Girl problem.
Well, I think you get the main idea. I need help getting this girl I like. But unlike most of these posts, I am in a very odd situation.
I've known her a few months now, ever since the 2nd semester began. He talk each day, we walk between classes, we always give each other a little hug when one of us has to go, and I always talk to her on the phone.
Now, heres the thing: I really like her. I mean, she is just 100% perfect for me. We (not to brag) but are both good looking people, tall, her being about 5'8'' and me being 5'11 (we're 14 btw), and we're both of the exact same ethninticy, german. We both are horribly addicted to video games, laugh at the same stuff, and like/hate the same people. Seems perfect right?
She has a boyfriend, who is starting to get on her nerves a bit.
I have been looking for a way to get her to pretty much leave the other guy for me, but I can't just go over and ask her and be like ''Hey dump that faggot and come to me''. She'd think I was crazy.
Anyway, she was on myspace today, right? Apparaently, theres this girl who likes her boyfriend, and she started telling lies about her to him - and hes buying it. She told him that she didn't really love him, that it was all a joke and fake, that she was seeing somone else, etc. on and on. Anyway, she was very upset about this, because no matter what she did, her boyfriend just wouldn't believe her. I comforted her a bit, and she really appreciated it. She was still very upset though, she deleted her myspace and was crying a bit.
So, I guess what I'm trying to say is....What should I do? Here are my options.
1. Leave her alone, let her either come to me or go back out with that same jerk.
2. Intervene, tell her my feelings and explain to her why I feel this way, and why her boyfriend just isn't right for her.
3. Forget about her and move on.
4. Keep comforting her and being a very good friend to her, and slowely move into the boy-friend territory.
I REALLY want to get this girl. I want it more than anything, except maybe graduating with highest honors :)
All help appreciated!
1) Yeah, you would regret not doing anything, that is a fact.
2) That seems about right, except the part were you talk to her about her boyfriend, I recommend you dont do that, unles you want her to get defensive.
3) Like that is so easy to do.
4) Thats what a pussy boy would do.
NOTHING MORE!!!!