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Rape?
i was in my 1st year of uni, & i made friends already then made more then i always hung round these 3 blokes from the halls. i started geeting close 2 1of them, i felt he was like my drinking buddy 2me & i slept over his (both over the covers for a few nights). then there was this 1 night we both drank a shit load of alcohol. we were chatting & drinking 4 hours then i passed out from it next thing i knew when i woke up again, he was pinned on top of me kissing me & feeling me up; i overpowered him cos i was scared & i found all my bottom half clothes were on the floor, panicd by going to the sink cos i thought i was gunna thro up.
he was my b/f for a while cos i erased this from my mind (my coping mechanism) & only remebered it after the split up. am i fucked up what happend?? help, comments pls as i cant bring myself to tell any1 i know in person cos im scared they'll think im fucked up.
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Mungbean (220)
2005-07-12 10:00:01
What's so awful about this story is your inability to communicate it. I can't believe they let you into a university. Were you visiting a friend?
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METHOSjr. (83)
2005-07-12 16:33:01
I agree with Mung. Good Greef. Try exercising or bathing or something to entertain yourSelf.
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Element10010 (520)
2005-07-12 19:13:18
I didn't even realize uni meant university. Maybe you should go to community college for the rest of your life.
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Anonymous
2005-07-19 16:38:08
I figure if you dated him afterwards, your really not fucked up. If you were you wouldn't be able to date him. The way i see it is you were drunk and he probably fancyed you (Given that he dated you) He very likley thought he was making a move and didn't think because you were both drunk. And if you were as drunk as you say you wouldn't of notcied anyway. And also he didn't actually have sex with you!
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DJ_Slone (697)
2005-08-14 15:23:39
Maybe the horrid leet speak way of writing you have, made the poor man go crazy and rap your ass.
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2honest4u (806)
2005-09-26 19:06:47
you shouldn't be ashamed of having been taken advantage of. if it's still bothering you, even though the two of you dated, perhaps you should talk to someone. most universities have free counseling for women. i hope you're able to move on with your life.
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ruthie20 (895)
2005-11-13 13:15:23
I believe the best way to put this whole thing behind you is to hit the bottle.
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jenisis (883)
2005-11-14 10:30:10
What in the world is you major? Please don't say communications.
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Anonymous
2005-11-19 15:38:24
If you're going to make fun of this girls, at least spell "grief" right, morons.
Yes, this is rape and you shouldn't be afraid to tell anyone. You're not super ABnormal for dating him and are certainy normal for breaking up with him.
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Anonymous
2005-11-23 08:07:53
fancy popping around mine for a drink or two?
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btsbits (1177)
2006-01-08 23:27:57
i cant belive all these assholes on here! Its completely normal for you to feel this way. you shouldn't need a question mark after rape. It's a fact. Being afraid to talk about it is normal and these idiots arent helping. You can call a help line to talk about it anonymously. Many of the people there know about these things first hand. There are men who's wifes or girlfriends have been raped and have learned from their experiences second hand who can talk to you on a rape crisis line. Just because you slept in his bed a few times and got drunk doesn't mean he can take advantage of you.
My last girlfriend was date raped and ever since then has had serious problems sexually. It's been years and she cannot have sex without being reminded of this. had she gotten help sooner she might not have these problems any more. for your sake, and future partner's sake, talk about it with someone who can help.
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btsbits (1177)
2006-01-08 23:48:11
@: Mungbean
Mungbeen, you are evil!
how would you feel if some arogant jerk befriended you and when you were drunk stuck it up ur but. then you had to go around thinking he would go bragging about him raping you. i assume you are a straight male. what is half of all the people on earth were gay? now after this guy but raped you when you thought he was your friend, you are affraid to have any male friends because the my rape you in your sleep too. how would you fell now? then what if you decided to post your concerns on an internet message board and most of the replys make fun of you? im sure you've posted some typeos in you time so get a life and show some respect!
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roguetrick (2265)
2006-05-30 10:41:44
Whats with girls dating guys who tried to rape them? I hear this way too much. Should've gotten your friends to kick him around abit in the first place.
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