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So confused part 2
Hi,I'm the oringinal writer of the infamous "So confused" on this site. I am a 14 year old girl and I'm adding a second part so everybody dosn't have to read all the comments to understand the story.
Anyways, on the oringinal "So confused" I went on about my anger towards guys but that's not the main problem now. The main problem is that sometimes I'll like guys and then later that night I'll have a passionate hate for them. This has been going on for a while. Like here's an example: I'll hang out with my guy friends at school and then later I'll curse myself for hanging out with them. I just don't feel anything loving or romantic about guys for some reason. I know they can be loving and romantic, but it just dosn't work for me. I don't feel any love for them, when I know I should. I know what love is supposed to be like and how it feels, but I just don't feel it for guys anymore. I don't think I ever did. Whenever a guy flirts with me I don't get excited meanwhile my other friends would go wild over that. I pretend to get excited and flirt back, but I never feel charmed by them. I feel very excluded by my friends because of these loveless feelings and whenever my friends talk about their crush or boyfriend I get really confused and jealous for some wierd reason. Now I know I'm not a dyke. I have at least over a million pink girly shirts and skirts and I would never dare to wear anything masculant. I also wear make-up everyday but I don't know why I have these warped feelings about guys and gals.
Anyone is free to comment. Thanx for reading.
Here is the link to the oringinal "So confused"
http://isitnormal.com/normal-story-1252.htm
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Comments (51)
holly molly again!
i don't think your that abnormal , and besides just because you have lots of pink girly shirts doesn't mean your not gay,so what if you don't like guys,your only fourteen! so who cares,you probably will later...or not! whatever!the real point is not to be sexist or discriminate against men [boys],that is wrong .
Anonymous
Just shut up about it, no one cares anymore. You are a man hating feminist queen, and no one cares about what clothing you wear. Just SHUT UP.
whoa
my, my your very mean *sniffles*
Waiting for Prince Charming
When I was 14 most boys were immature jerks. Give them a chance to grow up, you might like them then.

@: Moi
Do you really think your thread deserves a part 2? A recap here:
You are a 14 yr old girl, basically still a child.
You post yourself as 'So confused' and rightly so.
You have touched a nerve of members male, female, young and old. There's 74 posts about this because of your insults to the male gender, continuation to argue and refusal to let go. You lack the maturity and the presence of mind to know when to back off and keep your mouth shut. You got all your answers about 65 posts ago.
So, round two now. Why? What the hell do you want? for all of us to agree with you? You've pissed off a lot of people and have gotten scads of ATTENTION, you spoiled little girl. That's what children do when they want something. We were all under the impression that we were conversing with someone a little older and wiser, willing to learn from our experience and helpful suggestions but you've shown us otherwise.
right on!!!!
so true!!
Ah Ha
See now miss.

If you had said all this in the first place instead of ranting you wouldnt have to waste space and your question would be answered.

Having said that, now we all know you are fourteen, you aren't mature at all

Boys mature later.In fact never in some cases. Niether have I.

Does that make you a better person cos you concider yourself mature for your age and may i ask why this has happened. The mature 14 year olds that i have met have had pretty dramatic lifes but you sound like a spoilt little cunt and thinks wearing pink clothes constitues proof of not being a dyke. By the way yet again you state something which means bugger all and is stereotypical. I own one pink item & i own more black clothes. I own one skirt and loads of trousers. I hang around with boys. i dont wear make up. what are ye going to say about that. I definately aint a lesbo. Nothing better than a morning glory sticking in your back

And I didnt say this earlier but, Those grades you talk about don't mean one fucking thing. I have never had straight a's in my life. Having the best sometimes doesnt get you everything. And bragging about it wont get you a man. That is if you want one

