Not because I think he's cheating or anything. But because I worry, like A LOT, when I don't know where he is.
He knows my worries and he thinks it's "cute that I care so much" but I don't think he gets it. I NEED to know, not WANT to know. I have an overwhelming sense of dread when he leaves my house and I don't know where he is and I don't know why but I want to be around him all the time and if I can't be, I need him to tell me where he is.
I just looked at my phone and saw that a majority of the messages between him and I consist of "where are you?" "are you ok" "you didn't answer when I called... are you ok??" "Im worried... are you ok?" "where are you?" "who's that? is his neighborhood safe?" "are you in a safe neighborhood?"
I realize this seems crazy but how crazy? Like I need help crazy or what?!!!!!
He knows my worries and he thinks it's "cute that I care so much" but I don't think he gets it. I NEED to know, not WANT to know. I have an overwhelming sense of dread when he leaves my house and I don't know where he is and I don't know why but I want to be around him all the time and if I can't be, I need him to tell me where he is.
I just looked at my phone and saw that a majority of the messages between him and I consist of "where are you?" "are you ok" "you didn't answer when I called... are you ok??" "Im worried... are you ok?" "where are you?" "who's that? is his neighborhood safe?" "are you in a safe neighborhood?"
I realize this seems crazy but how crazy? Like I need help crazy or what?!!!!!
You are being a bit of a control freak.
My last relationship was with a control freak, it was awful for me. Think twice before you do it to your boyfriend, if you really do love him more than you love to be in control of him.
Get a therapist. You need one.
This may be cute at the start of a relationship but imagine how he will feel in 20 years. You two will be divorced or you will have at least caused him to lose 5-6 jobs, or you will be physically abusing him - for not answering your calls.
Please get some help and let this guy have some space.
No news is good news and if something happened you'd hear within 5 minutes. It sounds as though you have nothing to add to the relationship so you're using this 'concern' in order to communicate with him. Boring!!!
Think about how much better your life would be if you didn't have to worry about where he is, and what he does all the time! Talk about it with a close friend, or maybe a therapist. You got too think about yourself now. Let that be the first step!