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Is It Normal?
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am i just being a dick or am i right?
my girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 months and we are starting to really fall in love. but lately she has been wanting to hanging out w/ other guys. like prom, im only a sophmore and shes a freshman and some senior asked her to prom. i said no way because a guy just dont want to go w/ a girl to prom just as friends. hes got sumpthin on his mind. ya know what i mean? so she understood and didnt go but now she got asked to dinner by her ex and she said yes but we allready had plans to hangout that night. she just ditched me i guess you could say. i hate the feeling of her going w/ another guy on a date. am i wrong to feel this way or should i tell her i dont want her going?
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i think your rite, have u shagged her to show what your made of shithed?
Well It sounds like she dont want u that bad, if shes going out to dinner with her Ex, and thinking about going to prom with another guy. Or she could just be a slut. Either way, if u guys r officially going out, and she is accepting these dates, then maybe its time to start looking at other alternatives, like dating some of her friends, or her hott cousin or some shit. Or just tell her how u feel, and that ur not gonna stay in a relationship like that.
well you dont own her or youre not married so there is really no way to keep her rom dating other guys.dump her and then you wont have to worry who she is seeing.it doesnt sound like she is much into you anyway.
Yes. You're wrong. Also a dick. She's not your wife so she's really under no obligation to answer to you.

As an aside, stop raping the English language. It'll make you less of a dick.
Honestly, if she's going to dinner with other dude(s), I would let her loose. If she really was liking you then she wouldn't even consider these other guys to be spending time with, right? I would try backing off, don't hang out with her as much, and play it cool for a bit. See if she reacts. If not, then she doesn't really care. But if you backing off makes her seek you out more, then it may be a good indicator that she likes you.
It works like this. People have the right to date whomever they want or to date multiple people during the same period. Likewise, you have a right to say adios to her. Dating is all about compatibility and finding someone who shares our interests. Most of us are NOT compatible relationship wise although most of us ARE compatible sexually.

You seem to want a girl who is devoted just to you while she seems to prefer to "play the field".

The decision on her part seems to have already been made and that is to see other people. I suggest you find yourself another girl who has more in common with you and whom will stay monogamous since that seems to be what you prefer.

Don't fight with her, or show any animosity toward her. Instead, look elsewhere if her seeing other people bothers you. And, you are spot on correct, a girl who attends a prom with a guy is likely looking for some romance, even if it is slight as the prom is a romantic occasion for most.

Cheer up, move on and find someone who is a better match. I eventually cut off girls who played the field so join the club.
Holy shit what a whore!!!! No man should ask a guys girl out he needs to die!!!! She needs to get over her ex!!!! Drop her right now I mean call that bitch up and say "YOU FUCKING WHORE ITS OVER!!!!" Then go get a girl that values a relationship to help you forget about her. Man that pissed me off, I hope this is fake.
you're fcuked. you have a little willy and he has a mighty pork sword...face it, you've lost her...b1tch.
chris is right, i just didnt want to say it like that, i tried being helpful, but def. kick her in her c*nt and launch her out the door.
jesus christ you sound a little overprotective if thats all thats happened
You're girlfriend is a selfish bitch. Sorry to put it that way, but plain and simple. She's awful. She wouldn't want you going out with another girl. YOU'RE DATING.
She's crossed that line.
I say dump her.
Overprotective? This bitch ditched her boyfriend to go out to dinner with her ex, there is no excuse for that. How can you make this sound like the guys fault? You think its ok to ditch plans with your boyfriend for your ex? And just the fact that she asked her bf if she could go to prom with some other dude, what kind of girl does that?
Hahaha.

Dumb shit. You put up with that and still call her your girlfriend?

Learn to stand up for yourself. Call the bitch a dirty whore and dump her in front of people. You'll get some respect and she'll be known as a whore, at least for the rest of the year.
In my experience when you are dating someone you may see so much of them that it interferes with real plans. You can't tell that she is bitch from the information given, all I hear is some guy whining that his girlfriend decided not to "hang out" in favor of real plans.
it turns out she isnt going to dinner. when she found out he rented a FUCKING HOTEL ROOM!!!!!!!!!! i fliped and what she said is this "theres gonna be 6 other poeple there, 3 girls and 3 guys". thats what he told her. anyeays she called up some of these "people" and asked them if they were going and all they said is "what are you talking about? what hotel room, when?" he was gonna rape her ur sumpthin along that line. when she relized i was rite when i said dont go, she listened to me. i just wish people wouldnt say i was so controlling. cause i was rite.
If she is really in LOVE with you she should care about your wishes. But at the same time don't smother her. Your in a delicate stiuation. Kind of damed if you do and damned if youdon't!

Ask her if she would mind sharing her plans for the evening. I f it's jsut inner can you come over later. One thing I give her crdit onat least she told you and didn
t just do it and you find out later/

Hope that helps!
dump her and find a new one
I think ur feelings are perfectly normal...tell her how u feel!!
lol
Dude I'd take a few breaths.

I'm 23 (and after war and other things consider myself pretty mature) and love still knocks me on my @$$.

Your very young and while I'm not doubting your feelings you go to health class for a reason. I'm not saying that in a belittling way either. Your body is raging with horomones right now, and love is easily confused with lust and with infatuation.

I suggest backing off because your both going through VERY changeful periods of your life right now, and if nothing else it frankly doesn't sound like (from what litle we know) she's ready to be on the same level you are.

Besides your young. Get out there and have your fun, there will be plenty of time for settling down later.
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