Why do you never mention yer father, hes a man isn't he.
Too Fucking Confused
You pissed off everyone on this site, retaliated at me with some of the most feeble insults I have ever heard and wrote ANOTHER story, one in which there is NO NEW INFORMATION!!! I am beginning to suspect you are some form of lower primate that somehow got ahold of a laptop.
Remember that old saying "An infinite number of monkeys typing on an infinite number of keyboards would eventually churn out a coherent sentence"? I guess you're living proof, although the "coherent" part is a subject of some debate. I don't know what your problem is; perhaps the aliens forgot to remove your anal probe. You have such long leg, armpit and back hair you're probably mistaken for a neanderthal on a daily basis and the fact is, whatever look you were going for, you missed.
This site is starting to suck because of all the stupid, mindless drivel you insist on posting here. I mean, I really am trying to see things from your perspective but I just can't get my head that far up my ass. I thought we did a good enough job taking care of that LAST time but apparently your head is thicker than we had judged. Oh well, I guess it figures. Make it idiot-proof and someone will invent a better idiot.
Do me a favor, take a long walk off a short pier.
Anonymous
Since when does wearing pink clothes and makeup prove whether or not you are a dyke? I know several gay girls who wear pink all the time because pink is a "girl" color and they like girls. That sounds like you. On the flip side, I know even more girls who wear baggy clothes and no makeup every day, and then go home and fuck the shit out of their boyfriends. Maybe you really are a lesbian, and simply haven't come to terms with this yet. It would certainly explain your dislike of men and favoritism towards women.
Siiigh
Ok, everyone needs to quit posting on this topic. I'm sure she is just laughing her ass off at how "smart" she is for getting all the posters riled up. I'm sure she feels "so cool" because, as she said herself, she wrote the infamous So Cornfused. And for the 14 yr old-You will be that old lady who has no family, owns 50 cats, and screams at all the neighborhood children. You are destined to be alone....have a nice life Cat-Lady.
I would never consider owning a cat and no I am not laughing my ass off reading these. Gosh, not all 14 year olds are immature.
Anonymous
Yeah you are right, not all 14 year olds are immature, but you definately are.
You just gave yourself away.
I NEVER said anything about maturity, but since we are on the subject......
Some things about mature people

*Mature people can admit when they are wrong
*Mature people can take criticism
*Mature people know when to bow out gracefully
*Mature people do not throw temper tantrums like a 2 yr old because they are jealous
I could go on but I have grown tired of this.
No But
Do you consider yourself more mature than me for example.
no
oh what are you all going to do now?
Aha I have now found a site that discusses gender personalities. This article explains how females are naturally more sofisticated and men are more goofier even in serious situations.
Please go here: http//www.statepress.com/issues/2005/10/19/opinions/694453
I don't care whether your a feminist or not. This is absolutely priceless.

Anonymous
did you fail to notice that in the url itself it says "opinions". You are so fucking stupid.
Anonymous
Oh, and for you being so "smart" you said "more goofier." It should be either "more goofy" or "goofier" not the two together. Idiot.
@: silence
To my fellow "feminist bitch-hater"
Yeah, it's becoming increasingly obvious that Skybird is also one of the "more smarter" people on this site.
P.S You like making fun of her? Check out what I said on the original "So Confused", 14 comments up from the bottom and below. She gets so pissed--it's actually quite amusing. I'm sure her panties would've gotten in a twist if she wasn't in the habit of wearing men's underwear.
Anonymous
ah, my good friend, I've seen. I made multiple posts myself. I'm the one who told her I am biased towards you.
what if i was a guy
would you be more mature than me
@: pie1985
probably, even though your older
Grammar.
correction skybird. You meant to say "Probably, even though YOU'RE older." You used "your" which is posessive. You want the contraction for "you are." It really amazes me that you think you are so smart.
Is grammar really important right now? When I type fast I make careless mistakes.
I make careless mistakes when I type fast. Since when did grammar become important right now anyways?
oops I posted twice. Wierd.
Grammer
It has always been an issue, right in the very begin dear. SINCE you are sooooo much smarter A+ student blah blah blah.

Oh and by the way think yourself great because your fucking shitty attitude has basically become an advertisement for more people to join the isitnormal crowd.

Who are you to critisise when you don't even like your self.

