my violent bf
hi. i been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and i love him to death. during the first year together he was so sweet to me and because i got so close to him i let him take my virginity , but the second year together he started acting cold against me and whatever i do or say is wrong in his eyes...the most shoking thing that i cant understand why is that he hits me on a regular basis,he hits me other really small things like , if im late meeting him or if im on the phone to my m8s. my m8s are telling me to dump him but he said if i dump him then he said he will do something..im really scared , the thing that hurts the most is that i love him to bits and all he does is beat me up? i have bruises all up my arms and back , luckily i have managed to hide them well.my ex boyfriend is really worried about me because i confinded in him , he and a few of my mates are the only ones that know. no one will do anything to help me because hes very popular and has a reputation in fighting , dont tell me to go to the police because its not just as simple as that.....i need to get out of this relationship before its too late! any ideas , and please i need sensible ideas
plz help
go to anyone for help because this website will be no help for you at all
I just got out of a relationship that is like this, i still miss him, love him, and care for him. But for my sake of my life I walked away.
People are saying practically run get out when hes gone pack and go. ITS NOT THAT EASY!
Especially when you care for him or want to help. But what I would do is get a cop there to help you out with your stuff. Tell them he is violent and you just want to move out. You grab your things and say good bye and if anything happens he will get into trouble for it.File against him if you feel its needed and just move on with your life and dont talk to him again. His actions will catch up to him.
well, maybe you're right, because hes gonna kill you one day.
get out of there.
Get out right now!
Men like this don't change for anyone and you will only be an outlet for his rage and anger for the rest of your life if you let him keep this hold over you.
It's ok to love a person. But it's not ok to allow another person to abuse you because you think you'll never find a better love than that.
You WILL find a better love, and you'll find someone who would rather kill themselves than hurt you in any way....and that's the kind of man you deserve. Nobody deserves an abusive partner.
@ Poster
Get the phuck away from that bastard. No one on earth should be in an abusive relationship. But we have only heard one side of the story- my attorney (in my divorce) tells me their is 3 sides to every divorce, his side, her side, and the truth. Do you ever push him around cause you like the abuse then AW HA I am sorry hunny we can have make up sex. if so, you are the cuase not the fix. Either way you should figure out that you need out.
good luck honey and may God be with you.
Why would anyone be jealous of a girl who probably couldn't lift a toaster oven without help?
Perhaps it's time for you to release some of this anger you've built up over the years of being such a cunt.
It doesn't matter what "mood" you were in. You are a heartless cold bitch and you can't even realize that your words are all we need to realize this.
Instead of taking the word of a "girl" who goes around insulting others behind their backs I suggest you use your own mind to decide your own opinion.
Good luck!
Whether this story is true or not doesn't matter. There is a chance it's true and if it is than your reply is one of the most heartless comments made by a cunt like yourself.
And since you obviously don't know much about how a woman's body works I'll let you in on something....it's not piss that comes out when a woman squirts.
Maybe it's time for you to update yourself on how a woman's body works for real instead of relying on first hand experience with every man you can lay your hands on to educate you on how your body works.
See how I assumed something about you and used it as an insult? That's exactly what you have been doing and now I'm sure you'll be offended and cry about me insulting you and you won't even realize it's exactly how you've been acting this whole time.