Single all my life
I'm not here for sympathy or anything like that first off...I'm actually a nice generous guy who doesn't like bullsh*t, I try to treat people with respect and i know i have a lot to offer but i feel if i never let it out, eventually it will sour and i will be unable to love a girl unless she pursues me, fat chance!! All threw middle school and high school i was never popular with the ladies, not the kinda guy a girl would think about..slightly below average looking, but at least i played hockey n got some wheels when i turned 16..but no luck..when i was 17 i was checked from behind playing hockey. I am now 21 and I live with a Spinal Cord Injury.. I have nerve damage and basically everyhing from the mid section down is effected, including digestive, reproductive, bowels, everything, and i walk with a cane and ankle braces short distances, and luckily i can still drive thank goodness.. So the good side of life is that i have money, so i can keep myself entertained with trucks n atv's and fast cars and drugs..however, i just wish one girl would show up who was actually interested in damaged goods.. i know thats a lot to ask from a normal woman, maybe only a disabled woman would have any interest in what i can offer...What do you think? ever seen a disabled guy with a gf? or visa versa? i have, but i don't understand how they make it work..and if your wondering i can have sex ha ha, but as if i ever do...the only way i can get action is at a strip club and a roll of twenties...everyones got a story...any tips or anything, or probably just sh*t out of luck when it comes to ever finding a woman to spend life with??
People often pair themselves with others who share things in common. For instance, celebrities often have relationships with other celebrities. Athletes often marry other athletes. Even people who share similar physiques often choose others who resemble themselves.
Being disabled doesn't disqualify you from having a relationship with someone who is not disabled. But, you may want to consider finding a woman who shares your similar situation, or, in other words, has some disability. It doesn't have to be a spinal injury victim, but just some form of disability. Believe me, there are plenty of people in your similar situation who are looking for love. The women will not come to you, rather you will have to go out and find them, take the initiative and search for them.
As to stip clubs and prostitutes, they are a source of instant gratification but long term can leave a guy feeling empty and alone. It is best to stay away from them or avoid them on a regular basis.
The bloke is in a wheelchair with a defective dick hes got reason to be down not like half the other cockrolls on this site.
To the poster try a personal ad it might help or join a disabled sports group