is it normal your ex want to have sex with you?

I have a huge problem and i don't know what to do. I really love this guy. We been dating for almost 9 month. But recently he broke up with me, and he still want to have sex with me. he told me he still care for me but he just doesn't want to be in a relationship. He keep on asking me to have sex with him. I don't know what to do, please help. Also does it seem like he use me?

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gizzie56 (8681)

2007-06-08 02:39:54

It sounds to me like this guy is just trying to use you for sex.If i were you i would find somebody who will apperciate you.good luck

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galeni (2821)

2007-06-08 03:20:43

he is not saying, it but u are! all he wants is sex. he is not gonna give u anything else, no ring, no MS.'i-just-want-sex', no kids(hopefully). it depends on you, r u gonna be his toy or not? he is not gonna stop(i know i am a guy)
he is calling you in order to not using his hand to pleasure himself or filling with air his inflatable woman, probably is a too cahuvinist way of thinking but it deppends on you.
clear ur mind, and make a decision. be his toy or be completely free to look for a man that wants to fulfill your desires.
good luck

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ChrisUFC (7139)

2007-06-08 07:00:29

You sound like an idiot with your "and he still want to have sex with me" and your "he told me he still care" what special ed school did he find you at? How did you discover a computer?

Alot of people do this after they break up, they are so use to the sex with one another but other things have broken them up. Its all up to you, I dont recomend you have sex with anyone you are not with but if its something you want also then go for it just remember what the side effects to this can be. Good Luck

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DirtySirus (8218)

2007-06-08 08:42:16

As Chris said this is normal, but it is not recommended in this situation as you said you still had feelings for him. If he is aware that you do then chances are he's trying to use you, if not then he's just being a normal bloke, i would recommend you keep some distance.

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fletcher94 (8997)

2007-06-21 03:48:44

Hit him with a 2x4 the next time he ask

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aperson (9713)

2007-08-01 16:29:06

dont do it

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WHYme (8965)

2007-08-01 16:33:09

No doubt heis using you for a sexual release. But not knowing ALL the particulars of why you divorced maybe he still sees you as attractive!