No...but are you sure you didnt give him shit? If so i still agree with a good slap on the ass and if you are male i'd punch you in the head you little lagger.

i didnt give him any shit, and im female.

Women have to learn to listen.

You don't end up with black eyes if you listed the first time.

Sheesh.

Listed?


At least we know how to spell when we're being assholes.

Sounds like you are lying, I'm sure he had a reason to keep you in check.

if i was lying i wouldn't come to here and ask if its ok, i duno what to think, duno when to expect hes going to hit me :S, its not like a weekly thing, hes done it a few times in past two years.he gets stressed out by work and has short temper.

stargirl, I'll handle your self-righteous response as I do with most women's incessant ramblings.

With a vast amount of apathy and disdain.

Way to go, ho!

Typical behavior for a man with much to fear from those he puts down.

Only men who are deep down scared of women will hit them or treat them the way you do.

What are YOU scared of?

Nothing to fear from women.

That is unless weak physical frame, inferior intellect, and a vast array of absolutely nonsensical emotional outbursts just became threatening in some way.

Well at a good moment between you two id bring it up and tell him how much you love him and dont want him to hit you he might understand.

right now i don't feel like i love him.
my mum knows what hes like, but she didnt do anything, because he made out to her that i asked for it.
she knows he can be violent sometimes, few months ago when parents were arguing, duno what exactly happend but she was crying when she came out and walking with a limp.

"You can walk over, but you'll be limping back."

Too funny.

Give him a handjob. That should cool him down.

sick bastard:S..
that's disgusting. knew i shouldn't of came on here with problems, just wanted to know what was what..pfft :S, sickos on here :S

Well your mom needs to listen to you and do something if she doesnt she is just denying it her self. I hate to see a family get tore apart but that might be the best thing. Hes not hitting you on a daily bases but a slap to the face for no reason is un called for. Talk to your mom and if she doesnt do anything and you really are ready to do something about it tell your counselor at school. Good luck

You're the one who chose to air your dirty laundry in a public forum.

yes because i wanted to know what i should do or if i needed to do anything, if you didn't have any idea for what i could do or have anything helpful to say then you should have went and commented a different one!

He shouldn't strike you in the face. He probably has an anger management problem and like you said is stressed out and lost his temper. Keep your distance from him and the less said the better. If this seldom happens, it is best not to dwell on it, let it pass.

I told you what you should do, and you said I was a sick bastard.

you said
"You can walk over, but you'll be limping back."

Too funny.

Give him a h**ndj*b. That should cool him down"

If that's advice from you then i don't want to know what your lifes like.

Life is good.

If it happens again, report him.

go to the garage, get a spade, smash it over his head as he eats his dinner and watch as his head hits the plate and the food goes all over his face....then, when he is unconcious, take out your c0ck, pull his pants down and fcukin ramraid his a55...then throw a bucket of water over him and say..."now you'll think twice about b1tch slapping me for no reason". After that you'll be friends forever and he'll never hit you again..

Or the handjob.

a face hit isnt a good idea....but many kids today could profit from a good switching across their legs for having smart mouths.

Just ignore the trolls, thats what most ppl do.

Leave the house, if not for a few months, if you stay chances are that episode might repeat itself, go live with some other family member or something if you explain it to them there liable to help you out :)



Peace jah bless

no its not ok for him to hit you even if you did do something he didnt like he should still not raise his hand to a lady especially a young lady. tell him the next time he ever raises his hand to you or your mother again you will ring the police and have him charged. any sort of violence is not right (unless you are defending yourself) as soon as he raised his hand to you you are now a victim get help please.

Not normal if you are a teen but if your nota teenager and your being a Typical bitch you probaly deserved it. May i ask how old are you?

i'm 15

You obviously don't know very many women if you think we are all wimps like you are.

Ive been hit by my dad since Day one probably,at first he was just short tempered,then i started to retaliate as i got older-it was only yesterday we were having a full on fight in Tesco's-tin cans everywere

NO ONE has thr right to lay a hand on another.The only time a person should have ever done that is on the rear when a child acts up. As the Bible states you spare the rod you spoil the child.

The laws these days are extremely liberal and people have taken them to far. Kida are basically out of control, but parents need to know where to draw the line too.

That is NOT alright. Talk to a councilor and child services. You should also tell your other parents and your siblings. Talk this over.

call cps on his ass

never hit a female or kids for no fuckin reson,you can hurt women with your words, but its okay to beat shit out off other turkeys

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"Violence always works"

No matter the reason hitting a child is not okay. Whether you are 6 or 17 a parent hitting you across the face is a huge no no. Sounds like your father has some anger issues.

no it is not okay at all. especially a slap in the face there are other ways to discipline or deal with anger

it is wrong
it is also acrime

no bro i told my dad to stop hitting me doesnt work but itll get u tougher set a goal like being rich and dont pay him lol

what doesn't kill you will make you stronger...or maybe it will scar you and your relationship with your fater for life,i dunno really.

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first off that's the problem when your parents speak once i listen. My dad's a cop so lord help me if i didn't listen. I can guarentee you if i held a knife to him, which i'd never do, he'd take it from me and punch me out in one hit. Parents are abusive when they beat you for no reason like they walk in your room after saying nothing and punch you repetedly til your knocked out... that's abuse. Not following directions and getting hit is called disiplining.

its totally not OK for him to do that. i know exactly what your going through. my dad does the exact same thing. you should not need to put up w/ that kind of sh*t.

okay
i wrote the story
only i haven't been on here for a while and forgot my password

its not called disciplining
when he comes upstairs
has a go because i didnt come straight downstairs, i took a couple of minutes
and then smacks me round the face.

i didnt ask for it
i simply said to him yeah im coming downstairs now
and he hit me okay

i shouldn't have even asked this question because people don't know what my dads like

he hit me today, tried to drag me across the room
because i said i didnt want toast
yes
now that is disciplining
im sorry i'm seeming a bit sarcastic but its kinda annoying.
he hit me
and i had to push him away from me
and it only stopped when my mum walked in the room
im sure hes done the same to here before
remember not long ago they argued in the kitchen and she came into the living room crying
and limping
what did he do?
i dont know!

he needs anger management
i love my dad
but cannot cope with it when he gets angry over silly things

I think it's b*llshit guys to smack girls. Not if and when and but. Never. It's not your job. Your job is to smack the sh*t out of other guys. And that's a hell of a lot more fun anyway. You don't get the guilt and half the time they get back up to fight back.

But smacking a girl. F*ck mate, that's just not cricket.

Friends don't let friends drive drunk. Always observe the right of way and yield to oncoming traffic. If you need a job, try the Peace Corps or Walmart.

No, it is normal. If you aren't strong enough to fight back/kill him in his sleep then you deserve to be smacked around.

KILL HIM