Would you hate or feel anger towards a guy who closes off and shuts down when a relationship gets bad? Kinda happened to me. I felt very neglected and started to close off. I became shy, empty, unresponsive and lost all my confidence. Eventually broke down when it ended.
I feel it wasn't really my fault since I reacted this way because of how much I felt emotionally cheated and neglected (long distance relationship takes its toll). But regardless, would you girls hate a guy for retreating like that?
I feel it wasn't really my fault since I reacted this way because of how much I felt emotionally cheated and neglected (long distance relationship takes its toll). But regardless, would you girls hate a guy for retreating like that?

It's just a guess, but I think your feeling of "hate" might stem from a feeling of a lack of control over the situation with him.
His loss - forget him and move on!!