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my violent bf
hi. i been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and i love him to death. during the first year together he was so sweet to me and because i got so close to him i let him take my virginity , but the second year together he started acting cold against me and whatever i do or say is wrong in his eyes...the most shoking thing that i cant understand why is that he hits me on a regular basis,he hits me other really small things like , if im late meeting him or if im on the phone to my m8s. my m8s are telling me to dump him but he said if i dump him then he said he will do something..im really scared , the thing that hurts the most is that i love him to bits and all he does is beat me up? i have bruises all up my arms and back , luckily i have managed to hide them well.my ex boyfriend is really worried about me because i confinded in him , he and a few of my mates are the only ones that know. no one will do anything to help me because hes very popular and has a reputation in fighting , dont tell me to go to the police because its not just as simple as that.....i need to get out of this relationship before its too late! any ideas , and please i need sensible ideas
plz help
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sweetie you should get out of this relationship right now before it gets alot worse.try talking to your parents about all of this because they might be able to protect you , you dont deserve this and its wrong what hes doing. i understand that you love him and yeah it proberly is hard to escape from him.i no you said dont bother telling you to go to the police but that is the safest option i can think of. violent relationships often leads to them killing you and it could happen to you if you dont do something right now. dont be scared,just get out of this relationship right now otherwise soon you will regret that you didn't.
go to anyone for help because this website will be no help for you at all
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explain to him how you feel, and tell him you will have to take actions...if he is still mean to you then stop seeing him...nobody deserves this kind of relationship...very sad sometimes.
I know this'll sound stupid but try running away when he asleep and stay with your parents and do not tell him where you are and if for some reason he finds out and is harrassing you get those guys you spoke of (your ex nd his friends or sumfin) getem to beat the crap out of him send him a message and if he continues you have to call the police it is the very safest thing for you to do I know you said not to but this situation could get real ugly real fast. He could very well be arrested for what he did and I know you say you love him but just think of all the things he does to you think about how he makes you feel and your love should fade he doesnt deserve your love leave before it is too late!
I would hit him back. Beat the shit out of the fuckin jerk and then see if his dumbass touches- or even looks at you in the wrong way ever again. Guys can be so fuckin stupid.
What you need to do is wait for him to go to work and get all your stuff together,load it in your car and get the fuck out of there.If you don't have a car then call one of your friends to come get you.After that you need to go directly to the police station and file a restraining order against him.If you cant stay with a friend stay in a battered women's shelter or with family.My sister was a battered woman and i know from experience that the situation will get worse before it gets better.He will probably get progressively more violent to the point where he might kill you.Teach him you are not going to tolerate this behavior or pay the consequences.
I know that feeling, Loving a man which brings pain in more than one way. But I would say you need to walk away and walk away soon. If you don't you will be some where you don't want to be after so many years.
I just got out of a relationship that is like this, i still miss him, love him, and care for him. But for my sake of my life I walked away.
People are saying practically run get out when hes gone pack and go. ITS NOT THAT EASY!
Especially when you care for him or want to help. But what I would do is get a cop there to help you out with your stuff. Tell them he is violent and you just want to move out. You grab your things and say good bye and if anything happens he will get into trouble for it.File against him if you feel its needed and just move on with your life and dont talk to him again. His actions will catch up to him.
oh what's a little beating now and then? I like having my fat white ass spanked then drinking chinese baby-boy urine.
you said you "love him to death"

well, maybe you're right, because hes gonna kill you one day.

get out of there.
u shoud leave him and go to the cops if he beats u like u say he does he needs help and they can get him the help he deserves i hope u make the rite choice soon for your sake
You are nothing but a diseased cunt.
If you wait to get out of this relationship, you're only allowing the ties that bind you two together to become stronger.


Get out right now!

Men like this don't change for anyone and you will only be an outlet for his rage and anger for the rest of your life if you let him keep this hold over you.

It's ok to love a person. But it's not ok to allow another person to abuse you because you think you'll never find a better love than that.

You WILL find a better love, and you'll find someone who would rather kill themselves than hurt you in any way....and that's the kind of man you deserve. Nobody deserves an abusive partner.
Your a loser. I hope your ass is laughing cause if this poor sap is telling the truth, it is folks like you that blow them off and they stay circling the drain.
@ Poster
Get the phuck away from that bastard. No one on earth should be in an abusive relationship. But we have only heard one side of the story- my attorney (in my divorce) tells me their is 3 sides to every divorce, his side, her side, and the truth. Do you ever push him around cause you like the abuse then AW HA I am sorry hunny we can have make up sex. if so, you are the cuase not the fix. Either way you should figure out that you need out.
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star im sorry there mean to u there all losers
you should find an organization in your area that helps battered women. they have seen it all before and will know how to help you. you can probably find one in your local area on the internet.

good luck honey and may God be with you.
Jealous?

Why would anyone be jealous of a girl who probably couldn't lift a toaster oven without help?


Perhaps it's time for you to release some of this anger you've built up over the years of being such a cunt.
Piss on yourself moron.


It doesn't matter what "mood" you were in. You are a heartless cold bitch and you can't even realize that your words are all we need to realize this.
Max.

Instead of taking the word of a "girl" who goes around insulting others behind their backs I suggest you use your own mind to decide your own opinion.

Good luck!
It's not your weight, it's your strength moron.

Whether this story is true or not doesn't matter. There is a chance it's true and if it is than your reply is one of the most heartless comments made by a cunt like yourself.

And since you obviously don't know much about how a woman's body works I'll let you in on something....it's not piss that comes out when a woman squirts.
Maybe it's time for you to update yourself on how a woman's body works for real instead of relying on first hand experience with every man you can lay your hands on to educate you on how your body works.

See how I assumed something about you and used it as an insult? That's exactly what you have been doing and now I'm sure you'll be offended and cry about me insulting you and you won't even realize it's exactly how you've been acting this whole time.
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