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I think the thumbs down option is quite ridiculous. I have noticed that the thumbs down count is mainly determined by how emotional someone is to what it is they are thumbing down, regardless of if it's right or not.
I think that the thumbs down option should only be allowed if there is a reason offered behind giving a thumbs down, that way it is explained why the person got a thumbs down and would become obvious if they are thumbing down due to logical thinking, or emotional reasons.

What do you think? Do you think that thumbing comments down shouldn't be allowed without a given reason to promote logical thinking on this site?
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Honestly, OP, if you are who I think you are, I thumbs down a lot of your comments when I feel that you are not so much concerned with actually providing helpful advice more so than you are concerned with promoting your "gender" issue. I have seen you piledrive your agenda into topics which only make casual mention of male and female relations, and often times it is simply unnecessary. I respect your right to hold these beliefs, but if you hover over the thumbs down button, you will find that a comment being distasteful or unhelpful is regarded as a good reason to thumbs a comment down.

And personally, I find it distasteful and unhelpful when someone feels the need to further their crusade on a topic that has little warrant for that. And that's my opinion. Call me emotional all you want, but if I were a little less lax about my own morality I'd almost find it amusing that you spend as much time complaining about how emotional we are than you do with being frustrated about being thumbsed down.

Why don't I explain it on my posts? To put it the way you did, I don't have the motivation to. Like I probably wont have the motivation to respond to you becoming irritated and posting me six paragraphs as to why I'm an overly emotional and illogical curse upon humanity.

If I didn't have the Joker locked so tightly away in Arkham Asylum, believe me, good citizen of Gotham, you wouldn't be able to get rid of him. But you're safe, because Batman is watching over you.
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If information that has truth in them are unhelpful, then I weap for humanity. That is how you progress, you adapt to the negatives so it makes them positives or you change the negatives in to positives by actions on to the negatives.
You're saying how I should get a thumbs down because I am not sticking to topic and go on to the gender topic, yet people have done that all the time with different subjects, bringing up things that aren't a part of the subject, and have had thumbs up. For example, your whole comment was more so aimed at me than the subject, and you will most likely get a thumbs up. See how that goes? Because it doesn't matter if the person sticks on topic, it matters if they agree or not, and simply because I state something that you don't agree with me on, you see it as a good example for your point.
Yes, I noticed just there, but those just prove my point even more so, that the thumbs options are more so for emotional reasons than logical. "They" find it distasteful...Why? Explain. Is it distasteful because of reason or just because you don't like what was said? That is exactly my point.

People can complain due to lack of logic. Am I saying I'm emotionless? No, ofcourse I have emotions, but I don't let my emotions cloud the logic I use to explain the reasons that lead to me being irritated.

You seem to have the motivation to comment here on the matter, yet don't have the motivation to back up what it is you say? That's my problem. I don't do that. I don't start something and then use the "I lost motivation" card when it comes to explain my point and why it's truth.
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"If information that has truth in them are unhelpful, then I weap for humanity. "

If you're not answering the question or giving actual advice pertaining to the topic, then you are being unhelpful. Is it helpful to give someone a tire iron when they ask you for toilet paper? A tire iron, like your version of the "truth" is a useful tool, but not when you need to wipe your ass... I hope.

"You seem to have the motivation to comment here on the matter, yet don't have the motivation to back up what it is you say?"

Let me explain. I don't care whether or not you like me. I don't care whether or not I get a million thumbs downs for this, I don't even care whether or not you find me illogical. I don't even care that you once mocked academic-based logic and now you wish that we all follow your personal logic. I'm at work and I'm bored. If you want to be pissed at someone, be pissed at my boss for not giving me enough to do.

I post a comment. Sometimes I feel like debating the point. And sometimes I don't. I'm not here to further an agenda. I was merely explaining why I thumbs you down. I wasn't talking about why I thumbs anyone else down, but believe me, I don't single you out. I wish I had the spare time to spend hours on the computer locked in heated internet debates, but I'm just not interested. I come here to give my advice

I have nothing against you, I like you. I just kind of wish that you'd loosen up. There's really no need to get upset about a few clicks on a button, unless that button is delivering electric shocks to your nipples. If that's what the thumbs down button is doing then please, for the love of God, Allah, Jehovah, Darwin, or whatever the hell you think created the Earth, call the cops.
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I agree, but a lot of the time I say things that imply advice, not bluntly says it.
I can't say I understand the tire iron part, so if it's a main part in this discussion, could you explain it?

