a job but i just didn't feel like making an effort to find one, i go thru ups and downs, after a few months of not finding anything...well, i wasn't REALLY looking. I decided that enough is enough and its time to really work on it, but this time i really dedicated myself to it, calling people, going on interviews, asking my friends if they knew people on the business etc etc...but all in vain, my friends keep asking what i've been up to lately, if i found anything and i'm ashamed of saying the same thing i've been saying for months!!!!
i feel stuck! i truly don't believe in myself anymore! i don't believe i'm capable of doing things, of getting things done!
my family doesn't understand why i gave up, they try to push me.
i think that all the lack of self confidence PROFESSIONALLY comes from when i was in elementary and high school, i was bullied even tough i was part of the popular girls in my school and the teacher always put me down and compared me with my A+ sister.
Please people tell me what you think i should do!!!!!!!!!!!
OH, and btw i also changed my career interest b/c i thought that that might be the problem, still nothing!
I have a family that loves me, friends, etc
i am happy with my personal life!!!!!
the problem is that when i finished school i went to look for a job but i just didn't feel like making an effort to find one, i go thru ups and downs, after a few months of not finding anything...well, i wasn't REALLY looking. I decided that enough is enough and its time to really work on it, but this time i really dedicated myself to it, calling people, going on interviews, asking my friends if they knew people on the business etc etc...but all in vain, my friends keep asking what i've been up to lately, if i found anything and i'm ashamed of saying the same thing i've been saying for months!!!!
i feel stuck! i truly don't believe in myself anymore! i don't believe i'm capable of doing things, of getting things done!
my family doesn't understand why i gave up, they try to push me.
i think that all the lack of self confidence PROFESSIONALLY comes from when i was in elementary and high school, i was bullied even tough i was part of the popular girls in my school and the teacher always put me down and compared me with my A+ sister.
Please people tell me what you think i should do!!!!!!!!!!!
OH, and btw i also changed my career interest b/c i thought that that might be the problem, still nothing!
I don't know what you've been through or what you're like, but I can say for sure that you need to do whatever it takes to achieve something. Without achievement, you will get sick of pretty much everything.
Best of luck to you.