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I am involved with this girl named jessie. i have known her for 9 years. i really like her. i have always had this thing. i find it impossible to say no to a woman. she doesn't even need 2 use seduction. i have never told any gwoman that but 2 ex's have figured it out. i steer clear of them both specifically for that reason. i told jessie & she gave me an odd look then smiled a little. she said its ok as long as its a woman who only wants you. she said it was something she had never heard off. she said if it was cause of seduction then it was normal for most guys. but for it to apply even if it wasn't sex that was asked of me was, unique. so i appeal to the anonymouse masses. is it really that remarkable?
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Second, FUC (sorry, UFC), you need to find a new fishing hole if every girl you meet treats you like you've stated. Not all women are materialistic pocket-book rats without souls.
Now, on to the actual point of this post. . .
Of course, Shaka, it's unusual for a man posess the ability to concede to a woman's every whim. Most of the time, they refuse altogether. This, believe it or not, is a problem.
You must remember yourself. You can't be happy as a welcome mat, having every female in your life wipe their feet on you. You have to stand up for yourself and say no on occasion.
In reality, believe it or not, women don't want everything handed to them. They want a man who can stand up and take charge.
Like it or not, all you feminists out there, women were intended to be fragile and delicate - men are our protectors. Doesn't mean they have to be our bosses, but they are there to keep us safe and secure.
Shaka, you will never truly find your soulmate until you regain the ability to stand up for what you want, and at the same time, be able to provide a woman what she needs - a man who she can rely on to take care of her when she needs you, not to wait on her hand and foot and cower to her demands.
Good luck on your quest, and the right woman is out there. You just have to be patient, and stay strong.
Much love, dear. :)