Frozen Cat Lady
So there's a really attractive woman who works as the secretary of my local union, let's call her Judy. Since I'm always hanging out at the union hall, I've seen her more than a few times. Friday I mentioned to another woman at the hall that I find Judy very pleasing to look at and might like to do more than just look. The other woman said, "Ohh, no, she's not the one for you, she's weird." I asked the woman to explain. She said, "Well, Judy's cat died and not knowing what else to do, Judy decided to throw the dead cat in her freezer, where it still is today."
Is this normal? Should I consider dating the "cat freezer?"
I say go for it. Don't mention Judy's cat for a while. Get to know her first then decide if you want to keep seeing her. Break it to her gently later, about what was said. If the two of you become friends at least, she might open up to you and explain to you what really happened and why. Keep in mind though, if Judy's cat is still in the freezer, you could offer to help her bury him in a spot that she is comfortable with.
Now she's back for another, gotta go. See what I mean?
i know where you sleep
Besides... It's the personality that counts. Why does it matter if they have a frozen cat in their freezer?