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Is he stringing me along?
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I've been dating a guy for about 10 months now but were not exclusive. we hangout atleast once a week and talk everyday, I've met his best friends and even his sisters, to his friends obviously I'm just someone he's dating and his sisters I'm just his friend. I'm confused! I really like him and from what he tells me I know he does too but at the same time I can't help to wonder why em I not his girlfriend? I want to ask him but I'm not sure how. We've both been hurt in past relationships but c'mon we have to move on right!
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dom180
9 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
All those options are passive. Stop being passive and be active. Ask him, and put it in simple terms. It's difficult but it needs to be done. If you need to move on afterwards then move on, but ask him first.
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chatter289
9 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
I think you need to have a talk with him about this. Sit down, as two people who have feelings for each other and discuss what you both want, and if he and you want different things then move on and meet someone else who will make you happy. Good luck
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Lovely789
9 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
Thanks you two! Ya I figured talking to him about it was the way to go. I think the hardest part is asking him. I don't know how to bring up. I don't want him to think im forcing a more serious relationship on him. I just want to know where it's going
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ralcor
9 months, 2 weeks ago | pl
Absolutely not. They tell you to kneel down and wait until one of the puppies from the litter comes to you and that one is attracted to you and your scent.
If you haven't felt it by now then its not there. You push the issue and if it goes your way, then be prepared to have a crash landing along the way!
Accept it and get over him. When he realizes he has lost you he can only do two things. Go on his way or work alot harder to win you back. Its all about the chase. If it comes to easy there is no reason to work hard to keep it. Just don't play any games. Get over him and move on!!
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