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Toys for the new man

A guy I dated previously, called last week and I told him about my new boyfriend of three months. He asked about his kinks since we met on an BDSM alternative website. I told him our sex is great and I regret getting rid of some of my sex toys after our breakup. He asked specifically which ones and I told him it was none of his business. We both laughed and he changed the subject.

We stopped seeing each other last year, and are friendly. Meaning, we don't ever see each other but he calls to check in from time to time.

At the end of the conversation, he wished me well and asked to keep him posted on the budding romance. I then asked him to make me a Penis Toy he had made in the past. He agreed.

Today he called and said he was on his way to Home Depot and wanted to know if I had any specific requests about the toy. I asked him to add some extra hooks for weights, he agreed. I laughed again and we hung up.

Do you think it's wierd that my x is so supportive of my new relationship that he's willing to make me sex toys to be used on the new man?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (4)
Anonymous
Frankly, I think it's his way of staying connected to you. When he gives it to you I bet he will ask you to let him know how the new guy likes it; he might even get a little frisky hearing about you with this new guy, wishing it was him weighted down by you.
Anonymous (Story Author)
Toys for the new man
I have done generous things for x's in the name of brotherhood. I want my x's to be happy and just because things weren't right for us,doesn't mean I want her to be alone, lonely, or unhappy.

I've never bought sex toys for an ex, but I did purchase a new set of boobs. She had always wanted them and on her 40th birthday, I got them for her. We broke up when she was 39.

I did it for her. I wasn't going to enjoy them and knew other men would. However, since it would make her happy...what the hell!
you got whipped good
Not at all. You sound like the kind of person who deserves a big dildo up the chocolate chute, hopefully one full of splinters.