I once mocked academic-based logic? If you're speaking about Thinkingaboutit, I am going to have to smack you over the head with a dictionary. But do tell me where I mocked academic based logic.

And if that advice is challenged? As in said it isn't good advice? Would you not debate why it is good advice in order for the person the advice is aimed at to have advice?

As for the nipples part...You know too much.
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"I agree, but a lot of the time I say things that imply advice, not bluntly says it. "

That's a problem. We are talking about the large possibility that the people that come here have no idea who you are or what you're trying to stand for. To them, it's not about you speaking on a subject that you're passionate about, you're ranting about how women always get it better and within those posts, there doesn't seem to be actual advice.

Now if your goal is "hear ye, hear ye, let all the people know how I feel about gender relations" then... well just don't read the rest please. In this case, you're on the wrong website and I would suggest starting a blog or going to a forum rather than an advice website =/

You have to bluntly state it, because not everyone picks up on implied advice, and they shouldn't have to. They ask for straightforward advice (in most cases) and you're giving them implicit instructions in a manner in which appears to a stranger as ranting and I don't feel that it is reasonable to expect the OP to "read between the lines" because you want to share your agenda.

"I can't say I understand the tire iron part, so if it's a main part in this discussion, could you explain it?"

It was a metaphor. A tire iron is a useful tool, but when a person is coming here and asking for toilet paper, you are often giving them tire irons. They come and ask for advice, and you give them, for lack of better words, a piece of your mind regarding gender relations. You speak of good concepts, but many of them are coming here for advice, not to hear about those concepts.

There are some posts in which your concepts are totally relevant, and some in which they are coming out of the left field and even I fail to understand how the topic warrants it, almost as if, and not to make accusations, you are inventing reasons to speak of this issue. When the purpose of the OP is to gain insight or to discuss such matters or to challenge ideals of gender roles and relations, your posts are most enlightening, but when the OP is simply asking for advice... well...

"And if that advice is challenged? As in said it isn't good advice? Would you not debate why it is good advice in order for the person the advice is aimed at to have advice?"

I honestly, don't have the spare time to debate the relevance of every irrelevant post that I see you make. So I'm doing it here. I am explaining to you that some of your posts are just incredibly abstract from the topic so that you may understand one reason as to why you are being thumbsed down. It's not special, it's not about you. I can't speak for anyone else. This is my case and I'm not pursuing it any further. You are an adult and I trust that you know what relevance is and how important it is to conducting a discussion and if you don't, I don't have the time to teach you. My apologies.

In any case, this site does not run on your parameters, it runs on the parameters of the site. I don't care that other have hurt your feelings or used it to tease you, but I am following the rules of this site. I do not take thumbsing down personally, it would be illogical to take anything here personally as no one here knows me personally. I thumbs it down, it does to the bottom, the OP reads the actual advice first. If it's a popularity contest that you are after, I assure you, I have no interest in enlarging my internet bawlz.
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Actually, no. I'm not saying women always get it better, and what I imply is not impled to what I debate about. Although what I imply has a part in the topic I speak about, the things I imply can give advice on it's own without it being part of what I speak about.
Also, I don't even believe women always get it better, so I don't know where that came from.

Ha! Are you kidding? I bluntly state it and people get offended rather than actually think about what I say, and so it is thumbed down, and therfor instead of it being a reasonable peice of advice, it is seen as bad advice because the other commenters get offended. If I have bad advice, explain why, but people don't, but the OP won't think like that, they'll see the thumbs up as the best advice, and the thumbs down as the worse, where as it could be reversed. The thumbs down one could be the most reasonable if you are being intelligent about it and using deductive logic, where as the top thumbed up can, and usually is, rainbows, grassy hills, bunny hopping, make you feel good, useless advice.

I know it was a metaphor, I just didn't understand the metaphor. Ok, I understand that. I guess you are right there, I do go off topic and don't give advice to the ones giving advice. But, alot of inputs here aren't questions for advice, atleast 40% of them are stories to open conversations on the matter.

Yes, I do that, and perhaps I should cut back on doing it. When I see something as a potential conversation starter for what the story brings up in my head, I sometimes see as it as an opportunity to make it a debating ground.

