Would this annoy you??

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Yeah, it would be mildly annoying. But if you say you don't like her anymore, then her talking to other people within your realm of friends shouldn't be a big deal.

It sounds a bit strange. I wouldn't be annoyed (she's got the right to hang out with who she likes), but I would be a bit suspicious and I'd be keeping my eye on the situation.

Very annoying. I remember changing different social groups in college, and this girl that had a crush on me tried to get in the new group. It was until I gave her a"fuck off" look that she realized I was getting irritated.

Seems to me that your friends are shallow or just looking for a cheap fuck. Up to you whether to get new friends or join in on the orgy.

Their not good friends if they would still hang out with her after what she did.
It's annoying and shady. Watch yourself and get new friends.

Had a similar situation a few years ago and it was very annoying.

I only wrote yes because I don't like it when a person is suddenly best friends with all my best friends. If it was gradual, like over a few months, and I liked the person, I wouldn't care.

I used to hang out with a group that kind of sounds like yours. Everyone fucked everyone. You have a right to be pissed.

Thats weird. I can't believe she didn't make it known from the beginning that she already had a bf. And your friends don't really sound like true friends if they're hanging with her after what she did to you.

You should tell your friends it bothers you, or confront that girl. Tell her that you really think its disrespectful the way she treated you, and yet has the nerve to just chill with your friends as if nothing happened. You can also ask your friends what their deal is. Why they're acting so nice to her after what she did to you. It sounds like an awkward situation.

No. Wouldn't bother me a bit.

Ok, so you two hooked up - lucky you, she's pretty.
Her bf dumped her and she was so miserable and lonely she disappeared for a while.
She's moved on and now out enjoying herself.

Male friends won't think she did anything wrong on you at all and will wonder what exactly you're problem is.

Nothing she has done would stop me being friends with her. She may be just someone who makes friends really easily. No big deal to stress out over.

Concentrate on having a good time - she is!

Big deal!
I'm sure he got what he wanted out of the 'relationship' and some girls do date multiple guys at the same time. She wasn't agreeing to marry him or commit bygamy.

But I'm sure your bro code allows your friends to two time their dates without you dumping them as friends. It's very unusual, if you're male, to be so hung up on the emotional side of this issue - unless you've had it done on you and you were badly hurt?!

Anyhow, this isn't life or death, and the OP says he has no feelings for her, so he's not even hurting and nobody died in the process.

Chill out, the OP doesn't need to try to cause division amongst his friends if they are all enjoying her company.

She's the typical social garbage produced today. We need a new ripper to clean this shit up off the streets so we don't have to have it forced on us.

Communication is the best way to resolved problems/ feelings. Even though your friends know what happened in the past, they might think by you not saying anything that everything is okay now. Have you tried telling this female how you feel and how she is irritating the living piss out of you? Talk to her in a calm, rational manner and you may be surprised. There are different points of view to every aspect of life. It is always best to explore these points before jumping to conclusions and angry feelings. Anyways, to answer your question, yes that would irritate me and since I'm a woman it would probably irritate me even more. So with you being this upset about the situation it must be pretty bad.

Id like to add i dont have feelings for this girl and never really did, we were only getting together for a month or so. Its not jealousy im feeling, more frustration about how quickly she joined our crew.

Anyway thought id give you all an update on the situation.

Since i posted this she has gave out 3 blowjobs to my mates, claimed to have feelings for one of them and then last night shagged another one.

Everyone is wising up to her now apart from the poor lad who shagged her last night, he seems to think shes into him.

Eitherway i made her look like a right tit on several occasions at the party last night and generaly ripped the piss out of her. Think she got the message haha.

Turns out my sister knows her aswell, she said the lass has fell out with everyone in her area for slutting about. Explains why shes trying to get new mates. Shes not exactly off to a good start is she? ;)