is it ok for my dad to hit me?:S http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/ KILL HIM http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-244976 2008-02-04 06:49:08 No, it is normal. If you aren't strong enough to fight back/kill him in his sleep then you deserve to be smacked around. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-217011 2007-12-25 19:07:39 Friends don't let friends drive drunk. Always observe the right of way and yield to oncoming traffic. If you need a job, try the Peace Corps or Walmart. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-216058 2007-12-23 15:44:14 I think it's b*llshit guys to smack girls. Not if and when and but. Never. It's not your job. Your job is to smack the sh*t out of other guys. And that's a hell of a lot more fun anyway. You don't get the guilt and half the time they get back up to fight back. But smacking a girl. F*ck mate, that's just not cricket. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-200421 2007-11-23 07:18:16 okay i wrote the story only i haven't been on here for a while and forgot my password its not called disciplining when he comes upstairs has a go because i didnt come straight downstairs, i took a couple of minutes and then smacks me round the face. i didnt ask for it i simply said to him yeah im coming downstairs now and he hit me okay i shouldn't have even asked this question because people don't know what my dads like he hit me today, tried to drag me across the room because i said i didnt want toast yes now that is disciplining im sorry i'm seeming a bit sarcastic but its kinda annoying. he hit me and i had to push him away from me and it only stopped when my mum walked in the room im sure hes done the same to here before remember not long ago they argued in the kitchen and she came into the living room crying and limping what did he do' i dont know! he needs anger management i love my dad but cannot cope with it when he gets angry over silly things http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-197827 2007-11-18 13:44:54 its totally not OK for him to do that. i know exactly what your going through. my dad does the exact same thing. you should not need to put up w/ that kind of sh*t. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-194841 2007-11-14 08:01:30 first off that's the problem when your parents speak once i listen. My dad's a cop so lord help me if i didn't listen. I can guarentee you if i held a knife to him, which i'd never do, he'd take it from me and punch me out in one hit. Parents are abusive when they beat you for no reason like they walk in your room after saying nothing and punch you repetedly til your knocked out... that's abuse. Not following directions and getting hit is called disiplining. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-190580 2007-11-07 14:47:27 not cool gl ~Oro~ http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-182246 2007-10-22 18:32:11 what doesn't kill you will make you stronger...or maybe it will scar you and your relationship with your fater for life,i dunno really. -dirt dobbler http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-182232 2007-10-22 18:21:49 no bro i told my dad to stop hitting me doesnt work but itll get u tougher set a goal like being rich and dont pay him lol http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-174833 2007-10-07 07:02:50 it is wrong it is also acrime http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-160009 2007-09-08 04:31:35 no it is not okay at all. especially a slap in the face there are other ways to discipline or deal with anger http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-157862 2007-09-03 15:22:40 No matter the reason hitting a child is not okay. Whether you are 6 or 17 a parent hitting you across the face is a huge no no. Sounds like your father has some anger issues. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-152980 2007-08-22 17:57:14 This message was brought to you by: PARENTING! "Violence always works" http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-138370 2007-08-01 05:15:03 never hit a female or kids for no fuckin reson,you can hurt women with your words, but its okay to beat shit out off other turkeys http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-122634 2007-06-14 03:28:31 call cps on his ass http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-117815 2007-06-05 15:26:24 That is NOT alright. Talk to a councilor and child services. You should also tell your other parents and your siblings. Talk this over. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-117810 2007-06-05 15:24:04 NO ONE has thr right to lay a hand on another.The only time a person should have ever done that is on the rear when a child acts up. As the Bible states you spare the rod you spoil the child. The laws these days are extremely liberal and people have taken them to far. Kida are basically out of control, but parents need to know where to draw the line too. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-116231 2007-06-03 12:04:40 Ive been hit by my dad since Day one probably,at first he was just short tempered,then i started to retaliate as i got older-it was only yesterday we were having a full on fight in Tesco's-tin cans everywere http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-116223 2007-06-03 11:45:13 i'm 15 http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-101490 2007-05-05 06:43:51 Not normal if you are a teen but if your nota teenager and your being a Typical bitch you probaly deserved it. May i ask how old are you' http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-101487 2007-05-05 06:33:04 no its not ok for him to hit you even if you did do something he didnt like he should still not raise his hand to a lady especially a young lady. tell him the next time he ever raises his hand to you or your mother again you will ring the police and have him charged. any sort of violence is not right (unless you are defending yourself) as soon as he raised his hand to you you are now a victim get help please. