That is your decision to make. Males and females are very different. Females tend to be more emotional and wrapped up in feelings and attachment whereas guys are more physical and pragmatic, often putting a strong emphasis on copulation.

If you are serious of having a long term relationship such as marriage and have patience it is better to postpone engaging in sexual activity with that special person, especially if you are female as guys tend to move on after they get their fill of sex with a girl and do not have a commitment toward her.

If you are about having fun and not serious about a long-term relationship, then sexual activity can have its rewards provided you are responsible and take precautions to guard yourself against pregnancy and disease.

accept it if you truly love her then you would. dont do what normal_guy says to do becuase that will be just taking advantage of her and she will never forgive you for it. just keep masturbating and wait for marriage.

Lose the religion for starters or change your ideas there is nothing wrong with sex if yous care for each other and sex has to be learned or you will be shit in bed. These are modern times get with the program

I know you love here and all that, but what happens if you get married and it turns out that she's shit in bed?

I'd get back with the handjob girl she sounds much more like my cup of tea.

i don't know why she wants to wait !!! she let me bone her on the first night..

your such a fucken loser damn im glad i aint you!!! you just mad cuz i aint givin you none... oh and im not a whore fuck you talking about!

well if u know shes a virgin she definitley has a tight ass pussy
but u gotta SEE IT and play with it at least before u marry it lol...

i like to base my advice on a lot of different factors... in this case age is a big one (the older she is the dumber it is to wait) but seriously... unless you guys are really young, this girl probly has issues.

anyway, i completely condone premarital sex, and this is why: saving yourself for marriage is like buying a car without test driving it first. what if it's a lemon? a couple's sex life is CRUCIAL in maintaining a happy marriage. and if you're not compatible in the sack... let's just say you might wanna keep a divorce lawyer handy.

good luck tho.

you sound young.... if she wants to wait, then good for her.
She isnt giving in to all the peer pressure, that you need to be a s1ut before you turn 16.

people that wait to marry, have happier healthier relationships. And if both are truly virgins, you wont catch herpes.

respect her and what she wants if you truely love her

If you really like her then respect her wishes