I agree with you for the most part, but I'm not sure if I want to use this as an excuse. I mean, it's very comfortable to say "hey babe, sorry I treated you like crap, but I can't help it. Asperger's." I don't want to become one of these guys who uses his diagnosis to get away with stuff. But, I completely agree with you for the rest of your comment.
But, I completely agree with you for the rest of your comment.