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I am SOO confused, please Help!!!
I am (arranged)married (since 18 yrs. age) female(22yrs old right now).I thought I was very happy until there were downs in my marriage and I happened to meet this guy (in another country while I was on a vacation with my friends).we both liked each other(he didnt know I am married), and for several months we would talk on the phone everyday, for long periods, and I believe I fell in love, because I have NEVER felt this way about anyone else(not even my husband). I even went to visit the guy again after six months when I had first met him, we "went out" and I know he reallllyy did like me, not "love" me.When he came to know I am married he told me I am not his "type" because I lied to him, but we still talk everyday and he even calls me, but he want me to be with my husband.But I dont feel the same way for my husband, all I can think about is the other guy and its KILLING me...Plz tell me what I should do????I am very confused and in-love.
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Comments (10)
feelssogood (8676)
2007-06-05 02:45:46
move to america loose the hubby and marry the suave foriner
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mandy123_ca (8705)
2007-06-05 03:01:48
@: feelssogood
ya..ihad decided to leave my hubby, but the prob is that the doesnt admit he has any feelings, if does at all.....thats y i m confused....its like I cant be with neone else (not even my own husband of 4 yrs) and I cant b with the guy, who has never been married, but we r the same age....
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The_Machine (5244)
2007-06-05 04:16:21
From the fact that your marriage was arranged, I'm guessing you either from one of the Muslim countries or India. I suggest you just fuck the guy and any other other that comes along. You could just meet me and I will show you the west fucks, just dont get caught or you will be stoned to death.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-06-05 04:49:45
Because you deceived this guy from the beginning he cannot trust you and some people arent forgiving on these types of issues but you are away from your husband and are free to find someone else just do it right next time
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ChrisUFC (7139)
2007-06-05 07:36:40
I'm having trouble buying this one. Arranged marriages only take place is fucked up countries like in the middle east. I dont know of any white people who still do this shit. If you are telling the truth then sucks to be you and you shouldnt be going all around the world by your self when your married, thats only asking for trouble. How does your husband not know about this guy you talk to every day?
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feelssogood (8676)
2007-06-05 10:34:18
@: mandy123_ca
give up on the husband it was arranged right? well its time to move on
ask the other guy ig hes interested in you
if he says yes
marry him
you deserve it
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bigheart (3359)
2007-07-25 20:20:08
just follow your heart and do what you think is best not what other people think. your in love with this new guy so go for it hunni!! if i was in your shoes i would do exactly the same

take care xx
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Potato (7428)
2007-07-25 20:43:11
@: ChrisUFC
"Arranged marriages only take place is f**ked up countries like in the middle east"


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You, sir, are a fucking ignorant moron
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Steve3D (9523)
2007-08-01 05:13:42
Difficult. You have already committed Adultery in your heart. God disapproves of adultery. If you want to move on , do it cleanly and finish with the first, or just disappear. The guilt will stay with you. In the long run you will be haunted by your own selfishness. Lust is transient. Lust is not only of the young. Be very very aware of your soul.
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girlygirl24 (8509)
2007-09-02 16:44:01
you could either get a divorce and go for the other guy... or just stay married and stay friends with the guy you love... its all you to you
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