am i just being a dick or am i right?
my girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 months and we are starting to really fall in love. but lately she has been wanting to hanging out w/ other guys. like prom, im only a sophmore and shes a freshman and some senior asked her to prom. i said no way because a guy just dont want to go w/ a girl to prom just as friends. hes got sumpthin on his mind. ya know what i mean? so she understood and didnt go but now she got asked to dinner by her ex and she said yes but we allready had plans to hangout that night. she just ditched me i guess you could say. i hate the feeling of her going w/ another guy on a date. am i wrong to feel this way or should i tell her i dont want her going?
As an aside, stop raping the English language. It'll make you less of a dick.
You seem to want a girl who is devoted just to you while she seems to prefer to "play the field".
The decision on her part seems to have already been made and that is to see other people. I suggest you find yourself another girl who has more in common with you and whom will stay monogamous since that seems to be what you prefer.
Don't fight with her, or show any animosity toward her. Instead, look elsewhere if her seeing other people bothers you. And, you are spot on correct, a girl who attends a prom with a guy is likely looking for some romance, even if it is slight as the prom is a romantic occasion for most.
Cheer up, move on and find someone who is a better match. I eventually cut off girls who played the field so join the club.
She's crossed that line.
I say dump her.
Dumb shit. You put up with that and still call her your girlfriend?
Learn to stand up for yourself. Call the bitch a dirty whore and dump her in front of people. You'll get some respect and she'll be known as a whore, at least for the rest of the year.
Ask her if she would mind sharing her plans for the evening. I f it's jsut inner can you come over later. One thing I give her crdit onat least she told you and didn
t just do it and you find out later/
Hope that helps!
I'm 23 (and after war and other things consider myself pretty mature) and love still knocks me on my @$$.
Your very young and while I'm not doubting your feelings you go to health class for a reason. I'm not saying that in a belittling way either. Your body is raging with horomones right now, and love is easily confused with lust and with infatuation.
I suggest backing off because your both going through VERY changeful periods of your life right now, and if nothing else it frankly doesn't sound like (from what litle we know) she's ready to be on the same level you are.
Besides your young. Get out there and have your fun, there will be plenty of time for settling down later.