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The other day I was filling out an online scholarship form for college and there was an area that asked my religon. I dont believe in a god, and havent for some time, so i put down atheist. My mom walked in the room, saw it on the screen and freaked out.

Dont get me wrong, my mom always taught me that you should accept everyone and at least try to understand their point of view. I also thought she knew I was atheist since I tend to say things that wouldnt support the Christian religon.

So, the first thing that my mom said to me went something like this "What your athiest now? Who do you think created the world? Who do you think created love?"

I was so shocked by her reaction that I said nothing, and I also thought that they were kind of rediculous questions (since Ive always been an evolution and Big Bang girl). Anyway, she went to the computer and started doing something. After a while she started crying, and I left the room, called my best friend and told her to come and get me.

I packed an overnight bag, and told my mom I was going to Laura's house. She came up to me and said "Im worried about you, and I still love you"

The next day when i came home, and she got home (2 hours later then usual) she asked for an apology for not telling her that I was an atheist.

This angered me quite a bit, because who was she to interrogate me about my beliefs like I had woken up that morning and said "oh, today is atheist day". I know I surprised her, but she always said that everyone should be accepted and understood, but not her own daughter?

Did I have a right to be upset that she questioned me and became angery? All feedback greatly appreciated
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Should have left it blank . . .
Do they actually ask your religion on college applications?

Do you attend church with your family? If so, your mom obviously thought you believed in religon and thus had no idea that you were an atheist. Makes sense if that's why she got upset.

About you getting angry at her for the interrogation is normal, don't most teenagers hate being asked questions by their parents! I know I did!


Should have left it blank . . .
Do they actually ask your religion on college applications?

Do you attend church with your family? If so, your mom obviously thought you believed in religon and thus had no idea that you were an atheist. Makes sense if that's why she got upset.

About you getting angry at her for the interrogation is normal, don't most teenagers hate being asked questions by their parents! I know I did!


@: Moi
no choice
I really didnt have a choice as to leave it blank or not. It needed an answer and it wasnt a college application it was something for scholarships (FastWeb.com) The last time my mom and I went to church was when I was 10.

And the way she asked me was as if I had just said that killing people for sport is okay.
Sounds like your mom is a complete nut.
Sounds like your mom is a nut.
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You don't have to tell your mother everything. It's not fair for her to have such a reaction, nor to demand an apology for something which is your business, and, the way you put it, something she should have picked up on anyway.

Then again, her being religious might mean you have to make some things obvious.
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My mom does the same thing on various other topics. She even calls me a liar for never telling her things when I thought she could figure it out for herself and that it was REALLY insignificant.
moms get strange sometimes
sounds like a overreaction.let her be upset and forget about it,if she brings it up again then you could talk and tell her that you are your own person and have your own beliefs,that you respect her right to have hers and she should do the same.or not.
Weird, but that's how some religious people are, they try to act like they are all tolerant and understanding of other people's beliefs, but they don't really mean it. Screw her, you are your OWN person, and you can believe what you want. I myself am an atheist, and my mother is agnostic, we get along fine, but I bet if she was religious, I wouldn't talk to her, nothing is more annoying than people trying to shove their crap beliefs down other people's throats! Tell her to go fuck herself, and go on believing what you want.
its your mom and our family will always be there making us crazy and pushing our buttons and you know what they will always be there for us too.

there is a thing called agreeing to disagree, so sometimes things never get wrapped up neatly but that is ok.
She's a hypocrite, and WAY over-reacted. You can't barate people with philosophical questions on the spur of the moment.
My Mum's a Catholic (but a not very devout one. She doesn't go to church and told me once she doesn't believe in angels, but she is fascinated with saints) My Dad was raised Catholic but is now a Freemason. In a way you could say he's Jewish but not really, he believes in the OT but will actually tell you all the holes in the New Testiment.

My Brother is a dug adict, He's semi-fanatical, keeps switching to this or that bullshit religion. I say semi-fanatical because he's a much bigger siiner than I am, and I'm an Atheist. He's in jail now, actually. Robbed a Mac Donalds.

My brother and I are like Superman and Bizarro. I'm Superman.
Call her a stupid bitch and slap her. (Seriously)
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