Judge not lest ye judge thyself.

MON THE BOYS!!!!
you spelled "grammar" incorrectly
You just noticed that because Pie corrected me. So you just failed to make yourself feel intelligent.
Also, I am not the one running around screaming that I am a straight A student, because I'm not, and I am aware that I have flaws, unlike you. Oh and for you're information I am female, some people have mistaken me for a male because I don't have a name like "angelbaby" or some othe idiotic name. Oh and no, I am not a lesbian. I am very fond of men. I just felt the need to state that because you think that anyone who has flaws must be a man.
Grammer
Listen hen i'll spell grammer how i want to. I did that to annoy you. because i knew it would. That is the type of person you are. like one of those people on this site who say they go crazy when people spell things wrong or use INCORRECT GRAMMER. You are also the type of person who cannot take any critisism (spelling wrong, who cares) who goes mental when insulted, especially by a guy. Now look at whats happened. because you have not let down on the subject for so long, everytime you voice your opinion you get abuse. That is so fucking funny.

The Rev
Oh maybe I did spell it right. *laughs*
Yes you did. lol
Had to Post Again
Has the bitch shut up
No, but I answered your question on the other story. I am the opposite of a bitch.
what
a dug
Anonymous
Way Off
On your first post you were talking about how guys get bad grades anf get into more trouble and how girls tend to like everyone. Thats a load of crap. Yea some guys are like that, but an equal number of girls are like that too. And where I live, planet Earth, girls are way more catty and pissy over everything. I'm a guy and am good-looking with a 3.8 GPA in college, sure I don't act my age all the time, but who does?
My point is that your stereotypes (which you shouldn't have anyway) are way off. Guys and girls are a lot alike.
Oh, and some dykes wear pink. You don't have to be butch to be a dyke.
@: bandit
2nd guy to leave a mature comment
Your in college so your obviously smart and you happen to have my G.P.A, so your pretty much up there on the list that I call "The rare list of non jackasses" Congratulations, not sarcasticallly, you're actually the second guy to leave a mature comment. I admire you. The girls from around here[where I live], the non slutty bitchy types, are sweet and mature and are way smarter than 90% of the guys at my school. I for one happen to be one of the most smartest and well behaved at my school. There are only I few girls that are more smarter and mature than me. Most of the guys at my school are suspended everyday for being the jackasses that they are. There are only a few slutty girls at my school who get suspended on a monthly basis and even they aren't as idiotic as the guys.
And your point is
Why are you basis your argument on your high school.
I think everyone could do that. its not fair, so why bother.
@: pie1985
learning to be the voice of reason
you mention that in your area that things are different, girls are apparently smarter than guys. if you know that IN YOUR AREA things are different, then, why can't you realize that things might be different in other areas? How about that? how about thinking a little outside of your tunnel for a second and stop judging males. I also would like to ask you, being fourteen, and so smart, why do you feel like you need to attack men? i believe that everyone thinks a certain way until they experience different. I believe that you will hate men for the rest of your life until you give one a chance. Sadly, whomever you give a chance, chances are they will hurt you. You hate men because they have wronged you, more times than not. I bet you're not a dyke, nor will you hate men for the rest of your life. I have faith that you will find a man/boy that you like(for real, not just because you're a follower and pretend to flirt back)and you'll like him back, but you won't if you shut down all men at first sight. Open up, get friendly, because from the sound of things, you are not. No offense, but you're normal. Everyone that's fourteen is confused.

-Proud to be man-
time will tell
Really, time will tell. Being 14, you don't know everything - you're still learning. Unfortunately, most people never figure out who they are, but does it really matter for you?
As for boys getting mature and not being stinky, wait a few years. Physique attributes usually develop before mental attributes in guys (maturing fully around 23). From all the experiences I've had (and read about), women don't fully mature until around 26. Of course there are exceptions.
All I can suggest is to worry about yourself before looking at other people. You'll be much happier.
Power Brain
while everyone is talking about being so smart, i have 3.7 GPA, majoring in chemical engineering at the University of Utah.
So do I, but I'm in middle school.
Being Smart
Now you are being stuck up about it. I hate that but then i'll say i have a higher than average IQ. who cares. I don't

What the fuck has that got to do with the original post.

