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I'm moved to the city. I've been living there for 2 years. I'm a normal relatively good looking guy, but I haven't gotten laid in two years. What the heck? Is this normal?
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Comments (9)
Anonymous
No Sex in 2 yrs.?
Deperate times call for deparate measures. Time to call a pro.
Anonymous
no problem
Some folks go for long periods of time without sex. sometimes their libido isn't up or they don't want to hop in bed with just anyone.
Anonymous
what?
to the guy above...
what man doesn't want to hop into the bed with "just anyone"
come on dude, don't kid yourself. if you are a male you will put your dick into anything.
to the original poster...
put a little more effort into it. it is not hard to get laid these days. just be confident and stick to your guns.
Anonymous
I guess it also depends on your lifestyle, if your super busy, and a crazy work schedule , you may not have time to really meet anyone let alone, make time for sex life. sometimes we get so consumed w/ what we're doing , we don't really take the time to relax and just enjoy life. maybe u just to take a vacation, if possible , then just take ir from there.
Anonymous
maybe you are not going to the right places to meet girls that are right for you
Anonymous
it happens...
Man, I went through a stretch of 5 years with no sex. Five years!! Granted I did hook up with a few women during that time, just never actually got laid.

I had a few factors working against me:
1) I WORKED ALL OF THE TIME!
2) I moved to cities where I didn't know people.
3) I am not great at picking up women to begin with.

So, even though I am a decent looking guy, I learned that those other factors are devastating to a social life. Now that I work less, have friends to go out with, etc., it is definitely easier to get some action.

Basically, it is normal. But you have to do something about how you are living your life or the dry streak is doomed to continue.
isn't that what craigslist is for?
I mean...duh, post an ad or something.
Anonymous
Happened to me too after I moved. You're out of your normal social network, all the easy lays and ex-girlfriends are back wherever you came from, and you have to start from scratch.

Just start meeting people, build a new social network, and pretty soon you'll have more poon than you know what to do with.
I got a blow-up doll in order to save money because women are kaniving, traitorus, knife-in-back installation technicians. They are also very expensive to maintain. They all want babies, 18+ years of PoorHouse Living.

Maybe I'm just bitter.
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