virgin for ever?
OK.... i hear on this site that every one has had sex and sh*t... im a 13 male and im afraid ill never get a girl friend.. no one likes me at my school as far as i know... im fit and fairly popular. I'm also turning 14 soon, and it seems like every one but me at my school has gone out with some one or is going out with some one. I just dont want to turn into a "40 year old vergin". please help.
Wait until you are actually old enough and responsible enough to actively take part in a relationship and then start worrying about being single.
I don't understand why a 13 year old would worry about being a 40 year old virgin when you haven't even gotten close to being 40 yrs old yet!!!
no offence but "im fit" doesn't go down well with girls
trust, if you just tone down the cockiness then they'll fly in
pass them a coplement now and again if you like soemone!
Just relax and wait most people never make it to 40 as virgin. If your fit happy and confident and keep asking girls out when your older you'll get plenty, too many kids worry about this stuff and even myself at your age was teased by a girl because i didn't want to have sex I was 13 it's okay to not have sex I was scared no one at this age knows what they are doing anyway, And most will grow up with bad psychological problems and worse Diseases and pregnant. Focus on school do your home work play sports or do art and focus your energy else where, there will be plenty of time for girls in highschool that is if they don't all have herpes or get pregnant. I'm not saying sex is bad it just doesn't have any meaning at your age it's empty and any girl having sex at that age is going to messed up in the head later, and has no self worth and probably won't later either. If you excel in your studies and exercise and have a positive attitude when you get older women will run to you. Besides most talk about it probably show how cool they are, but in all reality they are insecure and as you get older you'll find women don't like that. besides they are probably lying or the poor girl just wants guys to like her and they'll treat her like crap and she'll pay the rest of her life with a disease or pregnant or in therapy trying to figure out why she stays with alcoholic husband who beats her. Just watch people around you not at school but at the mall or on the street when you see a couple that does look happy it's probably related to a F#@#$cked up child hood NO ONE TOLD ME THIS STUFF WHEN I WAS YOUR AGE....THEY JUST USED TO say STUPID QUOTES LIKE "DON'T DO IT " or "WAIT FOR MARRIAGE" ETC. and THEY ARE RIGHT I JUST WANTED TO GIVE YOU A BETTER EXPLANATION! Play ball chill with your friends and trust me stay away from dope and alcohol... me and alot of my friends are paying for it now. at first people think it's fun at first, but just like sex at a young age it will cause mental damage that keeps you from having a good woman or good women in your life. And ignore your brain telling you everyones doing it! IT'S NOT YOU who cares and later in life you'll be thankful. THEN WHEN YOUR OLDER IT WILL BE GOOD! And if you work on being awesome physically fit and mentally sharp and happy and work on it NOW you will be so far ahead of all the other boys and you'll find an Awesome girl instead of these SKANKY BRITTANY WANNA BEES. Hold yourself to a higher standard of life and rest will come to you with ease. Peace out bro!
peace jah bless