Is she cheating?
I was deployed to Iraq about a year ago. I recently retunred. Now that I am home, my wife is acting very odd. While I was gone, she hired a handyman to help her around the house. Never giving his age etc. We were in a hardware store and she was talking to him and we finally met. I know my wife has the hots for him, he's a buff, 20 something with long blonde hair. Yeah he prob. tapped that ass a time or two. In addition, she was married before me and had a child, although she doesn't know for 100% fact who the father is, some drunk story passing out and not being able to recall much, so she's narrowed it down to 3, I am guessing. But her ex sent a letter to her mom's house wanting to get his name off the birth cert. She agreed, she wanted to do dna to find out if he was the father. He wanted something and so did she. However, out of no where, she send the letter giving her permission to take his name off the birthcert. w/o doing the dna testing. I found out last week, she tracked him down and has his number, she told me. In addition, I find out that she is contacting old friends via a website, which she never mentioned to me. I am ok, I have no problems with that, what ever makes her happy has always been my thought. Now I find out that she was emailing a long time friend of mine while I was gone. Telling him things like "my computer is broken in my bedroom" wtf? of course he told me, but she doesn't know I know. It could be honest, but the fact that she never told me about it makes me very suspicious. Been home for a few months now, kids are at school all day long, I'll walk around naked.. she doesn't even pay attention, she goes around and does her own thing, and when I prompt her about sex or oral anything else, she simply get's upset.. Wtf?
Sorry for the book..
Peace jah bless
It's tough to keep a relationship going when one person is deployed for so long and the other person grows restless. The divorce/separations rate for military personnel is well above the average.
I suggest you both go for marital counseling and see if you can work on your relationship for the sake of your children. Try to make the best of your situation. And whether or not the handyman "tapped that ass a time or two" is history.
Good luck.
You gotta confront her, talk honesty, tell her your honest thoughts, she will probably reveal stuff to you then...
All I know is silence wont do you any good man.
1> she dont wanna give it 2 you
2> she's being secretive
3>she tried to fuck ya friend
4> she fucked the ''handyman''(who probably didnt fix nuthn at all
but yea she's having an affair probbly with the handy man or the guy from down the street