Also my boyfriend is smarter than me by 2 points in an IQ test. But i have better grades than him, what does that prove. Bugger all
@: pie1985
JEEZ!
well damnit, i just like to brag okay?! who cares? i care. you don't have to be so negative all the time. i think skybird knows the error of her ways now, judging everyone by what they fuck with, be it a vagina/penis.
Anonymous
Beware the fake Leo.
Leo, there is someone on here posing as you. They have your name spelled correctly, but failed to realize the numbers at the end of his/her name is what distinguishes you two. The real Leo's number begins with an 8(i think) and has 3 digits. The fake one is posing as gay, and has a 4 digit number starting with the number 1. Good luck to yall, and may God be with you.

Is it normal to fake another poster?

If you keep erasing this, I will keep posting it. We can play this game, and he will get the message. I like Leo, and you will not play him. Also, I will post this in every comments message board he has posted recently. So don't waste my time or yours.
I have scientific evidence!!! :)
Ok heres the results for a "brain gender" test I have just taken and I have scientific evidence in my results indicating that women are empathetical and use more literary terms than men. Here is my results that I copied and pasted below.


Emotions and Systems
This task looked at whether you prefer to empathise or systemise.

Empathising

Your empathy score is: 16 out of 20
Average score for men: 7.9 out of 20
Average score for women: 10.6 out of 20


What does your result suggest?

Empathisers are better at accurately judging other people's emotions and responding appropriately. If you scored 15 and above, you are very empathic and would be an ideal person to comfort people in a time of crisis. Women in general are better at empathising.

note from Skybird: go scientific evidence! *does a victory dance* And also here is the literacy test portion that I have also copied and pasted from the actual test.




Words
This task looked at your verbal fluency.

Your score: you associated 14 word(s) with grey and you named 13 word(s) that mean happy. We are assuming that all the words you entered are correct.

Average score for men: 11.4 words total
Average score for women: 12.4 words total

What does your result suggest?

If you produced 1 - 5 words: You are more of the strong, silent type with a male brain. You probably find it easier to express yourself in non-verbal ways, preferring action rather than words.

If you produced 6 - 10 words: Most people in this range have a female-type brain.

Women are said to use both sides of the brain when doing verbal tasks while men mainly use their left side. Studies have shown that girls develop vocabulary faster than boys. This difference in brain power is caused by levels of pre-natal testosterone. Find out more please visit http://www.bbc.co.uk.com


Note to all readers:[from skybird] Please don't kill me! :) I just thought I 'd add this in here.
Pink Is Cool
I am behind you 100%, I say if you don't like them then just don't like them, and don't worry about what the other s--thead think.
You hate men?
WELL MEN HATE YOU YOU FAT CUNT. U ARE FROM THE PLANET LEZBOS AND CLEARLY HAVE A 3-INCH COCK WHICH IS WHY UR SO UPTIGHT AS YOU CAN'T GET YOUR HOLE BECAUSE NO ONE IS DESPERATE ENOUGH, OR DRUNK ENOUGH, TO SHAG YOU. YE HAIRY DYKE
Could you be asexual? If you're a lesbian, just go for it.
Since you mention you feel this way with both guys and gals it may be a fear of being close to someone/intimate. Anger may be how you cope with this fear because if you become angry it will stop you from being close to someone. The girls you are friends with are platonic I'm assuming but the guys pose a threat of wanting more, threaten you by perhaps wanting intimacy and it makes you uncomfortable and resentful. If you have no sexual interest whatsoever in either girls or guys that is unusual and may be due to a medical condition. You are only age 14 so I suggest you wait a year and see if anything changes with regard to your interest or lack thereof. If no change occurs, I suggest you speak to a specialist. Good luck to you.
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