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I felt sad, and I don't know why
I was at a party, and I was having a great time there with my boyfriend, and my friends. And later on, my boyfriend and I were making out, which was ok. But after like 30 seconds, I had to stop because I was feeling really sad. I don't know what I was to be sad about, I wasn't cheating on him, never have, never will. I don't like anyone else, I love him, madly. But I'm just confused now because I have no idea why I felt sad.
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finny (5994)
2007-04-29 11:23:26
It because ur madly in love with me. Really I have no idea unless u r in love with someone else wich is the only thing I can think of
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sisophous (3738)
2007-04-29 11:23:55
You probably have a guilty conscience while making out with your boyfriend that is causing the sadness. Your parents raised you differently and would not have been happy by your actions and you feel you disappointed them. If making out is just ok, then it means either the guy is not right or you are doing so too early in your life and should stop. Pier pressure causes a lot of people to start at too young an age.
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 11:25:04
@: finny
im not inlove with you , i know for a fact
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 11:25:50
@: sisophous
I didnt mean making out was ok. I meant it didn't have anything to do with why i feel sad, maybe
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 11:26:13
I dont know, i just didnt mean making out was ok...i enjoy it with him
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 11:27:26
nobodys pressuring me either
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finny (5994)
2007-04-29 11:43:35
um I did well I pressured him
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 11:58:03
well I mean like nobody has been pressuring us to make out, kiss yes, but not making out
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sisophous (3738)
2007-04-29 12:04:29
Young women often experience strong emotions, sadness, guilt and their moods can fluctuate greatly. It has a lot to do with hormonal changes. This may be the reason for your sadness.

If the sadness is brief and goes away it sounds minor. If the sadness remains or occurs frequently, it is best to speak to a doctor and get their opinion. The cause for the sadness could be one of an endless list of things, bodily or relationship related.
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 12:15:12
lol well for 1 I do know im not pmsing, but ya ok
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 12:15:50
@: Xo-moi-oX
and i have been feeling depressd off and on
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finny (5994)
2007-04-29 12:23:08
@: Xo-moi-oX
Alex Jake and me woa never thaught Id put those three names in the same sentence
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 12:24:44
o...k...then
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finny (5994)
2007-04-29 12:35:45
ya u do remember we were pressuring u
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 12:46:43
i knoiw but it wasnt to make out it was to kiss, and i was going at his pace since he had never dunnit before
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finny (5994)
2007-04-29 14:06:10
accutally I was pressuring him to make out with u
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 14:54:00
well i never knew
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finny (5994)
2007-04-29 15:04:10
U were sitting right there
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 15:31:57
right i remember now
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ChrisUFC (7139)
2007-04-29 16:26:50
You probly had a sip of beer and like all girls lost your mind because it went right to your head.
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 16:41:55
well i did have some whiskey before the party
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ChrisUFC (7139)
2007-04-29 17:56:26
@: Xo-moi-oX
LOL you again! Its normal if you are not use to the place your in to get botherd or home sick if thats the case. Alchohol can cause you to feel depressed but its usually after quite a few drinks, it effects every one differnt and im going to say thats what caused it.
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-04-29 19:14:44
ok, welli didnt even have like 3 sips worth in there but w/e
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dalfaceNY (4054)
2007-04-30 03:51:03
i really dont know how to express myself, but ill try: maybe the physical act of intimacy doesnt actually have all the emotional components that you wish would back it up. so you are left feeling empty and sad.
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TheTheoryMan (8285)
2007-05-10 18:49:20
maybe the physical act of intimacy doesnt actually have all the emotional components that you wish would back it up. so you are left feeling empty and sad
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