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Ladies, do blonde guys have less of a chance with you than dark guys?
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I'm a really tall guy and also very muscular to be honest. I'm happy with these things, cause girls seem to like em. However, there is one thing about me I don't think girls (on average) like so much: I'm blonde and I don't mean "average" blonde, but really WHITE blonde. I've always gotten the impression girls like dark hair much more when it comes to guys :( Ladies, do blonde guys have less of a chance with you than dark guys?
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I don't see many blonde blonde guys so I do notice them more when I do.
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@: RinTin
Good. Also, regarding my size, you'll certainly notice me.
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Hard truth: I like em dark. Sorry bud. </3
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That hurt.
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Don't take it too hard, you can't please them all lolz.
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It's "tall dark and handsome".
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Can it never be tall, BLONDE and handsome?
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I don't see why not, it's just the old saying.
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no its not dark. its usually tall and handsome
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@: yesreid
Nope, it was "tall dark and handsome".
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Sorry. I'm blond myself. I just prefer guys with brown hair.


If it really really bothers you, you can dye it.
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I prefer guys with a very dark hair as well, but I can admit that guys with a white blonde hair(not the average blonde) attractive me even more.
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Sweet.
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Are u muslim
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@: Satchmo
Is it my name?
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I don't know Arabic but I know Islam can mean peace and peace be upon him is something that Muslims say after hearing someone say Mohammed's name so I would say your either Muslim or hating on islam
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@: Satchmo
Islam does NOT mean peace. It means submission.
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It can mean either I have heard many Arabic speaking Muslims say that it means peace. Actually the definition I've heard the most is the peace of the one who has submitted
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I like blonde guys!Maybe its cause im dark and surrounded by dark guys all the time.
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I like dark girls!
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wellnot dark..but meditteranean looks i have.good to know :)
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Huh? I have blonde hair and It hasn't held me back. You have blue eyes too? You've never heard people talk about blonde hair, blue eyed people's looks favorably? Of course preference varies, but it's been my experience it's not a bad trait.
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thinkingaboutit
well if your really pale and your eyebrows blend with your skin, i can see why you would be having difficulties.
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I'm not pale at all.
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thinkingaboutit
so you must be pretty hot
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;)
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I am a blonde and blue eyed man and women find me attractive.
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Blonde guys are hot...wouldn't date one though. I have the stereotypical image of them that they're douches. Took me a while to figure that out after I read your post. I'll work on that.
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@: lc1988
WTF made you think I'm a douche?
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No...I was just sitting here thinking "hmmm I've never had the inkling to date a blonde guy...now why is that?"

And that was my conclusion. I'm not saying it's right. I said I'd work on it. I guess it's just because of how the media portrays them...sorta like dumb blonde girls.
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@: lc1988
OK then. Blonde guys being all douches is indeed a stereotype, just like the image of all blonde girls being dumb is obviously B.S.

Don't believe the hype.
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I'm dirty blonde but as a kid I was much blonder . Every bastard use to comment about my hair it was mad. I was always thinking for Christ sake it's only a bit of hair on my f'n head what the hells wrong with everyone.
I hated having blonde hair for that reason and if I see someone now I haven't seen in yrs = what's the first thing they say , God you had such nice hair when you were a kid - wtf ! after 7 yr s , or 10 what more hair !
Anyway , certainly hasn't hurt the girl front over the yrs , for that I am grateful . No clue which is more popular tho.
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@: blaster
My bf had the finest blonde hair as a kid. It's now a dark brown, thick & curly (curly after shaving it once)... Go figure! Enjoy what you have.
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I've dated both blonde & dark-haired white guys. Doesn't really matter to me. I can tell you that if you are trying the Ambercrombie look, tousled longish hair, it can sometimes come out childlike, especially with blondes, which is sometimes a turnoff.
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You don't sound ugly so i think your good its just hair if you have that much of a problem with it you could always dye it.
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@: cammers
No, I'm not ugly at all, just a little bit insecure about my haircolor, because of girls often seeming to prefer dark hair.

You know who's also not ugly? YOU! I've checked out your profile and damn...
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Agreed, she is very beautiful. But maybe your overbearing approach is part of the problem? Usually girls don't go for the the guy that just shouts off "HEY! YOUR HOT!" Try a little subtlety and see how that treats ya!
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Part of the problem? There is not really a problem besides maybe my haircolor.

I will remember your advice though.
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Besides, I was just trying to be friendly.
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Eh, as far as the hair goes, I know alot of girls that prefer blond haired blue eyed guys. Especially if your tall, and muscular.
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and thank you :]
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@: cammers
Don't mention it. ;)
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haha thank you not all girls prefer dark hair some it just doesn 't matter just how well the guy treats the girl :]
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@: cammers
Good to hear.
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last guy I dated was blonde and had fair skin, he was hot. I have very fair skin too, so I feel ur pain. But dont think too much bout it, ur probably a hottie;)
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Thank you!
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I have dark hair and grey eyes (everyone says hazel but I just see grey). And I would much rather be blonde with blue eyes!
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Damn, the grass is always greener on the other side isn't it?
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Lolz exactly what I was thinking while I read your post!
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Yeah I have blue eyes too , I hate it. For a guy to have blonde hair and deep blue eyes is off I reckon , well I'm not built for it anyway. I even considered contacts , also colored my hair for a long time.
I'm much happier leaving stuff like that with the girls . I've always wanted dull , unnoticeable blend into the crowd more features
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I'm blonde a lot of women say they prefer dark hair but when it comes down to it it's much more about how charming the guy is I think as long as a guy isn't ugly it's all about his game
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Yeah well it's a funny thing , I've always heard girls say dark hair but then I've always had a lot of attention so I never get it but hey , whatever at the end of the day
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You're going to LOL at me for this comment :P But from the sounds of you, you're more of the "princely" type. The type you see in the old romance movies that girls go gaga over, my friend is sooooo into your type. If she saw you she would swear you're the one to scoop her up and carry her away like a princess :P That guy who joggs accross the beach in his tank top and the she swears she's seen an angel. I myself am more into the rugged darker haired type, facial hair, light brown or dark brown I don't care, and I wouldn't give you much of a second look, but like I said, I know quite a few girls (from your description) that would be head over heels
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"my friend is sooooo into your type."

I'd like to meet your friend!

"I wouldn't give you much of a second look"

Ouch!

"I know quite a few girls (from your description) that would be head over heels"

Yes!
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OMG, these demostrations of insecurity keep me wondering what's wrong with you, people!!

Who cares what color of hair you have!! If you like a girl, try to establish a connection with her and show her that you are worth your attention. It's NOT your physical appearance what will got you a girl's heart. As for attention, as long as you're hot and sexy, you'll be desired no matter your physical traits. GROW UP!!!
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