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Girl problem.
Well, I think you get the main idea. I need help getting this girl I like. But unlike most of these posts, I am in a very odd situation.

I've known her a few months now, ever since the 2nd semester began. He talk each day, we walk between classes, we always give each other a little hug when one of us has to go, and I always talk to her on the phone.

Now, heres the thing: I really like her. I mean, she is just 100% perfect for me. We (not to brag) but are both good looking people, tall, her being about 5'8'' and me being 5'11 (we're 14 btw), and we're both of the exact same ethninticy, german. We both are horribly addicted to video games, laugh at the same stuff, and like/hate the same people. Seems perfect right?

She has a boyfriend, who is starting to get on her nerves a bit.

I have been looking for a way to get her to pretty much leave the other guy for me, but I can't just go over and ask her and be like ''Hey dump that faggot and come to me''. She'd think I was crazy.

Anyway, she was on myspace today, right? Apparaently, theres this girl who likes her boyfriend, and she started telling lies about her to him - and hes buying it. She told him that she didn't really love him, that it was all a joke and fake, that she was seeing somone else, etc. on and on. Anyway, she was very upset about this, because no matter what she did, her boyfriend just wouldn't believe her. I comforted her a bit, and she really appreciated it. She was still very upset though, she deleted her myspace and was crying a bit.

So, I guess what I'm trying to say is....What should I do? Here are my options.

1. Leave her alone, let her either come to me or go back out with that same jerk.

2. Intervene, tell her my feelings and explain to her why I feel this way, and why her boyfriend just isn't right for her.

3. Forget about her and move on.

4. Keep comforting her and being a very good friend to her, and slowely move into the boy-friend territory.

I REALLY want to get this girl. I want it more than anything, except maybe graduating with highest honors :)

All help appreciated!
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Comments (11)
I find you pathetic sorry. you are whats known as a 3rd wheel. Do you think when she breaks up from her BF shes gonna get straight into a relationship with you. If you are any sort of a friend you should tell her the truth befor she finds out elsewhere then you wont be friends anymore. What do you want to do start a master race or something?
Wow I just had like - No Idea wtf your talking about...
You said it. i agree with you in this matter ... just be a man and let her know, it's for your own good... or you are going to be like that guy in movie %u201C Just Friends%u201D
I believe you are what is referred to as an intellectual whore. You're there for her when she needs support, but she's still going to be dating other guys. You can be a good friend and supportive and hope she comes around, but going after any girl who has a boyfriend, even if he is an ass is just wrong. It probably won't be healthy for you, and it rarely works out well. Go find your own girl.
First off I think the girl is a whore or just a flirt becuase she is dating that dude and letting you walk her to class and talking to you on the phone so screw her. Second you are a gutless man I think you are probly a dork at school because you are talking about how much you and her love video games, last time i checked most of the girls in school who liked video games were dorks. Oh and I cannot forget the graduating with honors comment (how gay). If you really want her and want to ruin her relationship for your own profit then just tell her how you feel and man up.
YOU BANG HER BRAINS OUT, AND SHELL LOVE YOU FOREVER.
Your are a weirdo. If you were actually good looking you wouldn't be on isitnormal asking how to get a girl which you have been jacking off too every night now for six months.
options:
1) Yeah, you would regret not doing anything, that is a fact.

2) That seems about right, except the part were you talk to her about her boyfriend, I recommend you dont do that, unles you want her to get defensive.

3) Like that is so easy to do.

4) Thats what a pussy boy would do.
I've sort of noticed that she sees me as her ''Man-bitch''. I'm a man, not a man bitch, shes been PMS'ing recently (Thats pretty much being on your period for those of you who don't know) and I've come to the terms which are...If a girl really likes you back, SHE will come to you, not the other way around. If she does, she can. If she doesn't, she won't. And if she doesn't...Well? Fuck her, I'll find a nice blonde bimbo :) I'm tired of waiting up for girls, being a little puss-puss nice guy to all of the ladies, then being a mean jock prick to my friends. I'm not gonna ease up on my friends to save my rep., but as for the ladies...Hehe, no more pussy shit.
No offence but if your a friend the next step is like brother hood.

NOTHING MORE!!!!
Go for two but don't talk about the boyfriend let her deside on her own!
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