sispohous, can you answer this?
sorry to be annoying but you're pretty much the only one that answers professionally on here. I'm 14 and a girl and i day dream all the time about being told off and hit by father figurey type men off of movies and stuff, i think its a dominance fetish. But i seem to focus more on my reaction to it in the day dreams and like how i am submissive and fear the men (its pretend though, they're just day dreams)
Is this normal? Because wouldn't it be natural to focus more on the men in these fantacies than myself?
This worries me, please reply
What you describe may be a form of S&M (Sado-Masochism) which is when people derive sexual pleasure from inflicting pain on others and/or having pain inflicted upon themselves. The pain in this case sounds like a reprimand or a scolding and the physical contact definitely fits this fetish.
As to your focusing on yourself and not the man, that fits the description of this type of fetish and so makes sense. Fetishes are a very private issue and you may want to just keep it to yourself as we don't all share the same interests. People who don't get the same pleasure as you do may not be to accepting of what you enjoy and are best not told. In the meantime, have fun with it.