I'm in this college class with this girl named Kendra and we have a group project, that we are in together. Recently I've been a tad bit more confident lately, and the last two previous classes, I've been chatting with her and getting to know her. When i talk to her, she looks at me. Yesterday, i saw her in the library and she looked at me, I winked at her, but she didn't give off a "whats this guy doing, winking at me" type of look or "aka" awkward look like she didn't like the wink. Anyway two hours ago, she friend requested me on Facebook, than messaged me about the group project and it was about my email not working, anyway she gave me her school email & her phone number and said or "text me"? i mean i don't seem to be sensing a bad vibe from her. I don't know if she's being nice or that she's interested in me. I mean she did give me her phone number, but I'm thinking its to communicate better with her. I mean i have noticed her being relaxed around me, she never been like rude or like shown any signs of her not liking me. But I'm worried i might be stuck in the friend zone, or she was just being polite, but I'm not sure. After class one day she went to the library to work on the group project and I went to the library to do something, and she was there in the back, so i sat in the row in front of her. As she saw me, she did smile i remember that, i think she murmured saying hi but i could make it out. After a bit when her friend or the person sitting next to her left, i grabbed my stuff and i sat next to her and we just chatted, she was friendly but i don't know if she's just being polite or maybe theirs a spark here waiting to be ignited????
What do you guys think? Any advice? Do i have something going here or am i overlooking it or she was just being friendly??
What do you guys think? Any advice? Do i have something going here or am i overlooking it or she was just being friendly??
She asked for your number to work with you over the project. You sound like you want it to mean something romantic.
Instead of worrying about what every text - or lack of a reply - means, why don't you just work on the project and get to know her first?
Trying to push for something too soon might scare her off. It's OK to take it slow.
You won't know if you don't try.
You could stand a chance either way.
but I'm not really sure - she hasn't given me any obviously or even subtle "hints" besides being engaged in the conversation and practically agreeing with everything i say but thats it really lol
I think when you get to know her a bit more you should ask her round to your house to watch a DVD or just chill
Please keep me up to date, i would lie to know the outcome lol :)