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Everytime my guy and I get in party mood, he starts talking to me about his fantasies. I don't mind them and actually am glad he is so open with me however, lately he has been talking about some of the women he works with and also some late teen/early twenty year old's he knows socially and he goes into explicit details on what he wants to do to them and what he'd like them to do to him. My self esteem has taken a real dive and when I told him it bothers me when he talks about the real people, he said he'd never do anything to hurt me.
Is this normal and do all men tell their wives/girlfriends about women they want to sleep with? My guy constantly fanasises about a brunette, he said she is not a real person but it's one of his favourite fantasies and if he was to ever meet her, he would try his best to have me involved in a threesome or just her and I so he can watch. I am beginning to wonder if this guy really does want to settle down....he says he wants to marry me but I am at a loss as to why he has to be so graphic to me about all this.
When he first told me about his fantasies, I was okay with it because it wasn't anyone we knew however, that's all changed.
Is this normal?
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But your not even married and he is talking about this stuff.either he is serious about it or he is just talking.Id have a serious discussion with him and let him know that al this talk about doing other women isnt sitting well with you.then if he continues with it youll know he isnt worth your time as he doesnt respect your feelings.
Your advice is great and appreciated. Thank you.
This is a very simple concept. If he continues to do it, then you should not fight with him rather instead drop him as your boyfriend and move on.
There is no right or wrong about what two people discuss or engage in as long as they are both willing partners. Obviously you do not want to hear this so he should shut up.
I'm sure this is only the tip of the iceberg, he probably does a lot of inconsiderate things to you.
Find yourself another boyfriend. If you stay with him, you are to blame and will suffer in the long run. Just my opinion, you've
been forewarned.
Peace jah bless
If you dont, itll just get worse and worse, well you know the story
Go find some one better there are plenty of decent guys just not many on here, take cre and hope it all goes well