i'm 19 and have dated a 37 year old woman who had children, some people are so blinded by love that they can see past the fact that they have children as well as other things eg age difference, distance, habits etc. they became my best friends as i helped them with their homework, played with them and generally assumed father roll within the household although not all of us are into children but in my opinion i think it is fine to date a woman with children, as long as you have an idea of what you are getting into it can definitely be a beautiful thing. you just need to be careful because going into that sort of relationship involves more feelings then that of you and your partner. you're also never going to be number one either but if you love the girl your with and eventually her kids too it won't matter at all. having a child with someone, whether planned or accidental, is a privilege that we should all be entitled to but when seeing someone who already has a child you must be prepared to love them equally, as if they were your own.. and if they don't like you then you're not in a good position as their opinion matters more to their mother then anyone else. if you meet the girl of your dreams and she just happens to have kids it shouldn't matter how many, how old or whatever.. just be happy for the person she is, treat them how you would like to be treated and they'll return the favor in a multitude of ways as i've learnt.
Would you date a girl who had a kid?
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