Not than he is, he is as wonderful as i say he is to them, but they don't see it. So sometimes i tell them things he has said to prove this to them even though he hasn't said these things. I don't need to prove to myself. I just want them to see he is wonderful as i cannot explain.
If he really is those things, then let him prove it to them himself. If he isn't then you'll be found out and you wouldn't want to going out with a tw@ anyway. Kapisch?!
What kinds of things do they criticize him about? It could be that you are blinded by love and can't see some of the real negative things about him. On the other hand, maybe they are out of line. Is he different in some way from your family and what they expect your ideal boyfriend to be like - age, race, culture, religious differences? If so, they could also be blinded toward seeing any of his positives. Could be a mixture of both. In any case, you may need to, like a previous person said, let him prove it for himself. Take him to your house, let him interact with them, eventually they may warm up to him.
It's natural for families to be protective over their children/siblings. They don't want them to get hurt.
I see why you're doing it, but don't lie about him to them. Even if they're beeing really annoying about it, and won't give him a chance, it could be worst. They could be forbidding you to see him at all.
I see why you're doing it, but don't lie about him to them. Even if they're beeing really annoying about it, and won't give him a chance, it could be worst. They could be forbidding you to see him at all.