Its nice to think this way, waiting til marriage and making it "special" by doing that. But the simple fact of the matter today is that people just dont wait for marriage anymore, so if you are someone who is doing this then feel good about being pure yourself, BUT dont get upset or confused when you find out that the person you eventually wish to marry lost their virginity years before and didnt share your same sentimentality.
I know plenty of people that were like this, and then were pissed off for some reason when the person they decided to lose it too was at least 5 deep already....as if its a damn contest. Hell I havent had sex in years, I never gave a shit one way or the other.
I've never dated anyone and of course I am a virgin but I don't give a shit if the person had more sex partners than me. All that matters to me is how much that person cares about me and who they are.
I truly might laugh at the person if they were with me, to just be with me. That wouldn't make one bit of sense. At this moment I'm actually laughing at the thought of that.
Some people are a lil nutty about it, as if life is like what you read in a romance novel or something. I knew girls from college that were 14-22 at 22 yrs old. In my opinion thats far too many, at least at that age. But its their life after all. Both extremes are kinda silly. I just never understood how some people think along those lines. As if the person they are destined to meet was looking for them this whole time as well. Sure its nice to think like that, but totally and completely unrealistic.
I've never dated anyone and of course I am a virgin but I don't give a shit if the person had more sex partners than me. All that matters to me is how much that person cares about me and who they are.
I truly might laugh at the person if they were with me, to just be with me. That wouldn't make one bit of sense. At this moment I'm actually laughing at the thought of that.
But yes. :)