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What would you do or say if your child wanted to be lesbian/gay?
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What would you do if your child came up to you and said they wanted to be gay/lesbian. This question came to my mind so I decided to ask my friends and the majority of them said they would do 3. No judging about other people opinions.
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Comments (30)
ChelseaGonzales
We can do or say as we please it's still not going to change: they will still be gay or lesbian or bisexual.
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Fun fact, people don't WANT to be gay, it's not a choice, they either are or they aren't.
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It wouldn't bother me at all.
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Tell them that's not how being gay works.
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You would be a heartless, narrow-minded, ignoramus if you did anything but embrace your child's choices in life (being that they are not harming anyone). I'm sure you're no saint and you've done a few things you wouldn't want people to know about. You're not supposed to masturbate as per "god", or fornicate, or lie, etc., etc. How would you feel if your parents kicked you out for some shit like that?
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vaas
i'd support them of course, a parent who kicks out or hates on their child just because of who they prefer romantically to be with frankly should of never even been allowed to have a child.
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Why treat them badly for having different desires from myself?

I would talk to them, then accept it. No question! Just no response up top to that point exactly
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I definitely would not kick them out.
I love my kids all the same no matter what sexuality they are.
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My daughter never cared that when she was growing up that her mother was then lesbian and at the age of 13 dumped one girlfriend who had negative views about me, so I didn't mind at all when a few years later she added a girlfriend to her existing boyfriend relationship.

Ironically and very painfully, I'd lost custody of her when she was small, partly because of my "lesbian tendencies"!

She's openly bisexual, as am I, and anyone who gives a stuff about our sexuality or anyone else's has the problem, we don't.
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kingdong
Don't know till you try or ask. How old is she? When I was young I knew a 10 year old that loved being licked or fucked. And had been taught to suck cock and swallow.
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Yeah, taught to please a pedophile. It's called grooming.
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kingdong
@: Ellenna
I didn't teach her. She knew more than me at 14.
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I didn't accuse you! I still say she would've been taught that by a pedophile
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felixy
I'd be upset at myself for failing as a father figure. A negative or an absence of a masculine role-model plays a huge nurturing factor in homosexuality.

Aside from that disappointment, it would depend on the age of the kid. If it seems too early for them to be thinking in sexual terms, I'd question where they got the ideas etc.

But yeah, being gay isn't a choice.
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@: felixy
Where is there any evidence for the second sentence of your first paragraph?

And how does it relate to lesbianism or bisexuality?

At least you got the last bit right.
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felixy
@: Ellenna
Don't make the mistake of mixing right/wrong arguments with what you personally agree with. That's a way of making thinking easier. Found the following online:

"One psychoanalytic hypothesis for the connection between poor early father-son relationship and homosexuality is that during the critical gender-identity phase of development, the boy perceives the father as rejecting. As a result, he grows up failing to fully identify with his father and the masculinity he represents...

One likely cause for 'failure to identify' is a narcissistic injury inflicted by the father onto the son (who is usually temperamentally sensitive) during the pre-oedipal stage of the boy's development... The hurt manifests itself as a defensive detachment from masculinity in the self, and in others. As an adult, the homosexual is often characterized by this complex which takes the form of 'the hurt little boy."
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@: felixy
Oh a psychoanalytical theory eh? Made up by straight (or at least straight acting) white men?

That's totally convinced me ......... NOT
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felixy
@: Ellenna
What the hell does the sexual preference of the theorist matter? Stop taking shortcuts to actual thought.
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@: felixy
*coughs* bullshit
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peterrabbyt3
cock is the answer, sucking it
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here2help
being gay isnt a choice, youre either born gay or not. i would question their motives to pretend to be gay.
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"Wanted to"? It's not a choice you know!
The whole premise of your poll is flawed in that basic way, so it is unanswerable.
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kingdong
It is when I was young I met a preteen that loved being licked and fucked. Someone had taught her to suck a dick dry.
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Yeah, a pedophile: it's called grooming
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kingdong
@: Ellenna
I didn't teach her. I was 14 and she asked me to fuck her.
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See my response to your above identical response
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Congrats? Where's the 'indifferent' option? Like I give a flying rat who my kids will f
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ateb47
Ask her why does she want to be a lesbian and what doesnt she like about male cocks and nuts.
Ask her why does she prefer to lick female cunts and assholes and suck tits as opposed to sucking dude's cocks.
Ask her why does she prefer to wear strap - on's and fuck females in their twats and assholes and mouths with the strap - on and dildo and have the same done to her rather than have skin on skin , cocks in her cunt , ass , mouth.
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kingdong
How old is she? Give her a good pussy licking and a good fucking then ask her if she is gay? I never heard of someone deciding their sexual preference.
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