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Sick of men

I am a female 21 years old.Recently Ive realized that Im sick of men and dating.I mean Im sick of going out with guys who think that sex is all there is.Im sick of guys trying to grab my boobs while we are just sitting and talking .Im sick of guys who rub my clit lke they are scratching a mosquito bite.Im sick of guys who thinks its sexy to suddenly insert a dry rough finger into my butt.Im sick of guys who think that all sex should be is me giving a BJ until they orgasm.Im sick of guys who have no idea about how to perform oral sex on me.One guy wants my muff to be hairy ,the next guy wants it shaven.A guy gets mad when he finds out I AM the one who decides when I'll let a guy cum in my mouth.One guy pouts cause I will not go braless in public when we go out.GUYS GROW THE FUCK UP!!!!!And Im not talking about casual sex with these guys either--for the most part these were good guys,who were decent and smart and who I had a long term relationship with.And that is the sad part--even the good guys are morons when it comes to how to act about sex and sexual matters.One guy I saw for almost a year was working on his PHd but he was as crude and ill informed about sex as Larry the Cable Guy.I've not dated anyone for almost 6 months and I feel fine.I just need a break from it all.Is is normal for all women to just get sick and tired of men and their childish sexual antics?
Do you think it's normal?
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brothershamass (380)
2007-04-26 10:31:03
"childish sexual antics"

Not all men are like that!!

But personally I am, therefore I suggest that you convert to lesbianisum.

Can I watch as well?
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J-Man (7403)
2007-04-26 10:57:32
@: brothershamass
WHAT??? Give us a break! You need to communicate with any species before fornication can commence. We are as mystified about the female race as you are about us. You sound more alien to me than my wife (near impossible)LOL
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sisophous (3738)
2007-04-26 11:03:34
To be very blunt with you, I find your judgment at fault. Has someone put a gun to your head and ordered you to drop your pants time after time??????

Did someone tell you that you must date guys who are disrespectful??????? You chose them young lady, so fault yourself.

The purpose of dating is to find someone who is compatible, respectful, and an overall good match, it is not to fornicate with each of them.

The easiest thing to do when things go wrong in life is to blame others. Try growing up, keep your pants longer and maybe then you will not encounter one bad experience after another.
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ChrisUFC (7139)
2007-04-26 11:51:00
Oh burn in hell dyke! You hate men well I hate women, I hate how they feel they are better then guys and should be worshiped and taken proper care of. I hate how a girl can attack a guy and hit him all she wants but has soon as he hits back she calls the cops and he goes to jail for hitting her. I wish we were still in cave man times so some dude could just knock your teeth out and drag you off and rape you and bust his nutt inside you and in your mouth and make you keep your twat how he wants. GET OVER IT!!!
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sisophous (3738)
2007-04-26 11:54:16
I've posted many times that it is a good thing to date many people to find out what's out there and a good match to our own interests and personalities. If someone is disrespectful it is a red flag and you simply cut them off and do not date them any longer. The red flags will pop up early on in a relationship if they exist. If a woman chooses to ignore these red flags or tolerates them, it is her own fault and she loses the right to complain later on.

You receive in life that which you seek and which you aspire to be. It is quite obvious what this 21 year-old woman is seeking is disrespectful, crude, inconsiderate men. And, unless she changes her ways, that is what she will continue to get. What you permit, you promote.

I've dated women who were not good matches for me in some form or manner and so I just cut them off. It is simple enough. I didn't rant and complain about all women.
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-04-26 12:49:14
yeah I see your problem--either put up with the pawing and leers or ignore it all and be called a lesbian like some of the idiots have done in here.youll have stupid guys who will fault you for whatever you do so dont worry about it.and youre very right even some of the most intelligent people can act like idiots when it comes to sex.(notice the ones in here who arent getting any sex really lashed out at you hehe)
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Didge_Daz (5056)
2007-04-26 16:14:33
borderline is, we guys are somewhat primal when it comes to sex, thats just how were bread to be so you cant really blame us, the only solution (as previously stated) is that you got to the trouble of finding someone to your liking, if you feel like it, nothing wrong in taking a break from relashionships, gods know we need em from time to time.
If all else fails be brutally honest, just dont put up with any shit, they either leave and prove they are morons or they will stick around.



Peace jah bless
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raydee (6505)
2007-04-26 16:44:28
I totally agree with stargirl and sisophous. I think in today's society people chose companions on how attractive they are or how good in bed they are. Most people like 2 say they chose mates based on personality but that's a lie. People always judge a stranger by the way they carry themselves. That's the first impression. Take a look at the way you dress and your own attitude before you can blame others.

From now on don't be so picky about the men you become friends with, but always be cautious. Try to find young men who you have something in common with and who respects you. Don't worry about the outside so much.

I'm a year younger than you and I'm sorry to tell you but this is something both men and women has to go threw to find the right person for them. It's been 6 months since I've dated also, and came across 5 bad apples because it was my own fault for ignoring feelings. Now I concentrate on work and school. I'm taking care of myself and trying to find a career.
Dating can be and should be fun, but relationships take time and work.

Take a break and worry about you and how to better yourself. Don't waste so much time on something that will happen when it's supposed 2. Don't worry if you are patient the right guy will come along.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-04-26 20:56:37
You sound like a bitch
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I'mnotBatman (6276)
2007-05-10 15:05:37
@: ChrisUFC
Amen to everything except the cavemen part.
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ChrisEnder (8654)
2007-06-03 03:36:13
@ chrisUFC
I agree with every single thing you said.


( on a more personal note, when was the last time a girl lifted a seat for the guy?) if you want it up, YOU put the god dam thing up and down
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blah123 (8547)
2007-07-01 03:40:29
well mabey you should consider oompa loompa
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lavaqueen (9016)
2007-07-04 05:46:05
i strongly agree.. all men think about is SEX and its all they hear,see, and read about! they dont give a fuck about woman all they care is about is their fuckin selfs.. personaly, all guys like that should go to hell =)
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sexii_prep (10620)
2007-09-16 00:29:47
of course its normal! =]
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DaddYCaT4MommaCaT18to30 (11839)
2007-11-21 18:54:39
I find your story so BOGUS , And your 21 years old try growing up!!
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