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I'm a 17 year old girl and I met a 20 year old guy on tinder. We both swiped right and started talking.

He's really sweet and he wants to meet me soon. We were talking about what we're gonna do. He has his house to himself and he wants me to go there and we're gonna watch movies, eat pizza and cuddle. He also said that we can have a bit of fun if we wanted to.

A while ago, I told him that I really like him.. But he friendzoned me.. So I'm not sure if I want to meet him to just have fun. I want to be in a relationship with him.

So do u think I should meet him?
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If you are planning on meeting him be in a public place tell at least 2 people you are going and take a friend
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We're meeting in town. My best friend will be with me. She wants to see if he's a nice guy. We're gonna walk around in a shop and get stuff and then I will go to his house (without my friend)
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Please be very careful
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Do not meet at his house. You have no proof he will not harm you.
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Don't do that...What if he hurts u...May be meet him in public...That would be safe
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Nooooo... Please dont do that... your actually dont know him people try to be nice on internet all the time. its not new. if you really wish to meet this guy meet him somewhere public with alot of people around .. or try going out with a few friends to meet him and see how things goes .. its not right to trust someone soo early..
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bring a stun gun

if he gits stupid then zap his ass
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vaas
that sounds suspicious, i say it's always safer to meet a person you've never met in real life in public with at least one friend. i'd suggest a nice coffee shop or even out on a walk around a park/shopping mall. once you feel safe around them and know they aren't some creepy weirdo then you can go for it and watch movies together in each others house.
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@: vaas
I don't think a friend is really needed, as long as it's a public place. Going to a person's house if you don't know them just seems stupid, and i thought it was common knowledge.
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Don't go to his place, he could be some psycho! If you simply must meet him then meet in a public place. Make sure you have friends and family who know what's going on as in they know who, what, when and where this meeting is taking place. Bookend this meeting with someone by calling to check in before and after meeting this dude. Be smart!
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Isn't common knowledge to always meet a person you met online in a public place?
Honestly, if you go and something happens to you, it would be deserved. Darwin's Theory of Evolution.
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In my experience of using tinder, "come to my house for a cuddle" does NOT mean "come to my house for a cuddle"

If you want to meet someone you've met online;

A) properly vet them first. Talk to them for at least a good few days, get to know a bit about them and see if they give you good vibes. I'd probably also suggest asking for their facebook or another form of social media, to check they're genuinely who they say they are.
B) Meet them in a busy public place for the first couple of times you meet them. No going back to their house on a first date.

Even that isn't 100% foolproof, but the majority of nasty characters who would want to do harm to you won't make it through that process.

This is serious. He is -probably- a perfectly decent guy who just wants to hook up and have some casual sex (with your consent). He might not be though, people have been catfished and even raped using these apps to hook-up before, you have to be so careful.

P.S Please don't say I'm "victim-blaming" by saying this shit. Rape is ALWAYS the fault of the rapist, but it does you absolutely no harm to take some precautions anyway.
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jimmythecunt
You are so naive, meeting a guy who is "20" years old on any website, actually means he is 40 something and wants to do naughty things with you!
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This is true as fuck

Don't ask how I know hahhahh
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jimmythecunt
I promise I won`t cum in your mouth!
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I am 20 single, can I have your attention
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Probably best to save the condoms, lube, and lingerie for date number three in his bedroom.
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I wouldn't take a risk, The way this guy talks it sounds as if he wants to do something to you that will only make himself feel good. Don't be a potential victim of a theft, or worse... an assault.

Learn when someone wants to actually meet you, and when someone trying hard to appeal to you in ways you like. It takes a bit of skill, but when you get the hang of it you can usually tell who is your (potential) friend, and who is not.

You seem to be fairly wise enough to ask for advice before ACTUALLY meeting him, and the way you wrote it just makes me think you are confused since you've probably never been in this situation before, but you, ask your parents or other relatives for advice on this situatuon, or if you decide to not go with it ask for advice on finding someone you like.

My 2 cents on your search for a relationship with someone: If you want a relationship, try looking at any friends you have that you consider both trustworthy and close friends and that aren't in a relationship, and ask yourself if you have feelings for them, also consider observing them when they are around you and see if they have feelings for you too. THAT is how they did it in the old days from what I have heard from my Grandparents.

Good day to you, god bless.
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ateb47
Did he send you photos of his cock and nut sack ?
Have you ever seen a male naked 7 inch boner cock in person ?
Do you have any experience giving blowjobs ?
Will you let him stick his cock all the way up your poop chute and then when he pulls it out of your Hershey Highway , will you suck his dirty cock ?
Is your cunt bald ?
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xfg39
Should be fine if he was nice to you on tinder. He already mentioned sex, so there's nothing else he would do to you that you weren't already expecting.
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