I wasn't just speaking about me on that subject. I was saying that if someone has advice, and someone else has another piece of advice that is opposite to the first person's advice, then wouldn't the rational thing be to challenge the other to see which one is the better advice, giving reasons, debating, etc?
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(Side note on our other discussion): You used the word illogical, in which you said using such words as logical and illogical is wrong in that manner.
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Personally I don't think it should be allowed.

It encourages groupthink and discourages others from holding unpopular opinions which isn't good as we need differing perspectives in order to keep innovative thinking alive and well.

The thumb up feature should only exist in the form of a "Liked" feature. In other words, if you get 10 thumbs or so on your post then it would get a border around it (similar to TheMan's user name) which says "Liked" or "Highly Rated".
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I wish facebook had a thumbs down option.

If you are able to thumbs up you should be able to thumbs down,too. Don't get overly emotional about being thumbed down. Sometimes I wonder why certain people are downed, but usually I don't care, even if it's me. It separates the agreeable posts from the controversial ones, so you don't have to read all the in-betweens if you don't want to.
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This.

OP, I understand the desire for one to wish to promote logical thinking on this website, but who is going to define this logical thinking? Are we going to pull it from actual academia logic or someone's own personal logic? Or maybe the logic that YOU deem correct? Should we discourage all modes of thought that you don't like? Set rules as to what someone can and can't say? Moderate the site to fit your own personal preferences? Or ensure that nobody's feelings get hurt? Because you know what's best for us, right?

You're talking about promoting logic, and bashing "emotion" yet many of your posts are in dedication to you being frustrated by the opinions of others. Face it, Spock, you're still half human.
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Not me. I have been proven many times with logic, and I admitted to being wrong when they explained why I was wrong logically. If they give a reason that can't be proven wrong by a counter reason to their counter, then they would be right. It will go on like that until one can't defend their point.
I never said people can't say what they want to say, they can say whatever they want, aslong as they say it so the person it's aimed to can read it, agree to it, or dissagree to it and counter it.

I am human, fully. I am not emotionless. Yes, I get irritated, but I get irritated when someone isn't being logical, not when I'm being proven wrong. I only get irritated when people are refusing to accept logic, they can't offer, and think saying "You're wrong, you're stupid" etc without giving reasons why. When I get irritated, I don't make my emotion overshadow by logic, my logic still takes the helm, and I have a little of emotion added. I'd say something like "Oh my God, shut up, will you, idiot" then explain why I have said that.
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So in other words...
You get irritated when people don't abide by your personal sense of logic? And they should be able to say what they want to say but only if it fits your parameters, ie. Your logic.

And it is ok for you to be emotional, but when others do it and they are not abiding by your parameters whilst doing it (ie. Displaying emotion and your personal sense of logic) then they are in the wrong? But they are also wrong for being upset about you not abiding by their particular parameters?

If you wish a community that abides by your parameters and does not communicate with you unless done so by your parameters to save you frustration then start a website and form the regulations base from your parameters, in this manner, those who do not abide by your parameters, which are, of course, the only correct ones according to you, can be banned. Then again, I never quite liked the "my way or the highway " approach so pardon my bias.

I can't stand your half-breed logic sometimes, Spock. Sometimes I swear you're not even Vulcan.
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...My personal sense of logic in debates is that you explain why something is wrong when you tell someone something is wrong...If you think that. You explain why you're right, and why they're wrong. If that is logic only "I" run by, then yes, other peoples logic is inferior, given that it's what debating is about. If you don't see that as logical, then the last part about the Spock sarcasm (in which I think you took from my reply to Thinkingaboutit) is actually a negative look upon yourself.

What are you talking about? I clearly stated that if I'm emotional, I explain why due to the logic I show after it. I have never said they can't be emotional at all, I have said that they need to be more logical. If they say something lead by emotion, that's fine, aslong as it is backed up to why what made them emotional is wrong with logic. In short, aslong as the emotion doesn't shadow over their logic, there's nothing wrong with it.

You are actually being illogical here, most of what you have said are things you have not understood.

So tell me. In your words and opinion, what makes someone logical in debates?

Is it not logical to explain why you view something as wrong so that you can debate on if it is wrong or not so your intelligence on the matter grows? Is that not logical? If you are saying that my idea of logic, which is to explain your points of why you dissagree to come to a conclusion that shows both debaters what is right, is logic only customed to me, then why on Earth would I say anyone else is being logical, including you on the matter, if you think that type of logic isn't logical?

