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Ladies, would you hate a guy for this?
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Would you hate or feel anger towards a guy who closes off and shuts down when a relationship gets bad? Kinda happened to me. I felt very neglected and started to close off. I became shy, empty, unresponsive and lost all my confidence. Eventually broke down when it ended.
I feel it wasn't really my fault since I reacted this way because of how much I felt emotionally cheated and neglected (long distance relationship takes its toll). But regardless, would you girls hate a guy for retreating like that?
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No, but I think I'd feel hurt and disappointed. No feelings of hate.

It's just a guess, but I think your feeling of "hate" might stem from a feeling of a lack of control over the situation with him.
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I'd feel sorry that I drove him that far. I can't help it, some of the blame will always be with me.
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I had a similar situation with an ex. Not hate, just angry and sad.
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I'd be angry that I allowed any man to destroy my self-confidence.

His loss - forget him and move on!!
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