So confused part 2
Hi,I'm the oringinal writer of the infamous "So confused" on this site. I am a 14 year old girl and I'm adding a second part so everybody dosn't have to read all the comments to understand the story.
Anyways, on the oringinal "So confused" I went on about my anger towards guys but that's not the main problem now. The main problem is that sometimes I'll like guys and then later that night I'll have a passionate hate for them. This has been going on for a while. Like here's an example: I'll hang out with my guy friends at school and then later I'll curse myself for hanging out with them. I just don't feel anything loving or romantic about guys for some reason. I know they can be loving and romantic, but it just dosn't work for me. I don't feel any love for them, when I know I should. I know what love is supposed to be like and how it feels, but I just don't feel it for guys anymore. I don't think I ever did. Whenever a guy flirts with me I don't get excited meanwhile my other friends would go wild over that. I pretend to get excited and flirt back, but I never feel charmed by them. I feel very excluded by my friends because of these loveless feelings and whenever my friends talk about their crush or boyfriend I get really confused and jealous for some wierd reason. Now I know I'm not a dyke. I have at least over a million pink girly shirts and skirts and I would never dare to wear anything masculant. I also wear make-up everyday but I don't know why I have these warped feelings about guys and gals.
Anyone is free to comment. Thanx for reading.
Here is the link to the oringinal "So confused"
http://isitnormal.com/normal-story-1252.htm
You can also find it on the "Best of" list to the left.
You are a 14 yr old girl, basically still a child.
You post yourself as 'So confused' and rightly so.
You have touched a nerve of members male, female, young and old. There's 74 posts about this because of your insults to the male gender, continuation to argue and refusal to let go. You lack the maturity and the presence of mind to know when to back off and keep your mouth shut. You got all your answers about 65 posts ago.
So, round two now. Why? What the hell do you want? for all of us to agree with you? You've pissed off a lot of people and have gotten scads of ATTENTION, you spoiled little girl. That's what children do when they want something. We were all under the impression that we were conversing with someone a little older and wiser, willing to learn from our experience and helpful suggestions but you've shown us otherwise.
If you had said all this in the first place instead of ranting you wouldnt have to waste space and your question would be answered.
Having said that, now we all know you are fourteen, you aren't mature at all
Boys mature later.In fact never in some cases. Niether have I.
Does that make you a better person cos you concider yourself mature for your age and may i ask why this has happened. The mature 14 year olds that i have met have had pretty dramatic lifes but you sound like a spoilt little cunt and thinks wearing pink clothes constitues proof of not being a dyke. By the way yet again you state something which means bugger all and is stereotypical. I own one pink item & i own more black clothes. I own one skirt and loads of trousers. I hang around with boys. i dont wear make up. what are ye going to say about that. I definately aint a lesbo. Nothing better than a morning glory sticking in your back
And I didnt say this earlier but, Those grades you talk about don't mean one fucking thing. I have never had straight a's in my life. Having the best sometimes doesnt get you everything. And bragging about it wont get you a man. That is if you want one
Why do you never mention yer father, hes a man isn't he.
Remember that old saying "An infinite number of monkeys typing on an infinite number of keyboards would eventually churn out a coherent sentence"? I guess you're living proof, although the "coherent" part is a subject of some debate. I don't know what your problem is; perhaps the aliens forgot to remove your anal probe. You have such long leg, armpit and back hair you're probably mistaken for a neanderthal on a daily basis and the fact is, whatever look you were going for, you missed.
This site is starting to suck because of all the stupid, mindless drivel you insist on posting here. I mean, I really am trying to see things from your perspective but I just can't get my head that far up my ass. I thought we did a good enough job taking care of that LAST time but apparently your head is thicker than we had judged. Oh well, I guess it figures. Make it idiot-proof and someone will invent a better idiot.
Do me a favor, take a long walk off a short pier.
Some things about mature people
*Mature people can admit when they are wrong
*Mature people can take criticism
*Mature people know when to bow out gracefully
*Mature people do not throw temper tantrums like a 2 yr old because they are jealous
I could go on but I have grown tired of this.
Please go here: http//www.statepress.com/issues/2005/10/19/opinions/694453
I don't care whether your a feminist or not. This is absolutely priceless.
P.S You like making fun of her? Check out what I said on the original "So Confused", 14 comments up from the bottom and below. She gets so pissed--it's actually quite amusing. I'm sure her panties would've gotten in a twist if she wasn't in the habit of wearing men's underwear.
Oh and by the way think yourself great because your fucking shitty attitude has basically become an advertisement for more people to join the isitnormal crowd.
Who are you to critisise when you don't even like your self.
Judge not lest ye judge thyself.
MON THE BOYS!!!!
The Rev
My point is that your stereotypes (which you shouldn't have anyway) are way off. Guys and girls are a lot alike.
Oh, and some dykes wear pink. You don't have to be butch to be a dyke.
I think everyone could do that. its not fair, so why bother.
-Proud to be man-
As for boys getting mature and not being stinky, wait a few years. Physique attributes usually develop before mental attributes in guys (maturing fully around 23). From all the experiences I've had (and read about), women don't fully mature until around 26. Of course there are exceptions.
All I can suggest is to worry about yourself before looking at other people. You'll be much happier.
What the fuck has that got to do with the original post.
Also my boyfriend is smarter than me by 2 points in an IQ test. But i have better grades than him, what does that prove. Bugger all
Leo, there is someone on here posing as you. They have your name spelled correctly, but failed to realize the numbers at the end of his/her name is what distinguishes you two. The real Leo's number begins with an 8(i think) and has 3 digits. The fake one is posing as gay, and has a 4 digit number starting with the number 1. Good luck to yall, and may God be with you.
Is it normal to fake another poster?
If you keep erasing this, I will keep posting it. We can play this game, and he will get the message. I like Leo, and you will not play him. Also, I will post this in every comments message board he has posted recently. So don't waste my time or yours.
Emotions and Systems
This task looked at whether you prefer to empathise or systemise.
Empathising
Your empathy score is: 16 out of 20
Average score for men: 7.9 out of 20
Average score for women: 10.6 out of 20
What does your result suggest?
Empathisers are better at accurately judging other people's emotions and responding appropriately. If you scored 15 and above, you are very empathic and would be an ideal person to comfort people in a time of crisis. Women in general are better at empathising.
note from Skybird: go scientific evidence! *does a victory dance* And also here is the literacy test portion that I have also copied and pasted from the actual test.
Words
This task looked at your verbal fluency.
Your score: you associated 14 word(s) with grey and you named 13 word(s) that mean happy. We are assuming that all the words you entered are correct.
Average score for men: 11.4 words total
Average score for women: 12.4 words total
What does your result suggest?
If you produced 1 - 5 words: You are more of the strong, silent type with a male brain. You probably find it easier to express yourself in non-verbal ways, preferring action rather than words.
If you produced 6 - 10 words: Most people in this range have a female-type brain.
Women are said to use both sides of the brain when doing verbal tasks while men mainly use their left side. Studies have shown that girls develop vocabulary faster than boys. This difference in brain power is caused by levels of pre-natal testosterone. Find out more please visit http://www.bbc.co.uk.com
Note to all readers:[from skybird] Please don't kill me! :) I just thought I 'd add this in here.