Once again, I have been proven wrong by many people, so it's not the case of "I'm right, my opinion is right". Please read over what it is you're rpelying to before replying, because your whole reply has been nothing but misunderstandings that wouldn;t of happened if you took time to read over what was said.

P.s Live long and prosper.
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I understand what I am saying, thanks Dad. And this

" (in which I think you took from my reply to Thinkingaboutit) "

confuses me. I really don't know what the hell you are talking about. I am sincerely lost and I don't know whether or not you're insulting me or trying to imply that I am cyber-stalking you.

"So tell me. In your words and opinion, what makes someone logical in debates?"

It is not my opinions! Logic is not an opinion! An opinion can be logical, but logic is not a matter of someone's opinion, there are actual rules and actual methods of academia to logic, not only verbal and debate logic but Mathematic logic as well.

I implore you, google it, google "the study of logic" and please, see that logic is not exactly a personal thing. The closest logic gets to being relative to opinion is inductive logic but you have google and two hands, you may look it up.

You keep talking about opinion, your way, the way you want to do things and your logic but logic isn't about you, it isn't about your preferences, it isn't about your beliefs, it isn't about vaginas or penises or whether or not yours is bigger than mine. It is a proud field of academia and you are taking it's name and applying to your endeavors!

"If you are saying that my idea of logic, which is to explain your points of why you dissagree to come to a conclusion that shows both debaters what is right, is logic only customed to me, then why on Earth would I say anyone else is being logical, including you on the matter, if you think that type of logic isn't logical?"

The answer is simple. Because you have a certain idea of what logic really is, and when someone fits that ideal of how you feel logic is, then you believe that they are logical. You say debate what is "right" and what is "truth", and then you say that you debate what is "logical", but those three do not always fall into the same parameters, especially in regards to your opinion of what it "right".

The last time I mentioned anything about actual academic logic, you balked. I'm not going to argue about it this time. The information is out there. It's not a matter of personal preference and until you see it and study it for yourself, you will realize not why it frustrates me that people use the word "logic" like a hacky sack of this website, to describe their own methods of problem solving rather than actual logic.

I'm half expecting you to come back at me debating why textbook logic is not actual logic. I'm going to leave it at that. If you do not wish to understand MY version of logic, the version that has been honed over the course of centuries, well then, your loss. It is a very enriching study.
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I'm with you on this. I've been thumbed down more often than you can imagine. It would be really useful to me as a person to know why. I'm sure some of the thumbs are just dicks but some of them are people with real points. I don't know, I guess I'd like to know why I piss people off sometimes. I really don't want to do it. But I know I do. So yeah, I'm with you on this.
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I think that would be too complicated, how would the reasons be displayed? Mandatory comment with a thumb down?

Maybe a mouse over with names would encourage accountability but it would also take away anonymity which is a big thing for a lot of people.

I agree that the system is misused though. I really only use it if I strongly disagreewith a comment. A slight disagreement isn't enough to merit more than neutrality to me.
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maybe its the inactive poster who really objects to some comment, maybe its posters thumbing down because even tho one or two posters may disagree and comment on poll (and not thumb down) others who wait and are too sheepish (or know its futile) really have strong feelings about the subject and this is their way to contribute
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Why can't you just accept you're friendship for what it is and be happy about it? Who knows, you may be her most important person, but you are just making the friendship too complicated. Friendship should be simple and fun, most of all.
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I think you commented on the wrong story.
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Oh, I'm sick and tired of this "logical" crap argument. Have you ever considered that you might just be wrong sometimes?

Anyway, I think that people should only use the thumbs down option when something is offensive or something along those lines. I don't like people who thumbs down for the sake of it, like just because everyone else has, or because they don't like the user. Actually, recently I've been thinking that someone here is thumbsing down my comments. I think I might have a hater:O! If so, reveal yourself, you fiend:P!
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Did you read what I said? I said thumbs down should only be allowed if there is a logical reason. If there is one that shows me wrong, I have no problem with it and will accept it.
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How do you think that could be controlled?
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Some people just take the thumbs up/down too seriously. I made a story before about people using them in a biased way. I don't think that it has anything to do whether it's logical or emotional, but whether you think the comment is funny or helpful, or whether you like the person who's commenting.
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