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-101474 2007-05-05 03:46:21 Just ignore the trolls, thats what most ppl do. Leave the house, if not for a few months, if you stay chances are that episode might repeat itself, go live with some other family member or something if you explain it to them there liable to help you out :) Peace jah bless http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-101274 2007-05-04 18:24:04 a face hit isnt a good idea....but many kids today could profit from a good switching across their legs for having smart mouths. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-101243 2007-05-04 17:12:54 Or the handjob. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-101067 2007-05-04 15:42:38 go to the garage, get a spade, smash it over his head as he eats his dinner and watch as his head hits the plate and the food goes all over his face....then, when he is unconcious, take out your c0ck, pull his pants down and fcukin ramraid his a55...then throw a bucket of water over him and say..."now you'll think twice about b1tch slapping me for no reason". After that you'll be friends forever and he'll never hit you again.. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100976 2007-05-04 15:32:36 If it happens again, report him. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100651 2007-05-04 14:41:07 Life is good. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100641 2007-05-04 14:17:11 you said "You can walk over, but you'll be limping back." Too funny. Give him a h**ndj*b. That should cool him down" If that's advice from you then i don't want to know what your lifes like. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100638 2007-05-04 14:11:34 I told you what you should do, and you said I was a sick bastard. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100637 2007-05-04 14:09:32 He shouldn't strike you in the face. He probably has an anger management problem and like you said is stressed out and lost his temper. Keep your distance from him and the less said the better. If this seldom happens, it is best not to dwell on it, let it pass. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100633 2007-05-04 14:03:27 yes because i wanted to know what i should do or if i needed to do anything, if you didn't have any idea for what i could do or have anything helpful to say then you should have went and commented a different one! http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100632 2007-05-04 14:02:03 You're the one who chose to air your dirty laundry in a public forum. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100629 2007-05-04 13:53:05 Well your mom needs to listen to you and do something if she doesnt she is just denying it her self. I hate to see a family get tore apart but that might be the best thing. Hes not hitting you on a daily bases but a slap to the face for no reason is un called for. Talk to your mom and if she doesnt do anything and you really are ready to do something about it tell your counselor at school. Good luck http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100625 2007-05-04 13:43:35 sick bastard:S.. that's disgusting. knew i shouldn't of came on here with problems, just wanted to know what was what..pfft :S, sickos on here :S http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100624 2007-05-04 13:40:55 "You can walk over, but you'll be limping back." Too funny. Give him a handjob. That should cool him down. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100623 2007-05-04 13:39:35 right now i don't feel like i love him. my mum knows what hes like, but she didnt do anything, because he made out to her that i asked for it. she knows he can be violent sometimes, few months ago when parents were arguing, duno what exactly happend but she was crying when she came out and walking with a limp. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100622 2007-05-04 13:38:13 Well at a good moment between you two id bring it up and tell him how much you love him and dont want him to hit you he might understand. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100619 2007-05-04 13:31:11 Nothing to fear from women. That is unless weak physical frame, inferior intellect, and a vast array of absolutely nonsensical emotional outbursts just became threatening in some way. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100616 2007-05-04 13:28:15 stargirl, I'll handle your self-righteous response as I do with most women's incessant ramblings. With a vast amount of apathy and disdain. Way to go, ho! http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100611 2007-05-04 13:24:00 if i was lying i wouldn't come to here and ask if its ok, i duno what to think, duno when to expect hes going to hit me :S, its not like a weekly thing, hes done it a few times in past two years.he gets stressed out by work and has short temper. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100610 2007-05-04 13:21:25 Sounds like you are lying, I'm sure he had a reason to keep you in check. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100608 2007-05-04 13:19:22 Women have to learn to listen. You don't end up with black eyes if you listed the first time. Sheesh. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100602 2007-05-04 13:09:43 i didnt give him any shit, and im female. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100601 2007-05-04 13:08:36 No...but are you sure you didnt give him shit' If so i still agree with a good slap on the ass and if you are male i'd punch you in the head you little lagger. http://isitnormal.com/story/10574/#comment-100600 2007-05-04 13:07:27