Don't answer the phone = cheating... Home 5 min late = cheating... Someone calls with the wrong number = cheating... Don't come on to her for sex so she can turn me down = cheating...
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Oh well....
That could be warning signs for other deeper issues.
I worked with a guy who had that same issue. We couldn't answer his phone if it was an outside-line call because ... if a girl answered his phone his wife would accuse him of cheating on her.
However after the DNA tests were done, he found out he didn't father at least 2 of the kids.
Now ... if you really have cheated in the past, then being suspected IS part of the punishment. Suspicion has been earned.
But if you've never cheated at all... you may want to consider....
1) Your partner may be trying to cover up - or justify their own indiscretions 2) Insecurity - you may want to take time to build up the relationship to make that part easier 3) Hormones - just be understanding
Don't answer the phone = cheating...
Home 5 min late = cheating...
Someone calls with the wrong number = cheating...
Don't come on to her for sex so she can turn me down = cheating...
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Oh well....
I worked with a guy who had that same issue. We couldn't answer his phone if it was an outside-line call because ... if a girl answered his phone his wife would accuse him of cheating on her.
However after the DNA tests were done, he found out he didn't father at least 2 of the kids.
Now ... if you really have cheated in the past, then being suspected IS part of the punishment. Suspicion has been earned.
But if you've never cheated at all... you may want to consider....
1) Your partner may be trying to cover up - or justify their own indiscretions
2) Insecurity - you may want to take time to build up the relationship to make that part easier
3) Hormones - just be understanding