Im not a sex doctor. Not my problem and I dont care.

i think your trying to pump her arse. Try her vagina next time.

Have you ever been laid normal guy ??

maybe her vaginal muscles were tightened from being nervous at the time, and that's why you couldn't put your penis in all the way.

@: normal_guy
thanks for ur suggestion normal_guy. Hope i can make it next time.

i think you are rite. Is there any way possible to calm her down? She also mentioned when we calmed ourselves down that she is not prepared. How do i come to know when she is prepared? What are the signals. teach me!!

she has a frickin stone tight pussy lol

or u dont know where her pussy is and u going up ass

I think your problem goes beyond losing your erection. You say the girl is fearful of getting pregnant. That's a definite buzz kill, particularly if the girl is still a virgin. Take care of the birth control first - I strongly recommend she at least have a diaphragm and foam handy. The foam will also help a bit with the lubrication. She should practice using it before actually having intercourse as inserting it for the first time can be a little tricky. But the point is, she can't be subject to distractions during this important time for both of you. No pregnancy worries, no wondering if someone's going to walk in and interrupt you, etc. Also, I agree with normal_guy's comments about keeping the penis firm, once you get to this point. My partner(s) and I have tried this with great success.

Best of luck to you both.

I was more scared than my gf first time, she understood and now has other means of contraception and we still sometimes use protection :)

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